Yes, ALL INFPs are crazy emo freaks with BPD, just like ALL INTJs are control-freak assholes extraordinaire with ramped up amounts of narcissism and superiority complexes and ALL INFJs are passive-agressive socially awkward nerds with self-righteous holier than though Jesus complexies.

And dude, women are not biologically programmed to mate with scum. They are biologically programmed to mate with what appears to be superior genetics and/or superior parenting skills, etc. Maybe you just don't appear to be superior...