Thank you.

Where did you find all those INTJ's in one place and befriended them too lol?

That sounds almost exactly like INFJ women (well, at least myself) except that I can be an emotional wreck who can't rationalize until the "storm" has cleared a bit sometimes. However, with an intuitive feeler (at least for me) I've found it more difficult to lay boundaries and be firm, and instead try to understand everything to the point that I second guess myself. Slowly trying to condition myself out of those. Lol

I liked to read what you wrote about happiness

Well said.

yes

True story

lol

that is epically constructive. cheers.

what about Ivannah?http://www.anyclip.com/movies/mallrats/topless-psychic/

Truer words have not been spoken. It is indeed in the perspective as opposed to material gains (by that I also mean emotion, as it is fleeting)

You don't have to rub it in...

Interesting, last week, in one of my soul searching momments, I decided to write down my most elusive goal. But instead, the title that came out of my pen was "What make me happy?".

Why isn't your anecdote just as anecdotal? "Duty" is quite ambiguous, so your/your relatives interpretation of the slogan is just as subjective as anyone else.

Well he's an unapologetic anarchist with a slew of articles on the subject from various points. The first work I read by him was on "Blueprintism", and I thought it was an excellent response to demands of system replacements. Everyone has a motive, so anyone who assumes a writer does not is naive anyway.

Too funny.

Yes.

Thanks, I try to live by that philosophy. I find it easier to take responsibility for my life. It's more satisfying than playing the blame game. I have never subscribed to a "victim" mentality, it is the antithesis of enpowerment.

Succinctly put. I know exactly what you mean.

I don't give sympathy, I give respect.