The 4-Variable Friendship Test

[Autoptic]

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The talk about platonic relationships, and my repeatedly stating that I don't do them reminded me of this test which was surprisingly accurate and explains why I confuse people. I was curious how other INTJ's who did would score.


Great Expectations

You scored 7 constructivenes, -19 selflessness, -12 loyalty, and -22 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, disloyal, and blunt, you are Great Expectations. Here's the short version: You build people up, then let them down hard. Here's the long version: You're good at finding creative solutions to problems, and people might be attracted to your no-nonsense style, but often you don't care enough to follow through and usually leave for greener pastures. And greener ones. And greener ones.

Believe it or not, this is frustrating to people. They'll likely wonder what happened to the person who was so practical and gung-ho. And you likely won't even bother to tell them -- you'll be on to the next puzzle. Really, puzzles are your thing. You like puzzles. And solving them. But only if it's relatively easy and convenient for you to do so. At least, if asked, there's a chance you'll be honest about it.

[Merle]

The Rock
You scored 12 constructivenes, 6 selflessness, 16 loyalty, and -6 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge

[SevenOfSpades]

Your result for The 4-Variable Friendship Test ...
The Rock

You scored 6 constructivenes, 9 selflessness, 12 loyalty, and -4 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

[PHS Philip]

The Realist

You scored 16 constructivenes, -2 selflessness, 12 loyalty, and -6 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

and

The Rock

You scored 16 constructivenes, 3 selflessness, 12 loyalty, and -4 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

depending on a few questions I was really split on.

[Moondyn]

You scored 3 on constructivenes

You scored -6 on selflessness

You scored -15 on loyalty

You scored -17 on supportiveness


Constructive, selfish, disloyal, and blunt, you are Great Expectations. Here's the short version: You build people up, then let them down hard. Here's the long version: You're good at finding creative solutions to problems, and people might be attracted to your no-nonsense style, but often you don't care enough to follow through and usually leave for greener pastures. And greener ones. And greener ones.

Believe it or not, this is frustrating to people. They'll likely wonder what happened to the person who was so practical and gung-ho. And you likely won't even bother to tell them -- you'll be on to the next puzzle. Really, puzzles are your thing. You like puzzles. And solving them. But only if it's relatively easy and convenient for you to do so. At least, if asked, there's a chance you'll be honest about it.


well if I had to guess, I'd say that test wasn't specifically designed for INTJ's

[redbaren]

The Rock

You scored 12 constructivenes, 16 selflessness, 4 loyalty, and -7 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

Thats not really me, some of the answers I would have not used.

[EdmontonAspie]

Your result for The 4-Variable Friendship Test ...
The Rock

You scored 14 constructiveness, 14 selflessness, 1 loyalty, and -7 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.
The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.
That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

[BlueberryMint]

The Realist
22 constructivenes
-2 selflessness
14 loyalty
-19 supportiveness

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[dragonsscout]

The Rock

You scored 14 constructivenes, 7 selflessness, 6 loyalty, and -11 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

Wow! :stunned: That's me, spot on. I try not to be blunt, but I'd say it's pretty accurate for me.

[curiousjane]

Compared to other takers



86/100 You scored 19 on constructivenes, higher than 86% of your peers.
55/100 You scored 2 on selflessness, higher than 55% of your peers.
41/100 You scored 6 on loyalty, higher than 41% of your peers.
13/100 You scored -15 on supportiveness, higher than 13% of your peers.

(The Rock)

[zippikay]

Great Expectations

You scored 14 constructivenes, -7 selflessness, -2 loyalty, and -14 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, disloyal, and blunt, you are Great Expectations. Here's the short version: You build people up, then let them down hard. Here's the long version: You're good at finding creative solutions to problems, and people might be attracted to your no-nonsense style, but often you don't care enough to follow through and usually leave for greener pastures. And greener ones. And greener ones.

