LadyHuna
10-19-2007, 03:56 AM
An INTJ and an ENFP... twins. *Are there any other twins out there with interesting, opposing personalities? *
I think I am more convincingly empathetic because of my ENFP twin- I have been forced to constantly reassure her which, over time, has become second nature in my friendships with girls. *But upon self-reflection, I realize throughout my girlfriend relationships I have very shallow concerns for the other. *Although convincing to my friends, my sister remains my biggest emotional critic. *You can imagine my criticisms of her, lack of independence, confidence, attainable ambitions, and her overwhelming need of attention. *The most interesting difference between us is how we give and receive criticism (she dishes it and I eat it up, but never the other away around!)
ps I'm brand new to this board and am very excited about the exchange of ideas! *
I think I am more convincingly empathetic because of my ENFP twin- I have been forced to constantly reassure her which, over time, has become second nature in my friendships with girls. *But upon self-reflection, I realize throughout my girlfriend relationships I have very shallow concerns for the other. *Although convincing to my friends, my sister remains my biggest emotional critic. *You can imagine my criticisms of her, lack of independence, confidence, attainable ambitions, and her overwhelming need of attention. *The most interesting difference between us is how we give and receive criticism (she dishes it and I eat it up, but never the other away around!)
ps I'm brand new to this board and am very excited about the exchange of ideas! *