Truth or truth game

[rahdam]

Drawing a blank. Sorry.

You?

[Nikita]

music and/or sleep - i expect something else will take the place of sleep in the future, but i'm not ready to do that


What do you call your grandparents?

[rahdam]

Grandma and Grandpa. Nothing original.

Do you favor certain parents/grandparents over others? (blood only)

[Nikita]

my mom's mom - her death is one i will NOT handle well


You?

[rahdam]

I favor certain relatives for certain attributes. As much as I'd like to portray it as separate but equal, I am most attached to my dad and his dad. They are both real men, and I draw a lot of inspiration from both of them.

Ruby or Emerald or Sapphire?

[Nikita]

sapphire

(dang that was random, lol)


Tongue piercing or belly button ring?

[rahdam]

Neither.

You?

[Nikita]

i've considered getting a tongue piercing before, but never have


How many pillows do you sleep with?

[rahdam]

Two. Sometimes I'll slam a third between my legs when I'm sleeping on my side.

Have you ever slept with a guy (non sexually)?

[Nikita]

i used to have to share a bed with my brother at family get togethers, but other than that, no...i used to cover my head with my own pillow b/c he'd be moaning and making out with his own in his sleep, lol


You, but with a girl?

[rahdam]

Yep.

Do you think that's wrong?

[Nikita]

No

Why would it be wrong?

[rahdam]

Some of my friends give me a hard time about it!

What is your favorite thing to do on a fri/sat night?

[Nikita]

hang out with good friends


Yours?

[rahdam]

Train/Friends/Board Game/Kick It/

Karin and I won a MEAN skipbo tournament last saturday :D

[Nikita]

haha, didn't know you played that in teams

oh, question:

What are your thoughts on physical affection at this point in your life?

[rahdam]

Can you be more specific? (Question AND answer)

[Nikita]

Do you like it, do you allow yourself to experience it, what are you comfortable with?

[rahdam]

Clothes stay on at all times.
If someone wants to hug me, I'll hug them back, but I won't initiate it.
If someone wants to kiss me, I'll dodge and take off.
I have everything I need, and I'm willing to wait for what I want.

You?

[Nikita]

I used to be affectionate as a kid, but something changed and I've been anti-affection ever since, even though I love it. I've just reached a point where I don't want random people touching me at all. Honestly, part of it is that I get...well, turned on, really easily, and I don't need random touches fueling that.


What is your month of birth?

[rahdam]

August. You?

[Nikita]

November


How many pets have you had?

[rahdam]

Personally, none.
Family, 2 dogs that I can remember.

What month are the guys you are attracted to born in (oh yes, I remember you saying this)? And why do you think that this month is special?

[Nikita]

it's been march and april usually - i don't think it's special, it's just a trend i noticed - nothing ever came of any of it because they've all been players and i refuse to be played


How would your friends describe you in addition to being chill?

[rahdam]

Deceptively intelligent, athletic, "a beast", funny, friendly, good-looking, trusthworthy, loyal, unselfish.

Do you think that everyone else is not turned on as easily by bodily contact?

[Nikita]

I doubt most are turned on "as easily"...though I'd imagine there are definitely some


What do you think your life would be like if you'd given into your urges when you first experienced them?

[rahdam]

I would not be doing the things I am doing now. I would have been just another boy who refuses to grow up. It seems to be a common archetype now.

You?

[Nikita]

I would probably be a raging nymphomaniac with no standards...most likely with STDs and children


What is your relationship with your brother like?

[MacGuffin]

What is your relationship with your brother like?

Is this a conversation or can anyone play? :nice:

My relationship(s) with my brothers are pretty good, though I now live 1000 miles away. Women are usually the problem, if there is one.

How well do you get along with your parents/guardians (or did if they are dead)?

[aok]

Fairly well.


Would you be friends with a clone version of yourself?

[rahdam]

yes. But then again, I will be friends with almost anyone.

Would you ever clone yourself?

[Nikita]

no, but my boss would


Would you or have you ever cut yourself?

[rahdam]

No. I become really mad when I know people who do.
I'm not mad at them, I'm mad that they feel that way that they need to cut.

How do you deal with someone who cuts themself?

[Nikita]

I try to figure out what pain they have inside that they're trying to make tangible by the cutting.


What is the weirdest thing to happen to you today?

[rahdam]

The first thing I hear when I walked into school today (from a MALE student, in serious voice) "Mr. ****** should be a model."

You?

[Nikita]

I was at the car dealership making them fix something they screwed up a few days ago, and another guy in the waiting area stood in front of me, head cocked, and was just staring. He stopped when he noticed one of the techs watching him...I just stared straight ahead until he stopped.


What has been the most memorable part of your day?

[rahdam]

It was Rob's last day, he's moving. He was part of the break crew, he will be missed.

You?