Believe it or not, this is frustrating to people. They'll likely wonder what happened to the person who was so practical and gung-ho. And you likely won't even bother to tell them -- you'll be on to the next puzzle. Really, puzzles are your thing. You like puzzles. And solving them. But only if it's relatively easy and convenient for you to do so. At least, if asked, there's a chance you'll be honest about it.

[Metanoia]

WTF?
You scored 1 constructivenes, 9 selflessness, -2 loyalty, and -4 supportiveness!

WTF? You've probably heard that a few times. I mean, really. What. The. F*(<? Constructive and giving, inclined toward tough love yet ultimately disloyal, you've probably left more than a few people lying in the dust wondering what just happened. You'll listen to your friends as they pour their hearts out, give them honest, blunt advice, try to make their lives better -- then throw them over for the next best thing to come along.

You need to realize how valuable your friends are. Love and trust are scarce commodities in this world, so if you've gone to all the trouble of winning someone's confidence, what makes you so willing to pitch it like last week's trash? You may feel like you're winning, but any short-term gain will be outweighed by long-term pain. Sooner or later, word will get around about your fickle nature. Fix this now before karma fixes it for you. It's the only thing stopping you from being a brilliant friend.


Hmmm, interesting enough. My friend once told me that I have a possibility to leave my friends hanging up in the air. Yes, it might be true indeed.

[leopurrpurr]

Stunning! The Rock (aren't most of us?)
12 constructiveness, 2 selflessness, 9 loyalty, 12 supportiveness.....hmmm.

Interesting, but am really not too sure that it is accurate. As someone who socially isolates themselves, I almost had to guestimate some of the questions!

[VendettaNZ]

The Rock

You scored
9 constructivenes
14 selflessness
14 loyalty
-7 supportiveness

[gadjitfreek]

"The Rock

You scored 4 constructivenes, 7 selflessness, 17 loyalty, and -1 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge."

I have one VERY good friend, many acquaintances from who with whom I rarely socialize outside of work and a few old friends who have scattered to all points of the compass. I pretty much keep to myself, and I don't go out at night...ever.

[SongofSeptember]

"The Rock
You scored 9 constructivenes, 1 selflessness, 3 loyalty, and -2 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge."

Don't I wish they did. Love me, that is.

[True Rune]

Also the rock. I think it's because we hate being fake. I don't remember my scores really, but Selflessness was very high. Nothing about distance keeping in there though.

[SShack]

The Rock.

[Jakalwarrior]

Realist:
You scored 7 constructivenes, -7 selflessness, 10 loyalty, and -20 supportiveness!

[Reanne]

The Rock

You scored 11 constructivenes, 1 selflessness, 12 loyalty, and -2 supportiveness!

hmmm..yeah i do give them a taste of their own medicine most of the time ! :p

[jikin]

I was split on some of the questions, so took it twice. The first time came around to "Diplomat/Doormat". The second time was "WTF?".

Sadly, both do seem to fit me depending on the day.

[Avital]

The Realist

You scored 19 constructivenes, -1 selflessness, 11 loyalty, and -20 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[Infernia]

The Rock


14 constructivenes, 1 selflessness, 14 loyalty, and -14 supportiveness

[misterSM]

All Talk...

# You scored -6 on constructiveness, higher than 3% of your peers.
# 1/100 You scored -17 on selflessness, higher than 1% of your peers.
# 3/100 You scored -13 on loyalty, higher than 3% of your peers.
# 99/100 You scored 17 on supportiveness, higher than 99% of your peers.


Vindictive, selfish, disloyal, yet supportive -- you are All Talk. You do what you want, when you want, and god help anyone who crosses you. Still, that's not the image you cultivate at all. You tell your friends you'll be there for them. You sympathize and hug them and maybe even shed crocodile tears. But when it's time to pay the piper -- when your friend is broke and no fun and you're invited to a better party somewhere else -- where will you be? Yep. Somewhere else.

