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futureperfect5
09-29-2007, 05:34 PM
Well, that was getting too confusing. Whatever he said ...
this is what I meant:

1 - I like being being treated well and I like treat others well.
I think the only real reason to behave with manners and politeness is if it comes from you, not society.

2 - I think that there are ways to be chivalrous, even in the 21c which are necessary or even valid
however, again - voluntary. However, medieval chivalry was appropriate then, now probably now.

3 - There is a kind of "nobility" connected with actions that are menat to bring honor and dignity to situation.
I would support them as well, for myself -- I do not imposed my ideas or needs on others.
Nor is it appropriate to make assumptions without asking for clarification -- these are broad terms.
I support equality for females in all aspects. However, I do not feel that having equality means not being extended courteous.

Rei
09-29-2007, 05:44 PM
Oh yes, there are things that are very nice to do... but in common situations also very inefficient.

I watched Kate and Leopold last night and I was thinking how charming it is for men to stand up when a lady leaves the table, hold a jacket for a lady for her to put on, express his intentions in writing. *However, I'd find it highly unnecessary and impractical unless perhaps in special situations, or just for the fun of it.

In any case. *No one ever said anything about abandoning common courtesy.