[Nikita]

A friend, ESTP, picked me up for lunch along with another friend of his and decided to take a different route than usual (we meet once a week). Well we got a little lost and he must have hydroplaned at least 5 times, I lost count, because he was hot-dogging it and showing off (I think he was showing off for the friend, the friend thinks it was for me). We ended up in the ghetto, one of the worst in the city, almost got hit by a car that ran a red light, and then when we were almost to where we were going, he was driving in the right lane with cars parked in it up ahead, a big truck in the left lane, and he just gunned it and swerved in front of the truck with about a 2 inch margin of error (it was Italian job train close). I would have said something, but once he was committed I just had to trust his reflexes and not distract him. It was adrenaline-pumping fun, but also a little scary.


What do you still have left to do today?

[rahdam]

INTENSE workout, finish a flim I started watching a few days ago, finish a form for UCSF SOM. I MAY go train again tonight, I'm thinkin' it over. I need to workout though, regardless.

I was thinking about what you said. Do you get turned on by ANYONE touching you, or only those you find attractive?

[Nikita]

anyone, that's the problem - male or female...and it disgusts me sometimes


What is the most frustrating part of being you?

[rahdam]

I feel compelled to do more. If I run out of things to do, I feel incomplete.

You?

[Nikita]

I'm insanely purpose driven, even when I'm not sure about what my purpose is. That, coupled with being good at almost anything I try gives me actually too many options, and it's hard to choose. I'm worried about making the wrong choice.


What type is your best friend/confidant?

[rahdam]

ENFP, ESTP(with good N), INFP, INTP, I can tell any of them anything.

You?

[Nikita]

I don't have a confidant.


What is the purpose behind the training that you do?

[rahdam]

I think I have said this before.
I love to compete, and I love to fight with my full physical and mental faculties.
That said, the real reason is that when necessary, I will be able to protect my wife.

Why did you train martial arts?

[Nikita]

As a kid? Because I thought it would be fun. Now, I want to learn the techniques for self-defense and defense of others, but also for the discipline.


What are your thoughts on divorce?

[rahdam]

I am opposed. Love takes work. Love can oscillate. If you work at a relationship, you can keep it fresh for the rest of your life. I would never walk out on someone I have committed my life to.

You?

[Nikita]

While I can recognize that some relationships are exceedingly unhealthy and need to end, I don't ever plan to end a marriage that I commit to because I know I'll have thought it through carefully and not jumped into anything.


What is your favorite daydream/fantasy?

[rahdam]

Sex. Hard sex. With my wife. Ass pounding doggie style. Honest truth.

Yours?

[Nikita]

mine is weird...it's being tortured nonstop for over a year, but gutting it out and beating them in the end, never once cracking


Is that bizarre?

[rahdam]

It is bizarre, but strangely predictable given your predispositions.

Is mine bizarre?

[Nikita]

Nope.


What is your favorite joke to tell?

[rahdam]

My humor is largely physical/situational, I really do not tell jokes persay, it's not my style. I did have a lot of people laughing today as I was whimsically, yet analytically dissecting the internal logic of the statement "I didn't say shit!"

What is your favorite joke?

[Nikita]

It's interactive and is best in a group setting. Do it as you read this. Hold out your hand palm up. I place a blonde, a brunette, and a redhead in your palm. Pick up the blonde and stand her on your nose. Does that feel like your first time? (You say: No) Put her back and stand the brunette on your nose. Does that feel like your first time? (You say: No) Put her back and stand the redhead on your nose. Does that feel like your first time? (You say: No) Put her back in your hand. Now close your hand and shake them all up. Does that feel like your first time?


What is the most reckless thing you've done with or for a friend?

[rahdam]

Back in my fraternity days, I took a girl to one of our annual themed house parties...it was a big deal. She was super juiced about the whole thing, but she bit off more than she could chew with the alcohol and ended up passing out. She was a good girl, and this is NOT what I wanted. I didn't want her to wake up to the inevitable bullshit she was going to catch (She peed per pants while out...all over the place), so I picked her up while drunk myself and started carrying her home. She woke up on the way back, and we walked and talked the rest of the way. We were both still piss ass drunk, and we found ourselves hiding from campus police on the way back. It was stupid, but I know I did the right thing at the end of the day.

You?

[Nikita]

A very fast and very curvy drive to the airport. They were screaming. (These were acquaintances not friends, but still.) I drive more responsibly now, that was back in college.


What is the most memorable daydream you've had today, if any?

[rahdam]

I haven't really had a daydream yet today, I've been talking to people all day long.

Do you have time to daydream during the day?

[Nikita]

I think it just has to occur while you're awake.


What would your reaction be to a road trip without a working stereo?

[rahdam]

I'd bring a portable music player and some speakers, hook it to the car battery, and make it work. A raod trip without a working stereo just isn't the same!

Most memorable road trip?

[Nikita]

Driving 15 hours alone, without stopping except for gas, with one bottle of strawberry fruit2O, a bag of doritos, and an out of order stereo/cd player, lol.


What if it was working when you left and crapped out within the first hour?

