Unusual things that somehow manage to turn you on

[poetic intj]

In this thread we discuss unusual/weird things that somehow manage to turn us on.

I recently received a letter from a female correspondence of mine, and I swear I started to get turned on simply due to the fact that she was using highly technical language in a specialized field we're both crazy about.

Imagine getting a boner from following someone's calculations for a critical temperature of a condensate. Or was that reaction due to the fact that I am attracted to the person behind it? :thinking:

I suppose this thread has officially put me on the creepy guy list now (assuming I wasn't already there.

[Blse]

Peta says it's not unusual, but I'm turned on by innocent expressions, items and behavior. Anything that conveys innocence and simplicity, like a pair of PJs.

[Dru]

i feel more drawn to men (who i find attractive) who aren't the guys every other girl in the room is looking at.

[paperclip]

^ me too. i'm drawn to the unusual. im turned on by reading something someone i like has lent me. lets say its a book or article ... there are few things more erotic than crawling over every word, turning the pages, and holding the book that person has held before you ...

[poetic intj]

im turned on by reading something someone i like had loaned me. lets say its a book or article ... there are few things more erotic than crawling over every word, turning the pages, and holding the book that person has held before you ...

Oh my. I know the feeling. In my case it was a scales book that the person loaned me. Every time I practiced at the piano, I couldn't help thinking about whom it was previously held by.

Seems like I'm in good company on this forum :cheesy:

[fadelio]

the woman i love's body odor

the sound of her voice when she sings

seeing sweat on the back of her neck

reading her emails that let me know she gets me and accepts me

these are a few of my favorite things.

[SelfMadeBum]

Watched a guy build a guitar from a slab of pine... RAWR.

[larrysb]

I like mature women, even older than I am. A woman in her 40's-50's who takes care of herself is a beautiful thing in my eyes. The lines and wrinkles on the face and the natural effects of time just seem to make her more beautiful in my eyes.

[Muse]

oh man how did i not see this thread.

one very odd thing that turns me on is when i crush any sort of competition(mostly in video games these days, injuries keep me from sports), especially if its female(oh god i do love obliterating female players). on occasion i will even start to salivate.

certain things in video games that i have equated to being as awesome (or related to) as sex, such as multiple head shots, sniping with a hand gun or fully automatic, or no scoping, get me going a bit.

i share some of this trait with my IRL friends actualy. if something awesome just happened, its common for one of us to yell out "Were all a little hard in here"

i guess im just down with the sickness.

[Antares]

Uh. Social awkwardness. That does it for me sometimes.

In other times, the silent, intense and withdrawn type. Makes me wonder what's going on in his head. Makes me opportunistic, like seeing if I have the charisma and ability to pluck it out, if I can "overcome" their wall. I like feeling powerful at times :/ I have succeeded on all but one account, but being a distant classmate, I wasn't given the opportunity. Put me up with the OP on the creeper list.

[N0c7urn3]

That ever so slight pupil dilation when she's talking about something she's passionate about ...

[poetic intj]

oh man how did i not see this thread.

one very odd thing that turns me on is when i crush any sort of competition(mostly in video games these days, injuries keep me from sports), especially if its female(oh god i do love obliterating female players). on occasion i will even start to salivate.

certain things in video games that i have equated to being as awesome (or related to) as sex, such as multiple head shots, sniping with a hand gun or fully automatic, or no scoping, get me going a bit.

i share some of this trait with my IRL friends actualy. if something awesome just happened, its common for one of us to yell out "Were all a little hard in here"

i guess im just down with the sickness.


I think you get the hard-on from the rush associated with crushing another or acomplishing a difficult feat. Makes me wonder now about historical figures and whether or not they actually got turned on from the activities that made them so famous.

Did Babe Ruth really, really love home runs? Did Napoleon actually lead from his crotch ? Was Socrates' elenchus fuelled by that heat in his loins?

[fadelio]

That ever so slight pupil dilation when she's talking about something she's passionate about ...

Wow, yeah - that one gets me there too! (Is it getting warm in here?)

Also, watching her gulp water/

[Shagrath]

When I had a crush, I used to be turned on simply by thinking about non-sexual physical actions involving myself and my love interest, actions such as stroking hair and other oddities.

[LifesEcstasy]

It's the imperfections which make someone perfect for me. I can appreciate a man's beauty if he is beautiful. But if he's imperfect, has some feature that slightly mars his appearance then that's really hot to me. I love discovering that the people I think of as being untouchable are actually vulnerable and human after all. Perfection is actually really boring to me.

[badkitty]

oh man how did i not see this thread.

one very odd thing that turns me on is when i crush any sort of competition(mostly in video games these days, injuries keep me from sports), especially if its female(oh god i do love obliterating female players). on occasion i will even start to salivate.

certain things in video games that i have equated to being as awesome (or related to) as sex, such as multiple head shots, sniping with a hand gun or fully automatic, or no scoping, get me going a bit.

i share some of this trait with my IRL friends actualy. if something awesome just happened, its common for one of us to yell out "Were all a little hard in here"

i guess im just down with the sickness.


Too funny!! I am the same way...except I'm a female! Love those awesome kills that make me think..."ha, you just got stabbed in the neck by a girl"!! Or "how'd that sticky grenade I just threw at you taste bitch" I think my bf gets turned on by me too when I'm in the zone. He thinks its "cute" that I get so fired up, but damn, I do love to get good kills.

[shytiger]

Too funny!! I am the same way...except I'm a female! Love those awesome kills that make me think..."ha, you just got stabbed in the neck by a girl"!! Or "how'd that sticky grenade I just threw at you taste bitch" I think my bf gets turned on by me too when I'm in the zone. He thinks its "cute" that I get so fired up, but damn, I do love to get good kills.

That's hot stuff, I agree.

One strange thing is a woman with a completely neutral, emotionless expression. I find that somehow aluring.

[JulietCapulet]

When a guy is wearing glasses, has a really nice nose and is a little geeky.

[Serpent]

One strange thing is a woman with a completely neutral, emotionless expression. I find that somehow aluring.

I got 4 words for you man: The Sarah Connor Chronicles. You get to see the worlds hottest and most beautiful woman; Summer Glau do that for 2 glorious seasons.

