Hasn't it always been primarily the duty of women to raise children? And the authoritarian fathers were away at work most o the time. I cannot see how this old system would have been better.
Maybe boys really are more disorientd by the way society is veeeeery slowly changing.
And I agree, it's difficult.

Men and women respect different things. Personally I think that stuff like men not doing so well in school/college lately has to do with them not being led by their fathers/parents like boys but rather treated as their mothers think is a good idea... something that doesn't produce as much motivation in boys.

Which is only to say that cross-gender relations aren't always simple and straight-forward. Nor is, what is right, always so obvious.

Thanks for the suggestion. Unfortunately two users aren't allowed to have the same avatar so our admins would object. In any case, I picked a new one that I like.

Hi! Here is what you can do to get your avatar back: go to the image, click on it directly with your right mouse button, save it locally on your computer and then upload it (option 2).
The other user will still have 'your' avatar but at least you do not depend on this person releasing it.

I was just clicking around in the nohari window to see what it is - just a test. This has nothing to do with reality.

I saw your name in the nohari window. But anyway, this avatar is fairly positive. Might well be a good thing to try to pick up some of the feelings this one represents... to try to let yourself be more peaceful and naturally happy.