Hello like-minded people !

[Daniel]

I suppose you've heard it a million times, but I'm very happy to finaly find "my people".
I'm an 18yr old architecture student.Interests range from art and philosophy to science and engineering.
The things that currently interests me the most are the problems with relationships INTJ faces.Havent really had time to accurately look threw the relationship topics, but it would be great if more experienced members could share their stories on finding their soul mate (maybe they already did).

How did I find you?
I was planing to create a INTJ forum(today was the day I would book a domain) , but decided to check the web just in case - not to reinvent the wheel.

[The Rose]

Welcome! I feel the same way about not re-inventing the wheel!
Glad to have you on board. :D

Other INTJs are attracted to different types than I was.
I married an ISTP. I always preferred Ps.

[thegnat]

Welcome :)

Ah architecture. I know a biochem major who's going to grad school for architecture. At least they want to.

[Ijz]

Welcome Daniel,

No we never get tired of hearing that. We've actually been there ourselves (well at least I have).

Ah architecture, as in Buildings?

[Daniel]

Yap, building architecture (not the computer one).
It was difficult to decide between physics and architecture, but I'm very happy with my choice now, as it involves art as well as science.

[mind_wander]

Welcome Daniel,

No we never get tired of hearing that. We've actually been there ourselves (well at least I have).


Yeah, I know what you mean. Also the relationship thread does help INTJ and others. Last night, I wanted to entered INTJ forums, however I helped explain an old aquintence that she as an ESTJ will have love relationships problems with INTJ's. Where is the root of the problem? Given during the time the age difference was kinda big, she was 18yrs still exploring, as the other INTJ was 25yr already mature. Combining love relationship does not work well, plus during that time she admit about sending, "Mixed signals, for fun-not in terms of intent to hurt an iNTJ." Both sides, likes each other [since they both are good person], but afraid who gonna move first. However, I explained, sending mixed signals to INTJ can mean you are rejecting them, "INTJ says goodbye, cya later." I think the INTJ got hurt more internally and emotionally due to the fact of mixed signals and rejection. As for the ESTJ, the purpose was to see, if this INTJ really like her. I explained, don't do that next time, if you ever meet an INTJ again, its a lesson to be learned. Concluded, INTJ/ESTJ can work out, as best friends, being lovers well thats another ball park, something should not be played with [Too man unknowns]. She did mentioned, "Why is it even I broke up with an INTJ, but I felt like alittle attached to an INTJ, even if they are gone?" yeah, thats a good question. Because you know that person is good, but never wanted to hurt your feels in the first place, just INTJ not good at expressing feelings, as opposed to an Extrovert.

Here is an easy INTJ cutterbox of an relationship and welcome in here.

[rwyatt365]

welcome, welcome.
No need to reinvent the wheel - we already have one! :thumbsup: