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mind_wander
10-15-2007, 04:30 AM
Hi all INTJ's,

Asian dude, 23

TV/movie genre: Mostly Sci-fi, others are action/adventure, fantasy, comedy, drama, etc.

Like to surf on the website: www.spcnet.tv and venture by another INTJ: www.da-forums.org

This is something I've done this past summer singing online with other fellow spcnet members: http://www.soundclick.com/bands/pagemusic.cfm?bandID=704227 [Could you guess which one's are mine's?]


Nice to know there are others like me out there in this world. It can be lonely, due to that most people have a hard time understanding my personality traits. I had scored INTJ 2x on the Myer-brigg's personality test. My professor who is an INTP, told the class that there are rare personality traits. After I did some research on what the heck INTJ fell in, its actually quiet rare; nice to know I'm special. I always wondered back in my life, why am I the oddball in most groups I've been in? This personality test gives me solid proof why the way I am.

*Life of an INTJ is rather difficult and challenging because there is a tendency for others who have no clue what you are talking about [By looking at people's facial emotions-Could you please speak in plain English for me?]. I get the blank stares alot, like I'm from Mars or something, but thats life. If you understand me, its great, otherwise its a hit or miss on communication.

Also, when I am doing school projects or assignments, it can really get boring; when it comes to your own interest its very interesting and intellectual. The challenge in solving problems based on my conclusions: 1:10 people, I am the 1 usually think outside the box. While others, goes in the box or do the similar things. As my approaches to problems tends to be very different; no one says there is a right or wrong way to come up with the correct answer.

Have anyone as INTJ end up as a mediator in any situation? Because I've been many situations, people does trust me when it comes in sorting problems [mediator or other].

*Recently, I've meet an INTJ online; also concluded there are alot of INTJ's online more than E's. I've also meet ENTJ's *before awesome and engaging converstionals last for hours. As for the others, its a hit and miss. But, life of an INTJ can be conficting because I'm more tend to be on the I side than an E; I can flex some of the other personality traits.

So anyone care to comment about your own experiences being an INTJ? Just this year, I found this personality trait awesome; the unique and skilled at it. I've found this website from: http://typelogic.com/intj.html .

rwyatt365
10-15-2007, 05:14 AM
Welcome to the forum!

You're no oddball here [smiley=freak.gif] , we're all kinda weird!

mind_wander
10-15-2007, 05:20 AM
Welcome to the forum!

You're no oddball here [smiley=freak.gif] , we're all kinda weird!
Thanx, I appreciate a place where our thinking plains are the similar or dissimilar to allow our thinking flow like water. Glad to be here. I've just found this website; sure alot of INTJ onliners. I wonder, have you ever meet other personality traits, who are not INTJ's. Which one fits best with you?

Rei
10-15-2007, 08:06 AM
We're all obviously proud to be INTJ here :thumbsup:

I think many of us have the same trouble finding people cool enough to be our friend... just joking...
But yeah, this forum's great...

Welcome, and I hope you're having fun so far!

mind_wander
10-15-2007, 08:18 AM
This INTJ forum is so interesting, distracting my main objective; I will just blame my personality on this one. I've read many of your posts Rei. Nice to meet you? I posted alot of links to my introduction incase, I don't post in here does not mean, I'm not around. The www.Da-Forums.org is a very weird forum for the unique and the odd ones[ rariety personality types]. Enough my singing on www.soundclick.com/spcnet07, I've sung both in Chinese Mandarin and in English.

This thread has helped me gained so much knowledge about myself: Everyone has felt aliened *before on the mainstream level, when your the smart one in the corner, as someone mentioned[who don't talk to you].

As for looking for another INTJ out there, you don't have to search so hard; the high majority are online. Thanx to the creation of the internet. Incase, you've found an ENTJ they are great for social conversations; give it a try.

BTW, one day I will try something different with other INTJ's will upload a sound clip on what male INTJ's sound like.

Rei
10-15-2007, 09:56 AM
Many of my posts? *I have so many posts that many people read many of my posts *:P *What's relevant is how big a proportion of my posts you've read. *But anyway, nice to meet you too!

As for looking for another INTJ out there, you don't have to search so hard; the high majority are online. Thanx to the creation of the internet. Incase, you've found an ENTJ they are great for social conversations; give it a try.
I don't really bother looking for people. *I'm quite content with what good friends I currently have. *New ones are certianly welcome, but I'm not searching for them as I'm rather lazy *;D.
I actually met an INTJ online a while ago that I talk to rather consistantly, and I didn't really realize it until recently.
I also have a very close ENTJ friend. *We've been rather estranged lately due to us each having seperate and very busy lives.

