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Don't be weird and eccentric, be stylish and confident. Try it. The worst that could happen is that no one is interested. BTW, I do know about speed dating, as we have it in Tokyo. I've never done it myself, but I was tempted to try in the past. But the thing about the time limits... 5 minutes or something like that. Seems like Extroverts would prevail at that sort of thing. I spent a summer in Ireland once. A bit further down the coast from you, though. In Dungarvan...
No. You want to be the only guy in formal wear. You want women to notice and remember you, and standing out in a positive way is a good way to achieve that. Where in Ireland are you, by the way?