[Mogura]

Chicks that write poetry. Big. Turn. On.

I remember this one girl from an environmental engineering course I had. She used to knock off lectures by writing poetry to her BF. I was crushing on her for the longest time. I hope he appreciated her...

[Distance]

A razor quality with mind and language.

[LifesEcstasy]

Collarbones. It's the one feature on a lover I touch the most. In fact that whole base of the neck area is highly erotic to me.

[Bonamona]

My favorite korean celebrities dancing in hot formalwear :p

Also;
I have no idea why but the song 'U R Man' by SS501 turns me on everytime
















Alright, back to reality.

The guy I love can turn me on just by the way he looks at me

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Chicks that write poetry. Big. Turn. On.

I remember this one girl from an environmental engineering course I had. She used to knock off lectures by writing poetry to her BF. I was crushing on her for the longest time. I hope he appreciated her...

I am a published poet and I write poetry for all the men I've ever been romantically linked with :p

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Collarbones. It's the one feature on a lover I touch the most. In fact that whole base of the neck area is highly erotic to me.

G Dragon (leader of korean band, Big Bang) is also another favorite singer of mine. He has a sexy collarbone.

[Napoleptic]

When a guy goes on about some technical thing that I don't know enough to follow. Or if he gets really passionate about a cerebral subject. Or a combination.

When a guy talks about logic and points out problems in his own or someone else's.

When a guy frequently gives me grief about something and I catch him doing the same thing. I love the sheepish look on his face - too cute.

Or when he corrects my grammar. Or generally just teaches me something or helps me get better at a skill, not with an air of superiority, but with a helpful "you can do it even better if you [some sort of action]" attitude. Wow.

[Crafter]

Working with me in the shop-cackling together manically while we craft hideous engines of destruction. It's SO romantic!

[prefect]

Physical work, specifically building things. Problem solving in general. Cold (temperature, not virus). Exceptionally well worded descriptions, both written and verbal.

[schmidt]

This might raise the bar a bit but hey.
I like it when they cry, and look afraid, or are helpless. Tied down and mascara running down their faces can be a big turn on. Threat of physical violence, threaten them with a knife, forcing them by physical or mental means.

Disclaimer: This is of course between two consenting adults, there's someone on the other side that like the opposite of what I do.

[samm]

Problem solving in general. Cold (temperature, not virus). Exceptionally well worded descriptions, both written and verbal.

For me its a big turn on when its rolled into one:
Seemingly cold INTJ giving an exceptionally well worded description on how he solved a problem.

[LifesEcstasy]

Silken hair, glossy and soft when I run my fingers through it.

[Syler]

Prominent trapezius (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.) muscles.

[Disillusioned]

Girls with Australian accents. Well, apparently there are like 4 different types of Australian accents but whichever one Isla Fisher has. There was this girl in my college English class that talked like that. She wasn't even that physically attractive but every time I heard her talk I had an eargasm.

When a girl proves me wrong about something like a theory or something technical is really hot! it doesn't happen often but even short of that just her disagreeing with me and explaining her own theory can be a real turn on for me.

When a girl is passionate about something or when she is holding back but then outbursts with a passionate argument for something.

This one time I held the door open for this girl I was walking with and she just stood there with a confused look on her face like saying with her eyes "why are you standing by the door, aren't you gunna walk through". After kinda an awkward period of me waiting for her to walk through and her just standing there waiting I finally just walked through myself. Idk, I just found it really sexy for some reason, like her way of showing that she's not one of those girls you need to dote on.

[Onigumo13]

Rough and playing hard to get females , I simply ponder of them as a challenge that your humble servant is obliged to conquer :)

[Erika]

Uh. Social awkwardness. That does it for me sometimes.

In other times, the silent, intense and withdrawn type. Makes me wonder what's going on in his head. Makes me opportunistic, like seeing if I have the charisma and ability to pluck it out, if I can "overcome" their wall. I like feeling powerful at times :/ I have succeeded on all but one account, but being a distant classmate, I wasn't given the opportunity. Put me up with the OP on the creeper list.
oh i have falling for this one myself a number of times! the sad thing is that sometimes when you finally get really deep inside, you see that there is really nothing there :)

[TenochAcampicht]

Feet, Tickling and Bondage...yes I need help I know I'm weird =P

Other than that, glasses work too.

[Nemesis]

i feel more drawn to men (who i find attractive) who aren't the guys every other girl in the room is looking at.

Definitely.

I find that women who tend to draw the attention of every guy in sight do so because they actively seek it (dressing attractively, showing off their phsyical assets, flirting etc.). All of this is fine, and I see no problems with it. However, to me it kind of cheapens things as I feel like I'm viewing some sort of ad for a product that is being sold to me. A bit too contrived and measured. I will take a sweet smile in a hoodie and jeans over glossed lips in an over-priced dress and stilettos any day. Something more genuine about those women.

[Minerva]

Oh my. I know the feeling. In my case it was a scales book that the person loaned me. Every time I practiced at the piano, I couldn't help thinking about whom it was previously held by.

Seems like I'm in good company on this forum :cheesy:

Yes because you're both creepy! Hahahahaha!

I know what you all are saying... It is like sharing an experience with the person and sometimes that is the closest that you can be to the person at the time. I sometimes wonder what the person was thinking when he read this or that.

In answer to your question...

Poetry written for me

Slient, pensive men more so if they have a slightly dark charisma. If he has virtues and principles that I look for then all the better.

Men who work with their hands or who can bulid something.

Large bank account? Joking.

[ENFP]

Intelligent, multilayered, occasionally dark humour, especially with self-irony!

Okay-okay... immature & lewd humour too. With self-irony!

Intense, attentive stare with a silent, satisfied smirk. Makes me feel "seen" and appreciated when I'm unaware and freewheeling in some other conversation. Uhmm... electric, that one! :faint:

Undemanding, playful sexual drive, strong hands, not afraid to lead and 'celebrate' my body. No machismos, no heroics, and, please, no uptight performance-issues. Not afraid to be honest about wants and uncertainties and questions, but simply lets me in and shares without any drama. But with self-irony... ;)

[elfbrick]

Rilke. In German. No idea why but man oh man oh man.