The Rose
10-15-2007, 12:27 PM
Welcome to the forum!

You're no oddball here [smiley=freak.gif] , we're all kinda weird!
Thanx, I appreciate a place where our thinking plains are the similar or dissimilar to allow our thinking flow like water. Glad to be here. I've just found this website; sure alot of INTJ onliners. I wonder, have you ever meet other personality traits, who are not INTJ's. Which one fits best with you?
I saw one site that had a survey.
Most of the people online are INxx types.


Welcome to the forum. :)

Ijz
10-15-2007, 12:41 PM
So anyone care to comment about your own experiences being an INTJ? Just this year, I found this personality trait awesome; the unique and skilled at it. I've found this website from: http://typelogic.com/intj.html .

Hi Mind Wander, and welcome.

I can relate to a lot of what you say, except for the singing bit. :-?
If school is really that boring then probably your going to the wrong one? Actually what school are you referring too, University? Perhaps you will feel more "at home" with people of your own level?

When I went to University myself it was actually the first time that I found like-minded people. Nor did I think I was the smartest, far from it, several others were way smarter. Anyway, I had a great time while it lasted. All the schools before that (sry don't know the US names for those) where terrible. Sure there were some good times, but I was glad it was over. What I remember strongly about it, was the fact that I just didn't understand people, their actions seemed so... irrational. These days (30 now) I don't think about such things anymore, I've just accepted it.

mind_wander
10-15-2007, 12:57 PM
Thanx everyone,

Back to your commenting about school, don't worry its my last semester I'm graduating yeppie. Actually, alot of this semester courses are very important like Effective Team Management, Leadership [Pointing finger at ENTJ direction], Strategic Management, and labor relations; all these classes are very important, I find Labor relations boring. But, its sure is hard though because my professor is an INTP. We P's and J's has many conflicts. It means, no boundaries, anything goes. J's love structure they can be fixated on. As for the singing thing, here I will post it up for everyone to listen; Sorry if you don't know Chinese, but there is English.

http://www.soundclick.com/bands/pagemusic.cfm?bandID=704227

Under the name:

She will be loved- MW and Xiaogang
Shang Xuan Yue 1/2= Chocolate Bunch/Mr.I and MW
God Bless America-MW
Yong Qi-MW
Somewhere Over The Rainbow-MW [This song lasted for 1 week and half: no.9]
Tong Hua-M_W
At the Beginning-Azn Adventurers
Who is Shy and Embarrased?-MW [I created this for the shy and embarrased people]
Qian Nian Wan Yu (1000 words)- Azn Adventures
First Noel-Mind_wander
Just like your tenderness-MW and Stanley
I'll make a man out of you- Annonymous *person and me
Qia Si Ni De Wen Rou-Mind_wander
Xin Hui Gen Ai Yi Qi Zou-M00


Ok, thats all of them; so for people who are really interested, then this is my welcome to INTJ gift from me. I like it here, less conflicts and more room to breathe. I do tend to offend E/F onliners, after some of E/F people taken the personality test, now I know why.

mind_wander
10-15-2007, 01:02 PM
Welcome to the forum!

You're no oddball here [smiley=freak.gif] , we're all kinda weird!
Thanx, I appreciate a place where our thinking plains are the similar or dissimilar to allow our thinking flow like water. Glad to be here. I've just found this website; sure alot of INTJ onliners. I wonder, have you ever meet other personality traits, who are not INTJ's. Which one fits best with you?
I saw one site that had a survey.
Most of the people online are INxx types.


Welcome to the forum. *:)
Yeah, its very easy to find it online. But, this website took me awhile to find. I was more on the journey finding what does INFJ's think about: http://community.livejournal.com/intj_/105082.html

INFJ/INTJ's are considered as the Golden Couples. The F side might screw the T side pychologically, as an INTJ. This is the side, we don't use too often.

Rei,

I've read your post here and there.

mind_wander
10-15-2007, 06:22 PM
Well here is my audioclip: http://www.sendspace.com/file/dfdepi Hopefully, I can hear other INTJ's live audios.

mind_wander
10-16-2007, 09:06 AM
I forgot, yeah been here sure felt good. Really great combination on rarity now: not too many Asian guys in here, I have the INTJ trait, live in an independent country, and very realistic. Sure do feel special.