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Conversation Between Kryptonite and curiousgeorge01
I pop in sometimes. Read a few posts. I got swamped at school and in the lab for awhile so I avoided any distractions I could- but I'm still here. Still moaning about some INTJ guy or another. Apparently I'm some kind of homing signal for INTJs. Go figure. How is everything with you?
i am good at cards because once I have played the person once I understand how their mind analyses the cards and can predict what their bids mean. No poker face though. that and I feel bad when I win bc someone else looses.
Easy just ignore everyone for the opposite reason; b/c you can't read anything . Hyperbole. Just can't read it a lot of the time. You should learn poker then, a lot of it is about body language/reading faces.
I am fascinated with this point of view. I keep ear buds in almost day and night everywhere I go with music and often walk without looking people in the face because I can instantly tell how they are feeling and most of the time can guess a lot about why. It makes me exhausted by the end of the day because I generally end up comforting someone for something and then cannot stop feeling the energy until I know it is better. I can hear a voice in most people's typing-speech patterns and discern the mood and character behind it. Worse is that I can pick up lies and superficial commentary in all forms, except, when I am romantically inclined towards them. then I am as lost as anyone. I cannot imagine navigating through live without the ability.
Depends on their reaction. If they plainly say "I am hurt by what you said" I would apologize and explain what I meant. If they continue arguing and get more emotional, my assumption would be that they're trying to make a failing argument. But I can't differentiate desperately defending with "I don't want to talk about this."
I can take a guess but I'm not particularly good at it. Someone else on this forum pointed out I may be a minor Aspie from my arguments and I could see that in real life. Often I don't pick up when a discussion is turning into an argument when someone is getting offended. I still think it's a regular discussion until someone bursts.
NOOOO. I didnt give a shit if he was judging anything. What irritated me was that he was a child and rubbing his hands together trying to pick a fight while I was trying to help someone. I was not interested in debating. what was happening was important regardless of whether or not my assessment was entirely spot on. I still think it was, but being "correct" or having a "man hater" conversation was completely irrelevant and served to actually soften Ts resolve and attitude, right as she was about to have a personal revelation about herself. I wanted to punch that self important dumbass. Still do. What an idiot.