[rahdam]

I'd live with it. I can just as easily become lost in my thoughts.

Have you ever taken a road trip with other people?

[Nikita]

only family, i'd love to do it sometime with a guy, but only in a relationship...


Can you tie a cherry stem into a knot with your tongue?

[rahdam]

Nope.

Would you ever partake in the giving or recieving of oral pleasure while driving?

[Nikita]

I can't say I wouldn't...but it'd depend on his driving skills and the road.


Would you?

[rahdam]

Most definitely. But I think as a guy, it'd be harder to get the angle right on a girl given the internalization of the genetalia.

Would you rather drive for 10 hours straight with only bathroom breaks or saunter down the highway in 2 hour intervals?

[Nikita]

Either, drive if alone or with someone, saunter only if with someone


What is your driving style like?

[rahdam]

Lead foot, Smooth.
I'm a good driver.

Would you rather bike or run to work?

[Nikita]

Bike...I live pretty far from it


If a friend were in a car accident, would you tell them to take a taxi to the hospital while you went to a scheduled BJJ class?

[rahdam]

lol, that's fucked up. Of course I'd go pick up my friend.

...What is your favorite hobby?

[Nikita]

singing, photography, and writing


Yours?

[rahdam]

BJJ, weights, anime, biology/chemistry/physics

If your friend got in an accident, would you ditch a scheduled voice lesson to go pick them up or tell them to get a taxi :-p

[Nikita]

I'd go get them.


If you were any type other than INTJ, which type do you think you'd be?

[rahdam]

So I am reasonably sure that I am an E.
My N is strong, but my S is strong as well. (one does not come at the expense of another)
My T is a definite preference.
My J/P is borderline, and I might trend J, but it could go either way.

enTj perhaps?

What do you type me as? (as if its possible online)

[Nikita]

EXTX of some sort...you don't come across Iish, and I think that your Se is very well-developed, yet your N is definitely prevalent...you remind me a bit of my ESTP friend, but more intellectual


Do you think you'll ever be done improving yourself?

[rahdam]

Now that's a silly question, of course not.
Perfection is only an ideal.

At what age will you stop improving yourself (See what I did there ;) )

[Nikita]

At whatever age I die. (no, I missed it :p)


What is your most unusual talent?

[rahdam]

Some of the breakin' stuff I do.
I like to pull a headstand and then push up into a handstand.
My kids would also say I have a knack for picking the stupidest similes to explain chemical and physical concepts.

You?

[Nikita]

My father thinks it's either my ability to miraculously find some way to survive every freakin' setback without any money to my name or my ability to read upside down and backwards. I can also wiggle my ears without touching them and tie a cherry stem into a knot with my tongue.


What is your favorite video game?

[rahdam]

(I read upside down and backwards too. It creeps out most people when they realize I'm reading what the are reading, and then they realize I am reading it faster than they are when I stand in front of them while they read!)

I had some great times in high school with smash brothers and Goldeneye. Sometimes during the cross country and track seasons, we would run off to a friend's house to play. Then we'd come back, and splash water all over ourselves to make it look like we had been running and sweating the whole time. We also used to run to my house once in a while for impromptu pool tournaments (I won, always!).

Do you play video games?

[Nikita]

I don't own any consoles, but I play when others do. I love Wii Sports (I'm nearly invincible in bowling and boxing) and SSX3 for Xbox, I kick butt at racing, but not so much at the tricks. My cousin always makes me play Harry Potter because I can beat the whole game in a weekend.


What is your favorite book?

[rahdam]

The Count of Monte Cristo OR A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court.
I literally laugh everytime I read about the machine guns mowing down the knights of the round table.

Yours?

[Nikita]

(lol that sentence alone made me laugh)

The Satires of Juvenal translated by Rolfe Humphries. As much as the modern female in me should hate it, I crack up reading his commentary on the women of the day. (It's a social satire written in 4 AD.)


When you have to remember to do stuff, how do you keep track of it? (planner, pda, post-its, head, etc.)

[rahdam]

I write it down and slap a post-it on my wall above my desk.

What is your organizational system?

[Nikita]

I remember it (I've said many times that my brain is my filofax), but sometimes I'll write it on my hand. My theory with that is that if I lose my hand, I have bigger things to worry about than what was written on it.


How do you envision proposing to your future wife?

[rahdam]

A couple ideas:
1. Skydiving...In midair crashing down to earth at terminal velocity.
2. Snowboarding...slide off to the side and pop the question.
3. After a BJJ competition
4. During sex

I want it to be intense.

What is your dream proposal?

[Nikita]

The only part I care about is that it's entirely private and is just me and him. A public one would drive me up the wall. But he absolutely cannot ask anyone external for permission (the proverbial request of the parents, blech). That would be a sure sign that he does not know me at all. Intense, meaningful, and private would be the ideal combination.


What are your thoughts on children, both other people's and possible future ones for yourself?