[Anomal]

Acne. There's just something cute about it, isn't there?

"Bad" breath. How about a girl's breath? I remember watching a movie with a girl and whispering to each other, and her breath just turned me on for some unknowable reason. Pheromones?

[Ilara]

The planes and curves of his back. Just his, mind (backs in general have no effect on me).

There's this exceptionally beautiful line created along the top of the shoulders and into the curve of the neck when he tilts his head forward slightly that's absolutely riveting to me.

Some music, too. Music is a highly sensual experience for me, and sometimes the music kind of crosses over into the sexual-sensual realm for some reason. It's usually not music that seems "sexy" at first hearing. I'm talking music like, say, Rostropovich's rendition of the Prelude of Bach's Cello Suite No. 1 (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.) or Gregorian chants, like Salve Regina (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.)--but both of these pieces also generate reverential/transcendental reactions in me. It's not like I'm reverential about sex. My theory is that music which touches me truly deeply manages to stimulate all aspects of my humanity (including sexuality). If that makes any sense at all...

Do I get membership in the "thoroughly creepy" club now? :p

[Mariel]

It`s very interesting to find a lot of girls that fall in to guy who talk about theoretical subjects with passion, in fact I`m one of them. I just thought that I was a little bit weird to be turned on for these thing and that I was the only one.

[Intuition]

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Love this girls voice and the way she does this song. Turns me on!

[dalsgaard]

For some reason I get turned on when women are confused. Whats with that?

For instance yesterday my girlfriend couldn't understand a math problem, and I almost didn't want to help her because it was so damn... erotic.

[tooboku]

Running shoes.

[dontmesswithme]

Shyness, vulnerability, grey hats, making eye contact while on opposite sides of a slightly see-through black curtain.

[poetic intj]

making eye contact while on opposite sides of a slightly see-through black curtain.

That sure is awfully specific :) Did you have a previous experience in mind when you wrote that, or is this something you actually look forward to doing with a potential mate?

[dontmesswithme]

That sure is awfully specific :) Did you have a previous experience in mind when you wrote that, or is this something you actually look forward to doing with a potential mate?

Yes, as a matter of fact it is specific. Very specific. I liked it. A lot.

[Thinktress]

when I see a guy work hard and shoulder responsibilities in order to take care of people he cares about, family, etc, I think it's sexy. Just every day responsibilities that people sometimes take for granted.

[INTJoe]

If she has a husky voice and well-defined Adam's Apple. Narrow hips is a plus, too.

[earnshaw]

Hours and hours of studying. But that could just be because of built up stress.

[freeeekyyy]

In this thread we discuss unusual/weird things that somehow manage to turn us on.

I recently received a letter from a female correspondence of mine, and I swear I started to get turned on simply due to the fact that she was using highly technical language in a specialized field we're both crazy about.

Imagine getting a boner from following someone's calculations for a critical temperature of a condensate. Or was that reaction due to the fact that I am attracted to the person behind it? :thinking:

I suppose this thread has officially put me on the creepy guy list now (assuming I wasn't already there.

I think it's more likely the latter. You're attracted to her, so whatever she does or says turns you on.

[SaturnEternity]

Masks.....

[masterpeach]

Huge turn-on: playing the e-guitar :rockstar: AND reading books (and when I was younger: guys riding motor cycles or sports cars)

[TenochAcampicht]

A woman that understands source code/programming...and loves video games...

YUM!

[AngryGroceries]

Her belly, hands, tongue, lips, eyes, odor... those are normal though.


I guess an odd one is I like being beat at something I was trying hard to win by my SO. (only with an SO of course, with anyone else my reaction is "shit.")

I also like if she either gets passionate about something that requires a lot of thought, or if I get passionate about something and she picks up on it and expands upon those ideas or introduces new ones.

[refuse]

I think this one goes beyond unusual. Apparently im turned on by tower defense games. Not games, not computer games, not strategy games, just tower defense games.

My N is not helping me at all here, i literally have no idea why. When i play them i will often discover myself rock hard. And its not just a non erotic physical thing like morning wood, my body and mind are totally ready to go.

I have no answers. I hate having no answers :stare:

[poetic intj]

A woman that understands source code/programming...and loves video games...

YUM!

:loveeyes: Those are incredibly sexy indeed. Especially if she is a mod creator for Infinity Engine games (based on your portrait, you should know what I'm talking about!)

[Rogarn]

Uh. Social awkwardness. That does it for me sometimes.

In other times, the silent, intense and withdrawn type. Makes me wonder what's going on in his head. Makes me opportunistic, like seeing if I have the charisma and ability to pluck it out, if I can "overcome" their wall. I like feeling powerful at times :/ I have succeeded on all but one account, but being a distant classmate, I wasn't given the opportunity. Put me up with the OP on the creeper list.



I like those silent, intense and withdrawn types. It like the thrill of the hunt. The challenge of getting through them. Ive also run into a few girls that say they have never orgasmed before. They turn me on like nooo other. Ive always had a passion for making a girl orgasm, and a girl putting before me an open challenge like that... Get. out. of. my. way. before. i. shoot. you. down.
/add to creeper list

[rika]

A woman that understands source code/programming...


How do you react when you find out that a bit of code was written by a woman?
Do you treat it any differently than the ones written by men?


What I find when I produce the occasional bit of code is that the first guy who comes across it tells me that it is wrong. - Happens 10 times out of 10. Initially I got annoyed - now I just laugh at them and tell them how predictable they are.

[poetic intj]

^Being an NT yourself, you should know that when those guys do that, they are actually saying that "even though you have boobies, you are worthy enough of my time to warrant a critique of your code"...or something. That's their NT "love language" :cheesy:

[rika]

^Being an NT yourself, you should know that when those guys do that, they are actually saying that "even though you have boobies, you are worthy enough of my time to warrant a critique of your code"...or something. That's their NT "love language" :cheesy:

Love really seems to be a very modest flower that blossoms in the most unusual places!

