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Because I was rooting around in my control panel looking for the friend thingie I ended up reading some of my old warning and infraction threads from back when I was a hot-headed punk. Good times. You get credit for me enjoying the last half hour.
It's probably better than some of the other stuff you might try. Text can help strip out the distractions. At any rate, INTJs don't care about your feelings. Emotions aren't valuable. Insight, on the other hand, is valuable. If you can explain what you see and why you like it in such a way that you demonstrate insight, he would probably be touched. No guarantees, but, you know, that approach has a higher success rate.