[rahdam]

I love kids, they are more honest than anyone else you will ever meet. Especially the kids from the ghetto. I relate better to most of them than I ever have to any "adult" I've ever met. When they first saw me, they had no idea that in many ways, I am very simliar to them. The trust I have with some of them them is priceless.

For myself, I can go for kids or adopt. I'd like kids, but it's not necessary. After all, I'm not the one that has to give birth!

You?

[Nikita]

I love them. I've babysat over 200 (I used to be able to name 200 before I lost count) kids so far and it's probably one of the things I'm most gifted at, for some reason. I can always find that friend/authority balance. I get almost unwavering respect from them as to behavior and following the rules, yet I'm the first one they want to play with and often seek advice and comfort from.

I go back and forth between wanting my own kids and wanting to adopt, but I think I only want to be pregnant once.


What is the worst thing someone called you today?

[rahdam]

No one called me anything negative today. With the exception of the one kid who indirectly called me a "model"...I felt bad though, some of the kids were telling me that multiple people were calling one of our other teachers a "bitch" earlier in the day. I had to reprimand them, even if the guy really is incompetent...

You?

[Nikita]

a guy at work (a potential client that i had to turn down because he did not have a legal problem, and i turned him down very nicely) called me a "fu**ing bi**h"


What is the worst thing your brother or a friend has ever done to you?

[rahdam]

In fifth grade, one of my best friends told the entire class who I liked. EVERYONE! LOUDLY! It turns out, she liked me in fourth grade! Doh!...I beat the shit out of him after school on the playground (This is a true story, funny as it may sound).

What is the best thing a friend has done for you?

[Nikita]

given me a place to live


You?

[rahdam]

Plan my birthday parties/road trips =) They were crankin'

Do you ski or snowboard?

[Nikita]

I've never done either :( but I'd love to learn how to snowboard.


What did you do today that made you the happiest? (That's really poorly worded, sorry.)

[rahdam]

It's not so much what I did today, but what I've done that produced the results I saw today. Stoichiometry is one of the hardest things to teach to kids who have a 6th grade math level; I saw a lot of perfect scores today, but best of all, I saw **** doing it! And it was nuts! Because most of the staff think the boy has borderline MR. But he was doing it! It was REALLY cool to see. Really, really cool. He was in jail for assault a year ago this time.

You?

[Nikita]

(that's awesome!)
Mine is less interesting, mapped out my route to begin JAG training again, even though I was fresh from physical therapy and my back was pounding (still sore).


What is your alarm? (buzzer, certain genre of radio station, nature sounds, etc.)

[rahdam]

Buzzer. Is JAG a backup plan to Peace Corps?

[Nikita]

backup, or a possible avenue coming out of the Peace Corps


Would you rather do Doctors Without Borders or pursue politics in Washington, D.C., assuming the two were mutually exclusive?

[rahdam]

Like I said, this depends on the desires of the wife.
But Doctors without Borders sounds like a lot of fun.
Just the same, if I honestly felt that I could create more good in the lives of more people indirectly, I would pursue that avenue. Though my current experiences suggest that I succeed best where the force of my personality can be used directly.

Do you see yourself as a Harm or a Mac?

[Nikita]

translation please

[rahdam]

Did you ever see the show JAG on NBC?

Do you see yourself as a trial lawyer or an investigative lawyer?

[Nikita]

investigative (I never watched it)


What kind of headboard would you prefer to have: iron or padded, considering the uses each could be put to...?

[rahdam]

Padded, with vertical columns. Get the best of both.

Would you rather have a king bed or a twin bed?

[Nikita]

king

(would handcuffs fit around the columns?)


You?

[rahdam]

King. Two people in a double sucks a fat one.

Are you a cuddler? Or do you prefer to get some space and fall asleep when all the funky stuff is over.

[Nikita]

I have no clue. I'd be a bit surprised if I'm a cuddler.


You?

[rahdam]

Get some space. I get really really hot if I'm cuddled with someone in bed.

What is the most attractive part of the opposite sex's body?

[Nikita]

arms


Rough and tumble in the sack, or slow and sweet?

[rahdam]

Rough and tumble.

You?

[Nikita]

Rough and tumble (i'm sure that's a shock, lol :rolleyes:)


How do you feel about biting?

[rahdam]

If someone bites me, I'm pinning their ass to the bed. They are not getting up.
That is something that I have no problem doing, but I'd check that it's cool with the partner before the act.

You?

[Nikita]

I have a feeling I'm a biter, lol, and I don't think I'd be opposed to being bitten.


Plan time for sex, or do it spontaneously?

[rahdam]

Planning would kill it.
Spontaneity is the only way to go.
And wow, this thread is getting hot.

Take the time to take off the clothes, or just tear down the pants and go for it?

[Nikita]

tear down
(lol)


Abstain while company is over, or steal quickies covertly?

[rahdam]

Quickies, covertly or no-so-covertly. Secret fantasy of mine.