[Pragmatist]

All of YOU, right NOW, discussing THIS! YYYEE.. no... not really. I do have all sorts of crazy wild fantasies that would make a lesser person feel disturbed. HOWEVER! Nothing I can say at this point could compete with some of the sappy sentimental romance you guys are spewing. :) Who wants to drop some unorthodox perversion while everyone else is talking about pitching a trouser tent when they hold the same book as their one true love? For heaven's sake... either you need to get laid or you have the emotional depth and sensitivity of a saint on Viagra. I mean that as a compliment.

I'm not judging. Hell, I wish I could get off holding a book that wasn't about some obscure fetish. People should be this honest in real life... without fear of social desecration.

[Rogarn]

I'm not judging. Hell, I wish I could get off holding a book that wasn't about some obscure fetish. People should be this honest in real life... without fear of social desecration.

I think that is the real problem Pragmatist. Everyone out there is afraid of what the next person will think. what if they dont like that, what if they think im afraid. They then hold everything in, and things like fetish's become non-existent because of it. You could also say in other words, that maybe we should be a whole lot more open with these passions of ours that are obviously so strong in our hearts and minds if we wish to open our hearts as well. Maybe these passions are what are truly necessary for love? hmmm.. just an idea

Maybe we just all have to many inner demons that need to be revealed so that they can either be accepted by everyone around us or destroyed. It seems those inner secrets we keep... in the long run with our SO.... they do us no good.

[cheerbear]

A woman that understands source code/programming...and loves video games...

YUM!

:laugh: and I'd melt if someone could get me to ever frikkin understand programming :mellow:

[Xanthippe]

I guess it's a bit strange that I'm turned on by a somewhat self-protective attitude towards danger of any kind - physical, political, etc. Perhaps it's because I'm also a coward, haha. I get strangely turned on by the notion of dodging a military draft.

[Pragmatist]

I think that is the real problem Pragmatist. Everyone out there is afraid of what the next person will think. what if they dont like that, what if they think im afraid. They then hold everything in, and things like fetish's become non-existent because of it. You could also say in other words, that maybe we should be a whole lot more open with these passions of ours that are obviously so strong in our hearts and minds if we wish to open our hearts as well. Maybe these passions are what are truly necessary for love? hmmm.. just an idea

Maybe we just all have to many inner demons that need to be revealed so that they can either be accepted by everyone around us or destroyed. It seems those inner secrets we keep... in the long run with our SO.... they do us no good.

Wise words indeed my friend. After all, a Demon is only worse than an Angel because of popular public vote. Who says one is right and one is wrong? It's all relative.

Of all the old people I've spoken with, of all the advice passed from one generation to another. The most common and in my opinion best is simply this: stop asking what other people want you to be and start asking what will make you happy. I'm working on this myself right now. We have to stop allowing ourselves to be frightened by consequences. It gets messy, but life is messy, that's how it's meant to be. After the dust settles, at least you'll have what you were looking for, instead of being left with an empty void that looks good on the outside but feelings horrible on the inside. All that's doing is telling yourself other people's opinions are more important than your own self satisfaction. BS!

Nice Protoss icon by the way.

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I guess it's a bit strange that I'm turned on by a somewhat self-protective attitude towards danger of any kind - physical, political, etc. Perhaps it's because I'm also a coward, haha. I get strangely turned on by the notion of dodging a military draft.

That's the coolest one I've heard so far. Cowards need more love. They should make a movie where instead of the hero winning the fight and getting the girl, he hides in a damp hole in the ground and they make sweet sweet love to the squeaking of sewer rats and the rabble of an angry mob up above.

[LifesEcstasy]

I think this one goes beyond unusual. Apparently im turned on by tower defense games. Not games, not computer games, not strategy games, just tower defense games.

My N is not helping me at all here, i literally have no idea why. When i play them i will often discover myself rock hard. And its not just a non erotic physical thing like morning wood, my body and mind are totally ready to go.

I have no answers. I hate having no answers :stare:

The phallic nature of the tower, and defending your substitute penis with artillery, another really phallic thing. I see a bit of willy theme happening here.

[KarlG]

Hi Rika,

I've just read your previous statement, and I'm sure you're wrong. In fact, I'd bet on it 10 times out of 10...

:-p

[Pragmatist]

The phallic nature of the tower, and defending your substitute penis with artillery, another really phallic thing. I see a bit of willy theme happening here.

Oh god, can women think past our penis for 5 seconds? If you'd ever played tower defense you'd know that it's generally a 2D game and the tower looks non-phallic as possible. I know you were trying to make a joke and all but that whole thing gets annoying after you've heard it 80,000,000,000 times.

[Storm]

Oh god, can women think past our penis for 5 seconds? If you'd ever played tower defense you'd know that it's generally a 2D game and the tower looks non-phallic as possible. I know you were trying to make a joke and all but that whole thing gets annoying after you've heard it 80,000,000,000 times.

Maybe it has to with the idea that the enemy is penetrating your defense. You put up a little faux resistance, but eventually succumb to the enemy's persistence.

Really, I have no idea. The games are incredibly addictive.

[elegantlyme]

Ha. Being terrified to touch me, trying to hold himself back. That's really sexy. Simply being intelligent is a huge turn on.

For example, my lovely boyfriend noticed that I was cold and handed me this lovely old fashioned pea-coat. We were later in a movie, and I noticed that something was in the pocket. I took it out, and it was a copy of Romeo and Juliet, complete with his notes, and good lord; they were good notes. Sexiest thing *ever*.

[rika]

Hi Rika,

I've just read your previous statement, and I'm sure you're wrong. In fact, I'd bet on it 10 times out of 10...

:-p

What's your bet then?
I'd really like to know what is happening to these poor guys.

[JazzOne]

I was going to post about my fetish for legs and brains, but then I saw a picture of Thinktress. Wow. Nice pic.

[Pragmatist]

Maybe it has to with the idea that the enemy is penetrating your defense. You put up a little faux resistance, but eventually succumb to the enemy's persistence.

Really, I have no idea. The games are incredibly addictive.

Ha ha, now that's a clever theory. ;)

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I was going to post about my fetish for legs and brains, but then I saw a picture of Thinktress. Wow. Nice pic.

Begins playing "Love is in the Air" by John Paul Young

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I'd have to say, if I had to classify my single favorite fetish, it would be my fetish for fetishes. I like weird, exotic people and their weird, unorthodox minds. Surprise me with how outside of the box you think and feel and I will love you for it. Just don't be dull and uncreative.