LOL!!:laugh:

[Antares]

Great Expectations

You scored 14 constructivenes, -7 selflessness, -3 loyalty, and -22 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, disloyal, and blunt, you are Great Expectations. Here's the short version: You build people up, then let them down hard. Here's the long version: You're good at finding creative solutions to problems, and people might be attracted to your no-nonsense style, but often you don't care enough to follow through and usually leave for greener pastures. And greener ones. And greener ones.

Believe it or not, this is frustrating to people. They'll likely wonder what happened to the person who was so practical and gung-ho. And you likely won't even bother to tell them -- you'll be on to the next puzzle. Really, puzzles are your thing. You like puzzles. And solving them. But only if it's relatively easy and convenient for you to do so. At least, if asked, there's a chance you'll be honest about it.

This is strangely accurate. Ok. Not strange. I've known I'm like this for quite a while.

[Noehelia]

The Rock
You scored 9 constructivenes, 6 selflessness, 9 loyalty, and -13 supportiveness

[Kisai]

6 You and three friends are in a small life raft surrounded by sharks. A rescue freighter is in the distance but is too far away to help. If you do nothing, the sharks will puncture the raft and you all will die. If you cut someone and throw them overboard, the blood will distract the sharks and the rest of you can possibly reach the freighter. Do you:

I'm a bad person...
I can't stop giggling at this question...

[Nikita]

The Force of Nature

Vindictive. Giving. Loyal. Purveyor of tough love. Congratulations! You are The Force of Nature. You sweep through your friends' lives, defending them against all the bad things of the world that howl and yammer and pound on the walls -- yet you also give them shit when they need it.

Truly, you are a good friend. You might make people angry at you sometimes, because you won't shy away from the harsh truth, but they'll think about your words later and realize you were absolutely right. Chances are, you have a few good friends whom you've known for ages and intend to know when you are 85 years old. You probably would die for them.

If there's anything you might change, it's your tendency to have a hard time forgiving your friends when they screw up. It's important to realize that everyone messes up a few times in life, and if someone's been a good friend to you, they're still the same person you've always known. They just seem a little more human now.

[Nightwulf]

The Wolverine

You scored -14 constructivenes, -9 selflessness, 9 loyalty, and -16 supportiveness!

Vindictive and selfish, yet loyal, with a healthy dose of tough love -- you are The Wolverine. Once you snare someone in your jaws of friendship, you don't let go. Ever. Even when they beg.

Yes, you can be a little frightening, but you also have some strong points. Your loyalty means you won't dump a friend if she's depressed or sick, less sparkling or funny than usual. That doesn't mean you'll listen to her crying into her coffee for three hours, though. You'll let her cry for a few minutes -- maybe -- then tell her to get out of the house and go live her life. In other words, you'll tell her exactly what she needs to hear. Of course, you'll do it on your own time, and if you're busy, she'll have to wait till next week. But everyone has flaws -- and you're a loyal fighter for those you care about.

Rrrrrrrrr!

[Zzyber]

Your result for The 4-Variable Friendship Test ...
The Realist

You scored 3 constructivenes, -3 selflessness, 4 loyalty, and -9 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[Nightelf]

The Rock.

[Blendy]

The Blowhard
You scored 19 constructivenes, -6 selflessness, 2 loyalty, and 6 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, loyal, and supportive -- you are The Blowhard. You'll tell your friends exactly what they want to hear, come up with grand plans for improving their lives, and stick with the same people for years and years. But, over time, they may wonder why you never show up when it's time to move their furniture or clean out the garage. In fact, they've doubtless wondered this many times already.

The answer is simple -- you have better things to do, and it's not convenient for you -- but you'd never admit that to them. You'd just remind them of that time you sat beside their hospital bed until you had to go to softball practice. Or that time you came up with the brilliant idea for the school project, even if you couldn't make it to half of the meetings. Or, well, you know.

Your friends probably accept your flakiness and cherish you for the good things you bring to the table. And you do bring many wonderful things. But if you really want to surprise them -- in a good way -- you know what you have to do.