What do you suppose is the optimal length of discreet sexual encounters?

[Nikita]

why would i try to limit it or define it?


You?

[rahdam]

Not sure. Would have to play around with it.

Abstain while visiting your parent's house or not?

[Nikita]

not


Abstain while on an airplane, or not?

[rahdam]

Nope.

Would you unlock the backdoor? ...if you know what I mean

[Nikita]

I really don't know, it would completely depend on him.


Would you, as to...well, would you?

[rahdam]

I'd pitch.

Would you spit or swallow?

[Nikita]

(back door - not for a guy...for a girl...)

That depends on what it tastes like, and whether he's willing to try it. If he'll swallow his own once, I will.


Would you try it?

[rahdam]

I'm PMing the answer to that.

Do you think this is the hottest thread of all time on INTJf right now?

[Nikita]

it may just be, lol, it's also pretty dang exclusive aside from occasional lurkers


Did you think this thread would turn into this? lol

[abudevauhnne]

Definitely not.

What's a really profound question?

[Wapiti]

*smokes a cigarette*

Continue on.

[Nikita]

a possibly profound question: What is the difference between what you know and what you don't know? (I was really tempted to give you a dictionary definition of a profound question...but I restrained myself.)


What would you say is a profound question?

[Reganon]

Why do we need answers?

What is your favorite cereal?

[Nikita]

kashi heart to heart, i eat it dry while i drive to work, it's so good


What is your favorite chip?

[Allie]

Blue chip (pick whichever types/kind ;D )

How tall are you?

[Wapiti]

5'7.25" That .25" really matters.

How do you eat your pancakes? With fruit in them? Syrup? butter? Do you eat them at all, if not, why? Do you cut them with a knife or just use a fork? With sausage and eggs?

[schwartzie]

I eat them for lunch on Sunday at a place down the road that makes them with yeast. Two of them make a short stack 1.75 inches high. They are the best pancakes on earth, esp. when made with seasonal stuff--pumpkin at thanksgiving, eggnog or cinnamon for xmas, etc. Heaven on a plate. fruit (cinnamon and appleslices..yum.) or syrup as appropriate to the flavor. no room for anything else except coffee. I'm seldom able to finish all of a serving. This restaurant seats 12 people max. and the owner does everything-cooking, serving, etc. 'S sweet little place. oh, and yes, you need a knife and fork.

Favorite alcohol?

[SimplyOtter]

Bier, bitter.

favourite Christmas cake?

[Flamethrower]

Hate Christmas cake. :)

What do you hope to do differently in your life in 2009?

[rara avis]

school. :sick:


Would you be OK with feeding a live mouse to a snake?

[Allie]

First choice is neither. If I don't have a choice, then the mouse (the computer kind if I have my way!)

What's the first physical feature on a male/female you noticed?

[rara avis]

physical stature (does that count as a feature?)


Have you gone to a holiday party for work this year?

[Harmony]

No... and won't really be a party just a lunch for our department.

Have you ever laughed so hard you cried?

[Allie]

*works for me!*

Nope.

Have you gone to friends/neighbors Christmas parties yet?


Have you ever laughed so hard you cried?

Yes. alot!

[rara avis]

Oh, yes. There are legendary stories in my family about me laughing hysterically.


parties: Nope, and won't... the company "party" was plenty.


Have you ever cried so hard you laughed?

[Harmony]

Yes! It's usually the point where I've cried and I don't know why!

Have you ever actually slapped anyone across the face?

[rara avis]

Yes, it got me in worse trouble. (my life never works like the movies.)


Have you ever really had to wrestle- physically, and in earnest?

[MacGuffin]

Have you ever really had to wrestle- physically, and in earnest?
Yes, it was part of P.E.

Are you really surprised that sex is a common theme on this thread?

[Harmony]

Not really. Seems like almost any topic can lead to one of three things.. sex, religion, or politics.

What do you really think of Bush?

[MacGuffin]

What do you really think of Bush?

Hate his politics, but I don't think he's an idiot either. Quite cunning and his wake is filled with the corpses of those who underestimated him.

Bottled water or filtered water?

[Harmony]

I prefer filtered, I'm convinced bottled is nothing more than someone elses tap water bottled and sold for profit.

Would you ever use someone to get what you wanted?

[MacGuffin]

Would you ever use someone to get what you wanted?
Depends on your definition of "use". Sometimes both parties are using each other.

If we are talking about destroying/hurting someone else, probably not.

What's the most cruel thing anyone did to you?

[Harmony]

A girl turned an entire group of what she thought was my friends, but really they were only acquaintances, against me with vicious lies. It actually made me even more introverted than I already was.

If you could go anywhere in the world where would you go ?

[MacGuffin]

If you could go anywhere in the world where would you go ?
Fiji sounds great.

You're on vacation by yourself and the only beach nearby is a nude beach. Everyone is nude, young and old, skinny and fat, man and woman. Do you go nude as well?