[REMwoman]

Developer's forearms and hands. Men who spend a lot of time coding/developing have these sinewy hands, wrists, and forearms. [shiver] :lovestruck:

[JazzOne]

Begins playing "Love is in the Air" by John Paul Young

lol

I love older women. Not super old, just older than I am.

[Sazeriel]

Speaking in foreign langauges is just really sexy for some reason...

[whales]

I'd prefer it not be a signature look, but guys wearing a sweatshirt. It just looks so warm and cozy!

[LifesEcstasy]

I like a bit of fumbling with my clothes. It shows he's super excited and not all that used to getting a girl's kit off. Sooo hot!

[refuse]

Speaking in foreign langauges is just really sexy for some reason...

Very much so. I especially love being the recipient of a one way conversation in a language i know nothing of. It makes me feel like im getting something real.

[Mogura]

I like a bit of fumbling with my clothes. It shows he's super excited and not all that used to getting a girl's kit off. Sooo hot!
I can unhook a bra... with one hand... in the dark... in less than a second... :scared:

[Zombicide]

A mirror

[RdtheLiterature]

teamwork turns me on...especially in a tense situation...It's a big turn on when a guy knows how to handle an emergency stressful situation...the calm under pressure types..who are intelligent to know what needs to be done to get the job done...Loveeee Thattt! I despise fretful types...who just get all doomy and gloomy...like 'the world is going to end'...uhg...

Tall...thick arms...Like, if I feel the need to attack my bf for some reason....like, if he frustrates me enough...if I'm pushing him in someway...I don't mind him proving to me he's physically stronger...Being thrown into a wall firmly-Big Turn On...

[katrin]

LOL. I think a lot of these things people are posting are not really unusual turn ons. I'd say mine is tracing or kissing my SO's shoulder blades. I have a thing for shoulder blades. But I guess no body part is an unusual turn on.

When a man surprises me by knowing something I didn't know about a topic I thought was more my domain than his. That's exciting.

[LifesEcstasy]

LOL. I think a lot of these things people are posting are not really unusual turn ons.

Maybe we are not all as special and unique as we'd like to think we are...or maybe we're all scared of being labelled a pervert. Maybe that's why I haven't yet posted about my twin brothers fantasy....oops! I just did. :laugh:

[cannotseethe]

The prospect of having sex in a cemetery while grief-stricken onlookers sob, wring their hands, and throw flowers turns me on quite a bit. But I'm told that's not all that unusual. Anyone else?

[katrin]

Maybe we are not all as special and unique as we'd like to think we are...or maybe we're all scared of being labelled a pervert. Maybe that's why I haven't yet posted about my twin brothers fantasy....oops! I just did. :laugh:

Okay, now we're getting somewhere! I don't think I can top that...

Whenever I've been to a museum, castle, or stately home with an SO, I've fantasized about having sex in the fancy historical beds.

:thinking: I don't think that's particularly unusual either.

[cannotseethe]

Sex while hurtling towards the ground after jumping from an airplane. Or while SCUBA diving.

[LifesEcstasy]

Japanese school-girl uniform....on me...and....maybe him too.:stunned:

[cannotseethe]

Way up in a tree.

[katrin]

Sex while hurtling towards the ground after jumping from an airplane. Or while SCUBA diving.

You've done those? :shocked: If so, you are now the idol of most around here because those are unusual. Probably not unusual fantasies but uncommon in the realization one would think.

The idea of having sex in the cave behind a waterfall--any fairly private waterfall--does it for me. But that can't be an unusual fantasy. One amorous couple is likely to surprise another when venturing in.

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Japanese school-girl uniform....on me...and....maybe him too.:stunned:

Awesome.

I can't think of any costume ones, but I wouldn't mind doing it in a coffin. Again, not unusual, though. *sigh* There are probably 6,476 goths doing that right this very minute.

[LifesEcstasy]

I've got the cliche....sex in a dimly lit public place while being secretly watched by a stranger with a cigarette. It's so ordinary I feel embarassed to post it.

[radames]

The little part of the hipbone that I can grab onto for leverage, sort of like a handle, and run my fingers along and really "get IN there" :wideeyed:

[AngryGroceries]

Should this be inclusive with fantasies, and not only actual turn ons that we experience?

If fantasies can be included, then this whole thing will be much, much weirder. I definitely would not post some of them here.

[LifesEcstasy]

Should this be inclusive with fantasies, and not only actual turn ons that we experience?


Aren't fantasies turn-ons? Exposure to something that cause's a positive sexual response is by definition a turn-on. It hardly matters if the exposure occurred only in one's own mind or not.

[Rogarn]

Pragmatist, i absolutely love my protoss guy <3

I dont really go for the whole school girl thing, but i absolutely love a pleated skirt. Unfortunately, the "in" fashion is jean skirts... it saddens me.

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The little part of the hipbone that I can grab onto for leverage, sort of like a handle, and run my fingers along and really "get IN there" :wideeyed:

this part is absolutely perfect to use. Its like nature's leverage for guys. A girl with wide hips is awesome(and a small waist preferably).

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Aren't fantasies turn-ons? Exposure to something that cause's a positive sexual response is by definition a turn-on. It hardly matters if the exposure occurred only in one's own mind or not.


Yes, fantasies are turn-ons. However, most people are even more scared to realize their fantasies. Fantasies for everyone are their deepest and darkest secrets. Many times they contain things that they themselves consider taboo. All the more reason to keep them secret.

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I've got the cliche....sex in a dimly lit public place while being secretly watched by a stranger with a cigarette. It's so ordinary I feel embarassed to post it.

It may seem ordinary but it is an incredible turn on(as long as the stalker dude keeps his distance, otherwise the pants are coming back up and im running like hell!). The act of exhibitionism is an incredible turn on for many, but also something that most can not bring themselves to be able to do.

[Bonamona]

Much adored korean celebrities dancing and singing in stage performances or music videos. Complete with sexy hairstyles, outfits and facial expressions that make me wish I can do the most ungodly sexual things.

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If a guy can make his facial expression seem stone cold, serious, somewhat evil but with a sexy smirk.. Although at the core, he is a warm hearted person.