[dalidaisy]

The Rock - seems to be a lot of these..

You scored 19 constructivenes, 9 selflessness, 11 loyalty, and -9 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

[Freedom Geek]

The Death Star
You scored -6 constructivenes, -4 selflessness, -11 loyalty, and 0 supportiveness!

Vindictive, selfish, disloyal, and unsupportive -- do you even HAVE friends? Assuming you do, they probably either drift in and out of your life or are just like you. When someone pisses you off, you vaporize them. Then it's on to the next target.

If you're happy the way you are, more power to you, but if you want to learn the value of true friendship, you're going to have to take your finger off the trigger button, open your heart a little more, and try to stick around even when it's NOT convenient for you. That doesn't mean you have to lose your bite, but a good friend is fiercely loyal, not just fierce.

"Commence primary ignition."

[LaoTzu]

WTF?

You scored 9 constructivenes, 16 selflessness, 0 loyalty, and -12 supportiveness!

WTF? You've probably heard that a few times. I mean, really. What. The. Fuck? Constructive and giving, inclined toward tough love yet ultimately disloyal, you've probably left more than a few people lying in the dust wondering what just happened. You'll listen to your friends as they pour their hearts out, give them honest, blunt advice, try to make their lives better -- then throw them over for the next best thing to come along.

You need to realize how valuable your friends are. Love and trust are scarce commodities in this world, so if you've gone to all the trouble of winning someone's confidence, what makes you so willing to pitch it like last week's trash? You may feel like you're winning, but any short-term gain will be outweighed by long-term pain. Sooner or later, word will get around about your fickle nature. Fix this now before karma fixes it for you. It's the only thing stopping you from being a brilliant friend.

# You scored 9 on constructivenes, higher than 38% of your peers.
# 93/100 You scored 16 on selflessness, higher than 93% of your peers.
# 18/100 You scored 0 on loyalty, higher than 18% of your peers.
# 30/100 You scored -12 on supportiveness, higher than 30% of your peers.

I say WTF to this result! ... I let people be who they want to be, and if they ask my opinion I tell them honestly.... If that's not supportive then what is?

[Aurelia]

The Rock

You scored 7 constructivenes, 3 selflessness, 6 loyalty, and -17 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

[Deadgod]

WTF?

You scored 17 constructivenes, 6 selflessness, -4 loyalty, and -14 supportiveness!

The few, the proud...the...WTF?





Deadgod added to this post, 4 minutes and 26 seconds later...

WTF?

You scored 9 constructivenes, 16 selflessness, 0 loyalty, and -12 supportiveness!

WTF? You've probably heard that a few times. I mean, really. What. The. Fuck? Constructive and giving, inclined toward tough love yet ultimately disloyal, you've probably left more than a few people lying in the dust wondering what just happened. You'll listen to your friends as they pour their hearts out, give them honest, blunt advice, try to make their lives better -- then throw them over for the next best thing to come along.

You need to realize how valuable your friends are. Love and trust are scarce commodities in this world, so if you've gone to all the trouble of winning someone's confidence, what makes you so willing to pitch it like last week's trash? You may feel like you're winning, but any short-term gain will be outweighed by long-term pain. Sooner or later, word will get around about your fickle nature. Fix this now before karma fixes it for you. It's the only thing stopping you from being a brilliant friend.

# You scored 9 on constructivenes, higher than 38% of your peers.
# 93/100 You scored 16 on selflessness, higher than 93% of your peers.
# 18/100 You scored 0 on loyalty, higher than 18% of your peers.
# 30/100 You scored -12 on supportiveness, higher than 30% of your peers.

I say WTF to this result! ... I let people be who they want to be, and if they ask my opinion I tell them honestly.... If that's not supportive then what is?

Thisw quiz is obviously biased towards the usual perception of friendships/relationships. Thank goodness they aren't so black and white.

[daydreamer]

Your result for The 4-Variable Friendship Test ...
WTF?