[Harmony]

Sure, why not.... oh wait... do I have like SPF 100? Otherwise, I might get confused for a lobster...

In a bank robbery... If you saw an opportunity to catch the robber off guard and disarm him, would you take that chance?

[MacGuffin]

In a bank robbery... If you saw an opportunity to catch the robber off guard and disarm him, would you take that chance?
In a pure bank robbery, where the money is already insured? Hell no.

Other types of armed situations where I (or others) might be killed? Different analysis.

Batman or Superman and why?

[Harmony]

Prefer Batman... His costume isn't quite as flamboyant.... Black is a lot better than Blue, red, and yellow... And come on, it's themed after a bat. I'm all about the nocturnal. =)

Emos... Just looking for attention or really just different?

[MacGuffin]

Prefer Batman... His costume isn't quite as flamboyant.... Black is a lot better than Blue, red, and yellow... And come on, it's themed after a bat. I'm all about the nocturnal. =)

You went with a costume analysis rather than a superpower/ability comparison... interesting.

Emos... Just looking for attention or really just different?

Mostly attention.

Hardcore punk or pop-punk?

[Harmony]

I'm sad to say I'd have to go with pop-punk... And to be honest... I don't pay all that much attention to superhero type stuff. So costumes is really all I know.

Would you ever want to know when the exact day you will die is?

[Nikita]

Yes. Then I'd know how much time I have to do everything I want to do.


Would you want to know the day that the most important person in your life would die?

[Wapiti]

Yes.

Do you or would you or have you ever picked up a hitch hiker?

[Nikita]

Never have, never would.


Do you give bums money when asked?

[Wapiti]

I have in the past but haven't for a very long time. I asked the last guy I gave some change to what it was for and I didn't like his answer so he ruined it for everyone.

Do you give to charities, time or money or both or?

[Nikita]

I give time...a whole freaking lot of time, at that!


You?

[ClydeB]

I don't give those who ask for money (with some story as to why they need it) money. What I do is offer to get them what they are asking for if its something I can do. Food at the place I am going into, a ride to where they need to go, etc. Only been taken up on it once. A ride across town.

Gift giving or recieving?

[Nikita]

Giving - I love trying to find the perfect and most meaningful gift. Sometimes it's a crap shoot, but more often it results in the best reaction and the best feeling.


What would be the absolutely perfect gift for you (material or otherwise)?

[Kisai]

A scholarship.

Name the last three people that you've fantasized about.

[rara avis]

I'm only actually naming one:
1) an older E/ISTJ guy from work
2) an ENTJ girl I know
3) Howie Long
all strictly fantasy.


What's for dinner?

[Nikita]

blech nothing, if I eat dinner I think I'll puke


What's for dinner over there?

[rara avis]

an apple and peanut butter? maybe i'll see if my sister wants to go out.


what was the best thing that happened to you today?

[Nikita]

I got my car fixed and didn't have to pay for it!


You?

[Wapiti]

Thai food for lunch prepared by a Thai co-worker. I ate way too much but it was so good. I avoided the papaya salad this time cause that stuff is HOT, it burns.

What is the worst thing that happened to you today?

[Franklin71]

I discovered that the person impersonating me on some Internet bulletin board is back at it. (This person knows me, but not well enough to pull off a credible impersonation, and I can't figure out who it is.)

What one Christmas song most makes you want to murder its performer?

[Nikita]

White Christmas...it's just so slow and boring


What is your favorite Christmas song?

[Franklin71]

'Zat You, Santa Claus by Louis Armstrong.

You?

[Nikita]

Maria durch ein dornwald ging


What is your favorite genre to write?

[Franklin71]

Science fiction (fiction) or science (fact)

What was the best Christmas present you ever received?

[Nikita]

Webster's Unabridged Dictionary...in high school


What is the most embarrassing Christmas moment you've ever had?

[Franklin71]

Getting my remote-controlled helicopter stuck in my aunt's hair.

How old are you in your oldest memory?

[Nikita]

10...wait, remembered something, 6


How often were you spanked, grounded, etc. as a child?

[Franklin71]

Grounded, once, maybe twice, Spanked, more times than I can count.

Which is worse: spanking or grounding?

[Nikita]

hmm, well I don't like the restriction on control that came from grounding, but with the spanking, my dad always made me lie over his knee in as public a setting as possible to be spanked with his bare hand...he went for humiliation - I'm torn on the Pride vs. Control angle


What is the most rebellious thing you've ever done in the context of completing your punishment?

[Franklin71]

My grandmother made me pick out the switches she'd use for my spankings. So, I'd keep coming back with these dry twigs that would just break on contact until she finally got one herself. If she was going to spank me, she was going to have to do all of the work.

You?

[Nikita]

(lol that's great!)

I had refused to go see Schindler's List with my dad and brother because at the time I didn't feel like sitting through a depressing 3 hour movie. So, my dad grounded me and told me to write a 3 page essay on the meaning of family and have it done by the time they got home. I wrote a 1 page "essay" about the difference between family and slavery and denouncing his notion that children are servants of their parents.