A real turn on.

*I went terribly unusually insane when my favorite singer Kim Hyun Joong starred as a villain in a mini drama. It made me want to be the girl he kidnapped*


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[undertow]

Me, wearing a Darth Vader costume, she struggling in my suffocating force grip!

*Thhhfff* *Tssshhh* I AM YOUR FATH... ok. We won't go there.

[Napoleptic]

I love it when something about a guy turns me on and not only does he have no clue, he wouldn't believe me if I told him because it's the last feature he'd expect someone to be attracted to - for instance, a look of shock on a scrawny guy's face when he realizes that yes, I do want his body.

Or when a guy is talking and my mind wanders out of the conversation and into his pants, and he has no idea. Imagining the look of shock and disbelief on his face if he suddenly could see my thoughts is somehow even more tantalizing.

[LifesEcstasy]

Or when a guy is talking and my mind wanders out of the conversation and into his pants, and he has no idea. Imagining the look of shock and disbelief on his face if he suddenly could see my thoughts is somehow even more tantalizing.

My mind is always in his pants when he's talking. What? Like guys have anything interesting to say anyway? He's crapping on about how important his job is...I'm imagining performing an unspeakable act of oral fantasy. Honey shut up, I want to suck you off.

[INTroJect]

I have a particular softspot for some guys in wheelchairs. Its not like a pornographic kind of turn on, its more like I want to be their boyfriend and take care of them.

For actual turn-on, its really difficult and so varied.
-im a dominator of dominators, generally, so I kind of get turned on when someone is talking all tough because I know that later they are going to be in trouble.
-Love watching straight people do PDA, its surreal to watch, I could spy that all day.
-Deep voice and nice
-breathing on my neck and ears seems to do something
-that after-gym smell. Not the raunchy kind though.

Wish I could put a kill-pill of what does it because its so varied and a combination of things. Im jealous of people who have things like foot fetishes and whatnot because it seems more simple.

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My mind is always in his pants when he's talking. What? Like guys have anything interesting to say anyway? He's crapping on about how important his job is...I'm imagining performing an unspeakable act of oral fantasy. Honey shut up, I want to suck you off.

yowzah. That actually turned me straight for a flash second.

[Napoleptic]

My mind is always in his pants when he's talking. What? Like guys have anything interesting to say anyway? He's crapping on about how important his job is...I'm imagining performing an unspeakable act of oral fantasy. Honey shut up, I want to suck you off.

Weird. I'm usually attracted to a guy because he has interesting things to say. :laugh: Also, there's another fantasy - getting sneakily increasingly physical with a guy while he continues talking all smart and/or technical. Both because hearing that sort of thing turns me on and to encourage him to do more of it. ;D

[TrailBlazer]

Sitting in the same chair as someone im attracted to seems to do it for me. I am unsure why, but perhaps its just knowing that she was here does it? As I stated I do not know however it does it for me.

[WyohKnott]

Someone trying really, really hard not to smile. Fingernail biting. (Which is weird, because the sight of actually bitten fingernails is pretty gross - it's just the actual act of biting them) Earnestly explaining a difficult concept - bonus points for having to draw something out. Playing any instrument but the drums, especially a guitar. Really terrible puns.

[INTroJect]

Weird. I'm usually attracted to a guy because he has interesting things to say. :laugh: Also, there's another fantasy - getting sneakily increasingly physical with a guy while he continues talking all smart and/or technical. Both because hearing that sort of thing turns me on and to encourage him to do more of it. ;D

Now that you mention this I can kind of relate to this. There is a desire there to have sex while talking about something, completely unrelated to sex, but extremely interesting. Like a historical debate would be awesome. Its never been acted out though.

[everlost]

Bestiality. And that's just one example......

[OhSoLovely]

Well I usually am attracted to the nerdy smart awkward guys but I try to stay away because being the INTJ I am, Im extremely awkward myself. I couldnt be in a relationship with someone just as awkward.

Im in a relationship with an ENFJ right now and I find myself in awe by the way he handles himself in social situations. He has an answer for everything. I also find myself attracted to his quirks. He will act like a 2 year old around me sometimes. Before he walked around the room acting like a dinosaur as I stood there awkwardly and fully attracted to him because I feel safe and almost like I can let go around him.

I love being called cute little nicknames, glasses, intellegence, and depth. Im strongly attracted to respectability, easiness, and to a person who is rational. I hate people who talk too much but I love people who can "bring me out of my shell".

[everlost]

Jeez, noone here is posting unusual things as the thread asks for.... This thread could be really interesting but is actually quite boring...

[INTroJect]

Well whats so interesting about having sex with animals?

[everlost]

I think it's interesting because it's actually unusual and quite deviant compared to regular human sexual behaviour. Most things posted in here are perfectly normal and thus, not that interesting to read about.

[Napoleptic]

Well I usually am attracted to the nerdy smart awkward guys but I try to stay away because being the INTJ I am, Im extremely awkward myself.

Story of my freaking life. :cry:

I think it's interesting because it's actually unusual and quite deviant compared to regular human sexual behaviour. Most things posted in here are perfectly normal and thus, not that interesting to read about.

Clearly they're interesting to someone, or they wouldn't have posted to begin with. What were you expecting/hoping to see?

[LifesEcstasy]

Clearly they're interesting to someone, or they wouldn't have posted to begin with. What were you expecting/hoping to see?

Farmyard animals evidently...:thinking:

[Pragmatist]

I think it's interesting because it's actually unusual and quite deviant compared to regular human sexual behaviour. Most things posted in here are perfectly normal and thus, not that interesting to read about.

Couldn't have said it better myself. I won't knock anyone for liking the cute, sweet, romantic things you're all talking about but I have to agree with everlost, vanilla is not my sexual flavor.
I give you huge props for dropping the bestiality bomb. That was both hilarious and fantastic. Well played sir!

[SirJamesIII]

If I ever crack a joke and a girl tries her hardest not to laugh, maybe she looks away or bites a lip, then i find that a turn on. The best part is when she looks into your eyes right after.