You scored 17 constructivenes, 6 selflessness, -3 loyalty, and -4 supportiveness!

WTF? You've probably heard that a few times. I mean, really. What. The. Fuck? Constructive and giving, inclined toward tough love yet ultimately disloyal, you've probably left more than a few people lying in the dust wondering what just happened. You'll listen to your friends as they pour their hearts out, give them honest, blunt advice, try to make their lives better -- then throw them over for the next best thing to come along.

You need to realize how valuable your friends are. Love and trust are scarce commodities in this world, so if you've gone to all the trouble of winning someone's confidence, what makes you so willing to pitch it like last week's trash? You may feel like you're winning, but any short-term gain will be outweighed by long-term pain. Sooner or later, word will get around about your fickle nature. Fix this now before karma fixes it for you. It's the only thing stopping you from being a brilliant friend.

... i've been neutered by bad karma !! LOL





daydreamer added to this post, 0 minutes and 47 seconds later...

amen !

[Nihilum]

The Rock.

[Perf]

Well, mine is below. I guess it's pretty accurate, though I don't think I'm that selfish. -18 for supportiveness: ouch? I must be a total dick.


The Realist

You scored 12 constructivenes, -2 selflessness, 8 loyalty, and -18 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[lambpox]

The Realist

You scored 25 constructivenes, -1 selflessness, 1 loyalty, and -9 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[probity]

The Rock
17 constructivenes
12 selflessness
1 loyalty
-17 supportiveness

[Chronos]

The Rock

You scored 19 constructivenes, 4 selflessness, 9 loyalty, and -1 supportiveness!

[Ikari Shinji]

The Rock.

[Estelore]

I'm the Rock, too. Quite so.

[Doppelbock]

Damn. Each question was "Your friend does this," "Your friend does that," and so on. I don't have any friends and don't really want any. I guess I score a zero, whatever that means.

[llBradll]

You scored 9 constructivenes, -2 selflessness, 7 loyalty, and -15 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

I thought that was fairly accurate actually.

[WayBehind]

Great Expectations

You scored 9 constructivenes, -4 selflessness, -4 loyalty, and -17 supportiveness!

[ChangeGonnaCome]

The Realist

You scored 16 constructivenes, -6 selflessness, 8 loyalty, and -1 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[AliTree]

The Rock
You scored 14 constructivenes, 7 selflessness, 14 loyalty, and -19 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

[altoid]

The Rock

You scored 6 constructivenes, 11 selflessness, 3 loyalty, and -11 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

[wendytwtee]

The Wolverine
You scored -2 constructivenes, -12 selflessness, 14 loyalty, and -9 supportiveness!

Vindictive and selfish, yet loyal, with a healthy dose of tough love -- you are The Wolverine. Once you snare someone in your jaws of friendship, you don't let go. Ever. Even when they beg.

Yes, you can be a little frightening, but you also have some strong points. Your loyalty means you won't dump a friend if she's depressed or sick, less sparkling or funny than usual. That doesn't mean you'll listen to her crying into her coffee for three hours, though. You'll let her cry for a few minutes -- maybe -- then tell her to get out of the house and go live her life. In other words, you'll tell her exactly what she needs to hear. Of course, you'll do it on your own time, and if you're busy, she'll have to wait till next week. But everyone has flaws -- and you're a loyal fighter for those you care about.

Rrrrrrrrr!

Really? Sounds like me, but we seem to have a lot more of ' The Rock's here.

[EmilyEccentric]

I got the WTF? result

WTF? You've probably heard that a few times. I mean, really. What. The. Fuck? Constructive and giving, inclined toward tough love yet ultimately disloyal, you've probably left more than a few people lying in the dust wondering what just happened. You'll listen to your friends as they pour their hearts out, give them honest, blunt advice, try to make their lives better -- then throw them over for the next best thing to come along.

