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Bossy Mom
10-19-2007, 06:25 PM
I want to introduce myself as an INTJ who is a person who probaby hovers too much over those I love because I don't want them to make mistakes. *It is difficult to be misunderstood. *Just because I'm stubborn, bossy, AND a logical thinker doesn't make me difficult to deal with.

I am happy to meet other people like myself!
ShaiGar
10-19-2007, 06:35 PM
goddamn it mum stay off my forums
Jezebel
10-19-2007, 07:01 PM
Welcome to the forum, Bossy Mom!

Is it a coincidence that Badger Dad joined right after you?
Naokohiro
10-19-2007, 08:27 PM
I have a very different personality than my family members... I couldn't imagine any of my family members as being INTJ's, let alone my mom...
mind_wander
10-19-2007, 08:33 PM
Don't worry, I am like the only INTJ in the family, unless my lil bro is one. We do annoy each other to no end.
Naokohiro
10-19-2007, 08:37 PM
Don't worry, I am like the only INTJ in the family, unless my lil bro is one. We do annoy each other to no end.I don't have any brothers, and I think all my family members are extroverted, whereas I am heavily introverted. Though maybe my dad and grandpa are somewhat(not as much as me) on the introverted side.
Raven Queen
10-20-2007, 11:36 AM
Hi Mom! You sound scary, anyone who's too bossy would probably invade my personal space sooner or later. But you shouldn't be too bad, since you're an INTJ.. :)
Firelie
10-20-2007, 03:48 PM
I don't like it when Mom is bossy! I guess I should stay away from this thread! Oh crap, I posted...
Raven Queen
10-20-2007, 04:46 PM
Can't resist, huh?
rwyatt365
10-20-2007, 05:50 PM
Hi Bossy Mom.

FWIW - throw the kids in and see who floats (figuratively), you might be surprised.
The Rose
10-20-2007, 06:35 PM
I want to introduce myself as an INTJ who is a person who probably hovers too much over those I love because I don't want them to make mistakes. It is difficult to be misunderstood. Just because I'm stubborn, bossy, AND a logical thinker doesn't make me difficult to deal with.

I am happy to meet other people like myself!
Welcome to the forum, Bossy Mom.

In answer to your assertions:
I am an INTJ mother also.
I have to disagree with you.
I think people who are stubborn and bossy ARE difficult to get along with, whether they are logical or not.
I hope that you will learn to be more kind and gracious to your children while you still have time.
You will be glad you did.
TeleportThis
10-20-2007, 06:42 PM
People learn best by making mistakes, and they shouldn't be too afraid of making them.
Bossy Mom
10-21-2007, 09:32 AM
I may be bossy and stubborn, but my kids love me. I have seen my daughter thru two liver transplants and made sure she always had the best medical care. Being bossy and stubborn has been a help thru her trials with the medical community. Unfortunately, I also have the tendency to sacrifice too much for her. I spend $140 to have her hair highlighted and her clothes are from A&F and Guess. But she's the best thing that ever happened to me!