What is best display of friendship you've ever witnessed?

[Franklin71]

Me letting the woman I was crazy about cry herself to sleep in my arms over her recent breakup even though I knew that would kill any chance I'd have with her later. Never again.

You?

[MacGuffin]

You?
Forgiveness.

Favorite depressing song?

[Franklin71]

Creep by Radiohead.

Favorite happy song?

[Reganon]

Blue sky by ELO

Got any bad habits?

[Franklin71]

Lots. Smoking. Drinking too much.

Have any illegal habits?

[Harmony]

Nope. Straight laced seems to be my middle name... Sigh... Even though I'm going through a divorce I can't even bring myself to go after one of the guys that is showing interest in me until the divorce is final...

Do you ever wish you could go back and change one thing in your life?

[Wapiti]

Yep!

You?

[Harmony]

Of course, life has a way of smacking you around every now and then.

What is your ideal career?

[MacGuffin]

What is your ideal career?

Trust fund movie producer.

Hard and fast, or gentle and long?

[rara avis]

Hard and long.

What's your main goal for the day, today?

[Harmony]

To eventually get up and go to the store... Currently, not going so well.

Do you think casual sex is okay or repulsive?

[MacGuffin]

Do you think casual sex is okay or repulsive?

I don't particularly care for it (never had it). I suppose it is okay unless it becomes a lifestyle.

Open marriages, okay or repulsive?

[Harmony]

I prefer no marriage at all. It's not my thing. I tried it, and it's not working. So never again. Well, I can't say never, but I don't think I'm cut out for it currently.

Steve Buscemi, genius or just another goof ball?

[MacGuffin]

Steve Buscemi, genius or just another goof ball?

Neither, he's good, but genius is overused.

Cats or dogs?

[Harmony]

Definitely cats for me. When I'm back in a house on my own I'll probably get a dog just for the hopes of intimidation.

Would you ever own a ferret?

[MacGuffin]

Would you ever own a ferret?

I used to own one! They are stubborn things, and need more than one so they can play with each other. You simply can't give them the attention they need every day. They also stink!

Would you own a large parrot? Realizing that it may in fact outlive you?

[Harmony]

The only parrot I would ever own is an African Grey. Fell in love with my ex's mom's parrot when he started mimicking my laugh! It was so cool! I think I'd be okay with a pet outliving me actually.... Maybe not, I don't know. I hate the thought of a pet dying, but I also hate the thought of essentially abandoning a pet as well.

How do you like your eggs?

[MacGuffin]

How do you like your eggs?

Over easy by themselves, but I often scramble them and put them in a tortilla.

Which is the food of the gods: bacon or chocolate?

[Harmony]

It better be bacon...

Would you rather have a car with a lot of room or one that was better on gas mileage?

[ClydeB]

Which is the food of the gods: bacon or chocolate?Both! Chocolate covered bacon! (bacon bacon bacon)
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It is better to be too cold or too warm?

[rara avis]

Lots of room I guess, if I had to choose one or the other.

Too warm, I think.


What's your favorite kind of berry?

[MacGuffin]

Would you rather have a car with a lot of room or one that was better on gas mileage?

I'm tall, but I don't drive long distances (take the Metro/subway every day instead) so I'll go for gas mileage.

Both! Chocolate covered bacon! (bacon bacon bacon)
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It is better to be too cold or too warm?

I've seen that chocolate covered bacon! The rule was bacon makes foods better and so does chocolate, but bacon and chocolate don't go together.

Better to be too warm. Though I run hot, esp. compared to most women. You don't want to share an office with me you XX people...

What's you favorite kind of berry?

Blueberry.

Are you more attracted to intelligence or sense of humor?

[SimplyOtter]

I thought they were the same thing...... :)

are you attracted to a woman with sense of humour or it has to be just yours?

[rara avis]

Not just any sense of humor, but one I appreciate. (...In a man, generally.) Doesn't have to be identical to mine.



When was the last time you had any kind of physical contact with someone?

[aok]

20 minutes ago.


Is physical contact necessary for an intimate, monogomous relationship?

[Nikita]

in the long run


How much physical contact do you want in an intimate, monogamous relationship?

[aok]

Depends on my/her mood.

Is a relationship possible w/out verbal communication?

[rara avis]

Not for me - very little is possible for me without verbal communication.


Do you have a plan set for tomorrow?

[Nikita]

Other than hoping to wake up, nope!


Are you going anywhere for Christmas?

[aok]

Philadelphia.


How about yourself?

[Nikita]

Left today, got here about 3 hours ago. Going to New England in less than a week, too.

(wtf there are fireworks outside!)


What can you hear besides your computer and typing?

[aok]

A cat purring.



What do you want for Christmas?