You need to realize how valuable your friends are. Love and trust are scarce commodities in this world, so if you've gone to all the trouble of winning someone's confidence, what makes you so willing to pitch it like last week's trash? You may feel like you're winning, but any short-term gain will be outweighed by long-term pain. Sooner or later, word will get around about your fickle nature. Fix this now before karma fixes it for you. It's the only thing stopping you from being a brilliant friend.

[Tranquillity]

Diplomat/Doormat

You scored 7 constructivenes, 4 selflessness, 7 loyalty, and 3 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, loyal, and supportive -- who could ask for more? You are the Diplomat/Doormat. You are a great friend in many ways. You'll stand by your friends to the bitter end, you'll spend time nursing their sick cat when you'd rather be playing World of Warcraft, and you'll always try to come up with the best possible solution without offending anyone.

What's the problem here? Well, note the dual nature of the stereotypical label slapped onto you. Diplomat/Doormat. What does that mean, anyway? In a nutshell, you can probably smooth over any situation -- but you may do it by lying face down in a mud puddle and letting your friends walk over it unscathed. You? You're covered in bootprints. Did it ever occur to you that your friends might have gained something from dealing with that mud puddle you so chivalrously helped them avoid? Yep, didn't think so. Back off a little bit, and don't be afraid to tell your friends the truth when it would do them more good than a flattering lie. That's all you need to do to be the world's best friend. Really.

umm... probably true though I am getting tougher now on them.

[gn0sis]

The Wolverine
-1 constructivenes, -9 selflessness, 10 loyalty, -14 supportiveness

Vindictive and selfish, yet loyal, with a healthy dose of tough love -- you are The Wolverine. Once you snare someone in your jaws of friendship, you don't let go. Ever. Even when they beg.

Yes, you can be a little frightening, but you also have some strong points. Your loyalty means you won't dump a friend if she's depressed or sick, less sparkling or funny than usual. That doesn't mean you'll listen to her crying into her coffee for three hours, though. You'll let her cry for a few minutes -- maybe -- then tell her to get out of the house and go live her life. In other words, you'll tell her exactly what she needs to hear. Of course, you'll do it on your own time, and if you're busy, she'll have to wait till next week. But everyone has flaws -- and you're a loyal fighter for those you care about.

[nowandzen]

The Rock

You scored 14 constructivenes, 1 selflessness, 19 loyalty, and -4 supportiveness!

Compared to other takers

* 62/100 You scored 14 on constructivenes, higher than 62% of your peers.
* 48/100 You scored 1 on selflessness, higher than 48% of your peers.
* 98/100 You scored 19 on loyalty, higher than 98% of your peers.
* 68/100 You scored -4 on supportiveness, higher than 68% of your peers.

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

[thiagofralves]

The Force of Nature

You scored -3 constructivenes, 15 selflessness, 9 loyalty, and -15 supportiveness!

Vindictive. Giving. Loyal. Purveyor of tough love. Congratulations! You are The Force of Nature. You sweep through your friends' lives, defending them against all the bad things of the world that howl and yammer and pound on the walls -- yet you also give them shit when they need it.

Truly, you are a good friend. You might make people angry at you sometimes, because you won't shy away from the harsh truth, but they'll think about your words later and realize you were absolutely right. Chances are, you have a few good friends whom you've known for ages and intend to know when you are 85 years old. You probably would die for them.

If there's anything you might change, it's your tendency to have a hard time forgiving your friends when they screw up. It's important to realize that everyone messes up a few times in life, and if someone's been a good friend to you, they're still the same person you've always known. They just seem a little more human now.

[naughtysnail]

The Rock, like a lot of people here. It's true -- I have very few close friends, but those who are close have learned to love my blunt way of putting things, the fact that I am honest with them, and my unswerving loyalty and devotion. Am a wonder!

[Maedhi]

Constructiveness: 16
Selflessness: 1
Loyalty: 15
Supportiveness: -23

The Rock. Hmmm, I think I might be more of a pebble.