[dontmesswithme]

@everlost:What is it about animals that turns you on? I mean, it's about what manages to turn you on. If you're already having sex, be it with a human, a Saint Bernard or an apple fritter, something had to happen to bring that gleam to your eye. Is it the way the animal looks at you? The way their butts wiggle when they walk? Their size? Their voices? (*.....hey, those things apply to humans!.....*)

I'm imagining you trying to get somewhere with a bird. (too small) Or a seal (too slippery). Do your tastes run strictly with the dogs? (attractive dogs, natch) Or do cats do it for you? (but cats can be so "what have you done for me lately", so high maintenance!) Do you like blondes, brunettes, tan, sable, redheads, short-hairs (foreign and domestic), de-clawed, neutered/spayed?

I guess this "sexual flavour" is Turkey And Giblets Dinner With Gravy. (that's my cat's favourite one)

[Pragmatist]

Every fetish, turn-on and fantasy all boils down to the same thing. Trying to tap into the greatest well of emotional depth available.

Think about your basic staples of sexuality. At the top of the list for most people is going to be knowing that their partner is really enjoying it. Why? Because it represents the unleashing of more emotion. In a purely mathematical sense, you want the least amount of energy (-X) to amount in the greatest result (+Y).

For many, many people, the more taboo something is the more energy it contains. Like an untapped well. The less people partaking of it, the more abundant it becomes. However, with sex, that thing also has to be coupled with some kind of powerful symbolism otherwise it has no sexual association. For example, reading Shakespeare backwards may be rare, but it has little or no sexual connection, thus it is rarely considered a fetish. Being tied down and at someone's mercy on the other hand, is not something many people encounter often, and there is strong sexual symbolism present, so it is a popular fetish.

If you want to understand, simply visualize the amount of dormant energy and multiply that by the power of the sexual symbolism involved. Voila!

The only question left is, how well does that individual resonate with the specific type of energy and symbolism? This, of course, is a whole different topic all together and very strongly based in psychology. Basically, it has to do with whether or not someone is open minded enough to connect with the sexual symbolism of any given activity or if there is some kind of mental/emotional block preventing that from happening. That, in turn, is related to how they grew up viewing that particular experience, etc.

[MikeC]

I find crazy girls appealing. <shrugs>

[Pragmatist]

I find crazy girls appealing. <shrugs>

Ditto. Though it depends on the extent of 'crazy'. I've had fantasies about being stalked and obsessed over but then again the reality never seems to be quite as convenient and exciting as the fantasy. Also, I like the idea of a girl thinking very much outside the box and being unique, but having problems that cause her to be incapable of going out in public or participating in any kind of recreational activity seems too cumbersome.

[poetic intj]

A couple people complained that the thread started out on too much of a romantic note. Well, here's a not-so-romantic unusual thing that turns me on:

When a girl does something embarrassing that makes her obviously self-conscious and she fruitlessly tries to hide it from showing on her face.

For example, we are alone in a room, and she suddenly gives a loud sneeze with debris flying in all directions, and the scent of her sneeze starts to permeate throughout the room. That awkward, self-conscious look on her face makes me hard for some reason and if that's not unusual, I don't know what is.

[everlost]

@everlost:What is it about animals that turns you on? I mean, it's about what manages to turn you on. If you're already having sex, be it with a human, a Saint Bernard or an apple fritter, something had to happen to bring that gleam to your eye. Is it the way the animal looks at you? The way their butts wiggle when they walk? Their size? Their voices? (*.....hey, those things apply to humans!.....*)

I'm imagining you trying to get somewhere with a bird. (too small) Or a seal (too slippery). Do your tastes run strictly with the dogs? (attractive dogs, natch) Or do cats do it for you? (but cats can be so "what have you done for me lately", so high maintenance!) Do you like blondes, brunettes, tan, sable, redheads, short-hairs (foreign and domestic), de-clawed, neutered/spayed?

I guess this "sexual flavour" is Turkey And Giblets Dinner With Gravy. (that's my cat's favourite one)

I'm not attracted to animals, I just think it's a turn-on watching animals fuck women.

It's not the animal per se that turns me on, It's more how the animal does it. I like how the animals driving force is just pure bestial lust. It's so natural.

[Artio]

C'thulhu. After dark. In my dreams. Uuh.

[Pragmatist]

I'm not attracted to animals, I just think it's a turn-on watching animals fuck women.

This is an example of the connection between potential and symbolism. There is no desire for companionship here, it is purely sexual because it's not about what you bring to the table in a relationship. Relationships are different from sex, because sex is only one aspect of a relationship. Relationships also deal with potential and symbolism, however, in a different way.

It's not the animal per se that turns me on, It's more how the animal does it. I like how the animals driving force is just pure bestial lust. It's so natural.

Ha ha. I think it's great you even bothered to reply to his mockery of your sexual interests. You're a stand up guy in my book!

Bestial lust = Powerful Sexual Symbolism. Most deep seeded sexual fantasies involve it in some aspect, whether it be rape, physical abuse, degradation, etc. Really the elements of why you like bestiality aren't abnormal or "weird" in any way shape or form. The only "weird" aspect is the fact that it's uncommon which as I described before is part of the charm. Much like why people enjoy discovering bands their friends don't know about. There is an intimacy developed by being one of the few to have a connection with something.

To be honest, what I don't understand is why people are so offended by such things. My only explanation is immaturity and closed mindedness. Especially generated by dogma such as religion or social politics.

[poetic intj]

C'thulhu. After dark. In my dreams. Uuh.

You have wet dreams about ancient gods from extra-dimensional planes of existence? I think we have a winner...

[Pragmatist]

You have wet dreams about ancient gods from extra-dimensional planes of existence? I think we have a winner...

"Winner"
I had sneaking suspicions this was turning into a contest of who had the most unique or romantic turn on. :P

[Artio]

You know what they say about bad guys. I've never really cared about looks, but the voice when he calls me... I assure you there's nothing romantic involved.

I may not know much about feelings, but this is pure lust.

[poetic intj]

With INTJ's, everything is a competition.

By the way, although your contributions to this topic have been insightful, I don't think you mentioned any of yours, Pragmatist. I think we could handle it.

[Pragmatist]

With INTJ's, everything is a competition.

By the way, although your contributions to this topic have been insightful, I don't think you mentioned any of yours, Pragmatist. I think we could handle it.