[Nikita]

The 1936 Random House edition of The Collected Poetry of Dorothy Parker in a gray canvas cover. And a natural leather (not painted or dyed) punching bag. I've wanted both for years and never get them. I'll probably just buy them myself at some point.


You?

[aok]

Another house in a different city.


What are your plans for New Year's Eve?

[Nikita]

None. I'll be at my mom's, so chances are they'll make me cook and I'll escape upstairs to my laptop at the earliest possible moment. If I were home, I'd be going to the big blowout my friends are having. :(


Do you shoot off fireworks for New Year's?

[aok]

Un/fortunately not. But I watch them (I guess that doesn't really count).


What's your favorite thing to cook and/or eat?

[Nikita]

to cook: Garlic Brie en Croute
to eat: Strawberries Romanoff


What is your favorite ride at your favorite amusement park?

[MacGuffin]

What is your favorite ride at your favorite amusement park?

Roller coaster. The faster and taller, the better. Ironic, I don't like heights.

If you had to give up spicy food or sweets for a year, which one would you give up?

[Nikita]

Sweets - they make me grumpy and irritable


What do you wish you could give up forever?

[rahdam]

I don't have any bad habits I want to give up.
I suppose if I could give up my need to sleep, I would have more hours in the day.
But even that is a marginal desire, as I like the feeling of waking up each morning.

What is one good habit you wish you had but do not?

[Nikita]

The ability to routinize.


You?

[rahdam]

The ability to remain focused on a task once I feel that I have learned what there is to learn about said task.

What is the last physical exercise you got?

[rara avis]

4 flights of stairs at the office on Friday in 3" heels


what's your biggest insecurity w/ the opposite sex?

[rahdam]

That rara avis will reject me!

Your turn!

[Nikita]

That they won't like dealing with me long-term...I apparently get tiring.


Disclose a random memory.

[rahdam]

I remember RUNNING from the RA after we got caught smokin' weed.
We can like hell all the way to the river, then looked at each and laughed our asses off.
She had only ever seen our backs, and never did find out who it was.

What is the anti-drug?

[Nikita]

Self-respect.


What kind of toothpaste do you use? (mundane, I know)

[rara avis]

ummm... Crest? I think... It's a red and white tube. Colgate?

What is a nervous habit you have?

[Nikita]

biting my fingernails


How many people have you kissed?

[rahdam]

10, passionately.
Mom makes 11.

How many people have you kissed?

[rara avis]

I'm going to say 15 or so.

Who did you last argue with?

[rahdam]

I argued with my roommate over a fork.
I REALLY wanted him to hit me, because I was gonna BEAT HIS ASS DOWN if he did.
Thankfully for him, he did not, and I don't strike first.
But we were yellin' at each other, no one else in the house could believe it.
(I've had many more "debateable" arguments, but this one stands out as an argument)

You?

[rara avis]

Some punk in your snake thread. :D
btw I'm picturing your argument: Fork you! NO- FORK YOU! Go fork yourself!

What are you wearing right now?

[rahdam]

Boxer briefs, shorts. No shirt.
You actually know EXACTLY what I am and am not wearing.
If you know what I mean ;)

How fast would it take you to get naked ?

[rara avis]

A minute? I'd have to do some untying and wrassling around, in this dress.

What place would you like to visit in the US?

[rahdam]

New York

What place would you want to visit in South America?

[Nikita]

Tierra del Fuego


Which country would you most like to explore?

[rara avis]

Not too exotic: England.

What are your nicknames?

[rahdam]

Brazil. Friends who have gone say its incredible.

edit: I can't give away my nicknames or I will give away my name.

Pass on to the next person.

[Reganon]

sevsev (doesn't give away my name)

What annoys you most ?

[Nikita]

Kiki, Psycho (my brother's friends gave me that, lol), Devil, Heathen, Anti-Christ, Pit Bull, Swami, The Nice One, Eagle Eyes, The Great White Hunter (because I kill bugs and leave them peppered around the house for someone else to clean up), The Problem Child...

annoys: bad drivers


What is something your mother does that drives you up the wall?

[rahdam]

Mom can be emotional.

How much can you bench?

[rara avis]

PFft, are you serious? Eh, probably 250.

What state would you most like to explore?

[Nikita]

the states of consciousness and ego death


Which animal would you pick to represent yourself?

[rahdam]

250 grams. You need to specify units!

New York state.

Have you ever dyed your hair?

[rara avis]

Housecat

Burgundy, once - blonde highlights sometimes

what's your ideal pet?

[Nikita]

no pet


Yours?

[rahdam]

Dog. I want a dog.

Do you have any allergies?

[Nikita]

cats, claritin, and sulfa drugs


You?

[rara avis]

bananas. (weird, huh?)

What was the last piece of clothing you bought?

[rahdam]

None.

Would you ever date someone with only 4 fingers on one hand?

I got a wrist band recently.
Real clothing: I rock jeans a lot.

Have you ever seriously considered moving to a nudist colony to save the cost of clothes?