[Hasway]

The Rock
9 constructivenes, 6 selflessness, 2 loyalty, and -16 supportiveness
Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

[Cthulhu]

The Rock
You scored 16 constructivenes, 7 selflessness, 17 loyalty, and -2 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

Sounds about right, except for the hugging.

[SeaCzar]

I am the wolverine as well. I must admit, the descripton fits.

[Prunesquallor]

You scored -1 constructiveness, -14 selflessness, 2 loyalty, and -14 supportiveness!
Also the Wolverine

[SimplyOtter]

The Realist
You scored 4 constructivenes, -1 selflessness, 6 loyalty, and -1 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[Gamgee]

The Realist

You scored 13 constructivenes, -1 selflessness, 7 loyalty, and -7 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[qwerty123]

I got Great Expectations, but I do not think that this is a good test by any means.

I require a high level of accountability in friendships.. People who do what they say they will do. I also have high moral requirements. I am a tough love friend.

Obviously I think that this is the highest level of friendship as it requires work on both sides, and auto-selects good hardworking people. I have no trouble dropping everything and helping others, but I will be quick to critique various actions or lack thereof.

The test seemed to indicate that I was a fair-weather friend, but the creator is shortsighted. In a lapse of modesty, I am the best friend many people have and will ever have. I break down double standards and I can act as crying shoulder, but only if the person is willing to snap out of it and start making personal improvements, knowing they are the lucky agents of change through choice.

[Moriarty]

The Rock

You scored 14 constructivenes, 2 selflessness, 9 loyalty, and -9 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

[buk]

constructiveness 7
selflessness 4
loyalty -4
supportiveness -20

I did not agree with some of the available answers, and I do not hardly have any friends, or care to have any. For me, the test was irrelevant.

[auriga vega]

Fireworks

You scored -5 constructivenes, -4 selflessness, 8 loyalty, and 3 supportiveness!

Vindictive, selfish, loyal, and supportive -- you are Fireworks. If anyone hurts your friends, look out! You'll put on a display that onlookers will never forgot -- but only if conditions are exactly right. If you're tired, or it's cloudy out, or the wind is blowing the wrong way, well, maybe later, or next time. Sorry. But you'll really feel bad about it -- cross your heart and hope to die!

You've probably had a few blowouts with your friends about promised help that never came through. But you ARE there for them. It's just that you're there for yourself first. You have a healthy sense of self-respect, and that's a good thing. It's just that, sometimes, inconveniencing yourself is part of being a good friend.

[dbpeege]

The Realist

You scored 14 constructivenes, -4 selflessness, 4 loyalty, and -16 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[Mette]

The Realist

You scored 19 constructivenes, -9 selflessness, 9 loyalty, and -4 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[Nyuszi]

Blind Fath

Vindictive, giving, loyal, and supportive, you are Blind Faith. You know who you love, and you will defend them to the death -- even if they're wrong. Like, 100% wrong. Is this good? On the one hand, your friends probably feel they can rely on you completely. On the other hand, are you really helping them grow?

Your loyalty is admirable, so please don't change that. But if you disagree with something a friend does or says, it might behoove you to say so. You could broaden their thinking, and there's also a good chance they'll respect your opinion, since they know you have their best interest in mind. Also, by making your own opinions clearer, you'll be more likely to attract people who value those opinions.
~
Ah, it's so very true. But... if my friend is 100% wrong I wouldn't try to continue the friendship.

[Jonathan Brewer]

The Realist

You scored 12 constructivenes, -1 selflessness, 10 loyalty, and -14 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[loosefanbelt]

The Rock

You scored 13 constructiveness, 6 selflessness, 3 loyalty, and -5 supportiveness!

Constructive, giving, and loyal, with a healthy dash of tough love -- you are The Rock. Your friends smell what you're cooking, and it's fucking delicious. You listen to them, you carefully weigh what they tell you, you offer honest, blunt, constructive advice to make any situation better, you help them when called upon, and you'd stick with them through rain, sleet, snow, or the apocalypse.

