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Oh. See, I took your comment about improving your avatar as a joke, with the scoff as part of the joke. Not as an indication that it was a joke. I was playing along whilst entering debate, which I find more interesting than simply bantering about nothing.
Guys LOVE a smart woman. What we don't like, is someone who is so smart and capable, that she doesn't have any use for us at all. Ask us questions, about stuff that you know we know about, that you would like to know more about. We're suckers for that.
As to INTPs, I had this idea, that since you have our tertiary and inferior functions, Fi-Se, that if you were working with us, you might bring us to be more expressive and understandable to others.
Yes, I agree. I don't dress that way IRL. I always leave something to the imagination, but online... Well you get the picture. I don't know why women think they have to flaunt everything. You can dress more demurely and still be very sexy. It just has to be done right and tastefully.
To each his (or her) own. Still, to me, sexy is a good deal more subtle. I like whatever can keep me trying to imagine what's hidden; when it's just sitting in front of you, it's not as interesting. It just feels like a sensory assault.
And I've nothing against pretty avatars. Honestly, we don't get enough here.