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uhhh... i bet you chase oppossums you naughty dog you!
you bet i want something better, but every time i strive for it, i get beat down like with the DJ biz i tried to start and now chasing love with someone i just can't get past arguing with in an even deeper hole i can't figure a way out of.
i've been celibate a dozen years now. i REALLY need to get laid like you wouldn't believe!
it just feels like the world is going out of it's way to punish me for being who i am when i'm not that bad except around aholes where i'm always up to raise the stakes, and yeah... it is getting troublesome.
the most peace of mind i've had in years was camping out the better part of a month in a nice out of town location with all manner of critters for neighbors waking me up even if it rained a lot and got down into the 40s or maybe even 30s every morning. it beat the crap out of uppity neighbors doing crap like banging my wall with coat hangars LITERALLY every 3 minutes or less ALL EFFING NIGHT LONG (honest, i have it on tape with a detailed log even)
i can't get to a peace of mind spot, and every time i do, someone pulls the rug out from under me like a sock puppet.
thanks for your concern. it's nice to know not everyone has it in for me.
as far as i can see, the same old same old INTJ meets a world full of "do the wrong thing assholes" that are hostile to my "need to be right". i'm trying to figure out what i'm doing next. i HAD a plan in oregon that included DJing to grease the wheels so to speak as the music out there SUCKS with wannabe gangstas and souless techno and even acquired almost a complete sound system i was really close to getting gig ready, but neighbors and oregon in general kept getting in the way. i had a flip phone i never got to use for the biz because the instruction manual didn't show what all of the buttons were and the weren't labeled on the phone itself so i gave up in disgust as i didn't really need the phone at the time and all of my minutes evaporated. then, when i bought more minutes months later, the battery refused to take a charge.
i swear, the world is trying to keep me from being happy. i'm here to chase a woman who, let's just say "likes being in charge" that refuses to accept my love of marijuana, but doesn't see flaunting her taste for champagne in my face as in any way hypocritical, so we just keep arguing because i have utter contempt for any and all authority.
if i had my way, i'd just become a hermit because i've had it with everyone and their social stratification games.
all i can see in the future is an eventual confrontation with one asshole too many that turns me into a lifer. not one but THREE aholes were going out of their way to test my boundaries where i'm staying last night in a 4 bed dorm including some effing nutcase who doesn't even belong there coming in repeatedly and turning the light on and then complaining that we're all "dirty slobs with smelly feet" (i just showered and the other dude didn't stink either) who then started spraying the room down with cologne followed by the third guy coming in and slamming something loudly.
i've fucking had it with not being able to find a personal safe zone with peopletesting my boundaries at every turn or fucking standing in my way every attempt i make to be able to afford it.
the things we do for love, right? i still say it's just woman's way to keep me from indulging in legal med use. that seems to be the only thing that motivates her to me, keeping me from getting high. meanwhile, she drinks alcohol which nearly killed me.
huh? what? i was being sarcastic in the thread where someone mentioned "saying the wrong thing"
i don't know what you're talking about especially in the linked thread. just saying, i'm a loner & i don't go for any social stratification. i just want to step right up to whoever thinks they're in charge & punch them.
don't have or want a posse. not my style at all. people only get me into trouble anyways. i like trading sarcasm in the game room & greeting noobs & all, but i just consider everyone acquaintances, especially my new fatal attraction i never even put out for.
if i said anything offensive to you, or even take the wrong tone in a greeting, point it out right there... don't mind z-em... his censor button's broke, but he's mostly harmless.
it is ferreting out who doesn't like you though so you know where you stand. i get distinct eff you vibes from a few members here too. i just like little "right back atchas" there.