The only problem here is that you may get a little smug sometimes, and some people just won't like you. They'll feel like you're judging them. But it's mostly balanced when you smile that inscrutable smile and ask, "Can I help?" And then -- here's the really good part -- you usually do help. Even if your friends don't always like the medicine, it usually works, and you'll be there hugging them when the fighting's all over.

That's why they love you. Keep on rocking, and avoid the urge to judge.

# You scored 13 on constructiveness, higher than 56% of your peers.
# 69/100 You scored 6 on selflessness, higher than 69% of your peers.
# 31/100 You scored 3 on loyalty, higher than 31% of your peers.
# 63/100 You scored -5 on supportiveness, higher than 63% of your peers.

[intellael]

Realist

[TravelnTrain]

Thanks Autopic...interesting and worthwhile...reasonably accurate. :thumbsup:

The Rock

22 constructiveness, 1 selflessness, 11 loyalty, and -15 supportiveness

And watch out for that constructiveness typo...<== in character

[agkazama]

Your result for The 4-Variable Friendship Test ...
The Realist

You scored 12 constructivenes, -4 selflessness, 8 loyalty, and -17 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[ArtistTyrant]

The Realist

You scored 1 constructiveness, -2 selflessness, 7 loyalty, and -17 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, and loyal, with a heap of tough love -- you are The Realist. Your first priority is exactly what it should be -- you. You're concerned about others but are unlikely to throw your life away on some foolhardy crusade to save someone else. Still, beyond those constraints, you're a loyal friend who tells it like it is, and you're probably quite funny. You'll help your friends solve their problems, even though they might not always like your advice, and you'll try to make the best of tough situations. That said, you'll try even harder to avoid or minimize those tough situations in the first place. There's a word for that. It's called "smart."

You're fine just the way you are. Some people might call you selfish, and they'd be right, but you're still a good person, and you're unlikely to change, so it's not even worth suggesting it.

[coffeeholic]

Great Expectations
You scored 3 constructivenes, -17 selflessness, -4 loyalty, and -22 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, disloyal, and blunt, you are Great Expectations. Here's the short version: You build people up, then let them down hard. Here's the long version: You're good at finding creative solutions to problems, and people might be attracted to your no-nonsense style, but often you don't care enough to follow through and usually leave for greener pastures. And greener ones. And greener ones.

Believe it or not, this is frustrating to people. They'll likely wonder what happened to the person who was so practical and gung-ho. And you likely won't even bother to tell them -- you'll be on to the next puzzle. Really, puzzles are your thing. You like puzzles. And solving them. But only if it's relatively easy and convenient for you to do so. At least, if asked, there's a chance you'll be honest about it.

[Ilara]

Realist.

There were some cases where the options for answering were like, "Eh?". Like that first one, where the friend is allergic and terrified of dogs. Of COURSE I wouldn't have him stay at my place--but I'd help him find someplace else. No option for that, though. There were quite a few like that where there was no room for nuance in the answers...

[sadf]

Great Expectations
You scored 10 constructivenes, -6 selflessness, -7 loyalty, and -6 supportiveness!

Constructive, selfish, disloyal, and blunt, you are Great Expectations. Here's the short version: You build people up, then let them down hard. Here's the long version: You're good at finding creative solutions to problems, and people might be attracted to your no-nonsense style, but often you don't care enough to follow through and usually leave for greener pastures. And greener ones. And greener ones.

Believe it or not, this is frustrating to people. They'll likely wonder what happened to the person who was so practical and gung-ho. And you likely won't even bother to tell them -- you'll be on to the next puzzle. Really, puzzles are your thing. You like puzzles. And solving them. But only if it's relatively easy and convenient for you to do so. At least, if asked, there's a chance you'll be honest about it.

I was hoping not to get this one.

[Charmed Pop]

The Rock
You scored 19 constructivenes, 3 selflessness, 11 loyalty, and -15 supportiveness!