So true, even when we're on a team we're measuring our values against one another. I hope it's in the friendliest of ways. I try to appreciate that everyone has something special about them though, so it's not so much a competition as finding your niche. Then of course there are competitions that are meant to be competitive.... such as sports. In that case, all your base are belong to me.

Technically I did mention I have a fetish for fetishes, I meant that. Nothing excites me more than finding the deepest darkest secret a person has and making an intimate connection with it. As I stated in my theory it's all about the most potential available. Still, if you wanted a few specific interests or turn ons, ask and ye shall receive.

I.E - Sexually dominant women, burly men, role playing, bondage, mostly anything you can think of if it's done tastefully.

I don't have many 'romantic' fantasies but probably the closest I could offer is this. I tend to be very cold because I have a slim build, so when I cuddle up next to someone else and they are warm it drives me nuts. Like I want to curl up inside them and be nourished by their lovely essence. It has the rare ability to excite me without anything particularly exotic taking place.

[kristle]

stalkers or being stalked. There is nothing more exciting than the feeling of being secretly watched. Maybe it's the idea of being prey or perhaps the knowledge that he's patient and selective and that I, somehow, made the cut. Either way I leave a crack in my blinds just in case ;)

[Mogura]

stalkers or being stalked. There is nothing more exciting than the feeling of being secretly watched. Maybe it's the idea of being prey or perhaps the knowledge that he's patient and selective and that I, somehow, made the cut. Either way I leave a crack in my blinds just in case ;)
Surely you can't be serious?!? :suspicious:

[poetic intj]

^Not so hard to believe. Apparently rape fantasies are common among women, and some of them can be quite graphic.

The first time I heard about these, I went into complete shock and felt like my world turned upside down. I used to have rather naive, romanticized views about the fairer sex before I learnt how common these fantasies were.

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Feminist writer Jill Soloway (jillsoloway.com) thinks rape fantasies work on an evolutionary level... "For most, if not all, of the women I know," e-mails Soloway, "good sex entails a shared fantasy of dominance, where the man knows you're playing. How weird is this? We fight for the right to say yes, then once we have it we find it's hottest if we pretend to say no."

[Galactica]

In this thread we discuss unusual/weird things that somehow manage to turn us on.

I recently received a letter from a female correspondence of mine, and I swear I started to get turned on simply due to the fact that she was using highly technical language in a specialized field we're both crazy about.

Imagine getting a boner from following someone's calculations for a critical temperature of a condensate. Or was that reaction due to the fact that I am attracted to the person behind it? :thinking:

I suppose this thread has officially put me on the creepy guy list now (assuming I wasn't already there.

nah...not creepy..heheheh
Listening to ProTools jargon, historical facts, stock quotes, smelly man pits, angry passionate rants, convoluted symbolic poetry, playing with fingertips...

[Pragmatist]

stalkers or being stalked. There is nothing more exciting than the feeling of being secretly watched. Maybe it's the idea of being prey or perhaps the knowledge that he's patient and selective and that I, somehow, made the cut. Either way I leave a crack in my blinds just in case ;)

See I had a similar fantasy but in my little bit of experience have realized that being stalked is never as great as it is in your fantasy. In your fantasy they are only doing it at convenient times and they are devoted to you in a way that they only want to do right by you ( at least that's my fantasy ). Yet in reality it's more likely they'll show up and start flashing you while you're in the middle of a business meeting. :( Or when you have a significant other.. who isn't them... they don't tend to handle that well.

[TallyRx]

Ditto. Though it depends on the extent of 'crazy'. I've had fantasies about being stalked and obsessed over but then again the reality never seems to be quite as convenient and exciting as the fantasy.

I have had the stalker/obessed guy fantasy for ages! Seems to me that I never get the stalkers I want though. It's always the uber-creepy not-good-looking type. I did have one stalker way back in grade school who I liked but he's as far as good stalkers have went for me.

I have a weird thing for guys who wear glasses. If I'm dating a guy and I find out he has a pair of glasses hidden away somewhere I'm usually all, "Put them on, put them on right now!" Glasses have always meant intelligence to me and intelligence is a major turn on.

[Galactica]

With INTJ's, everything is a competition.

By the way, although your contributions to this topic have been insightful, I don't think you mentioned any of yours, Pragmatist. I think we could handle it.

As an INTJ, I am not typically competitive. Personally, on the side of gain, I see no point in it, I am confident enough in my abilities to where I do not need to intentionally compete. I, of course cannot speak for others on this matter.

[Seriously]

It's unfortunate that if and when a woman implies she has a stalker and/or rape fantasy in a discussion that will immediately flag a portion of the male population into thinking that women want and/or enjoy actually being stalked or raped.

[Pragmatist]

I have had the stalker/obessed guy fantasy for ages! Seems to me that I never get the stalkers I want though. It's always the uber-creepy not-good-looking type. I did have one stalker way back in grade school who I liked but he's as far as good stalkers have went for me.

I have a weird thing for guys who wear glasses. If I'm dating a guy and I find out he has a pair of glasses hidden away somewhere I'm usually all, "Put them on, put them on right now!" Glasses have always meant intelligence to me and intelligence is a major turn on.

It's kind of unfair because it's sort of a pre-req for stalkers that they are not attractive, confident and worthy enough to approach you. Why else would they be stalking, right? It's too much to ask that they just happen to be a wealthy, beautiful, brilliant individual who for whatever reason views you as the only lovely gem life has to offer.

See now then the question is, do they have to be prescription?

[Haildancer]

Light bondage, bald guys who embrace it and shave their head, broad shoulders, a deep voice. Even better if he has a nice singing voice.

[rEliseMe]

The idea that while I am looking away, he is biting his lip and imagining me in horribly vulgar situations.

Or when he gets excited about something academic and has to tell me about it from start to finish. Or when he lets me do the same.

Or when we watch a documentary together.

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Apparently rape fantasies are common among women, and some of them can be quite graphic.
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I can't speak for other women, but the reason a rape fantasy excites me is the idea that a man could want me so much he'd just take me. Raw lust. What makes it better as a fantasy is that I can engineer him to be someone I'd have sex with anyway, so I'm not left with the guilt and shame afterward.

[LadyInHeels]

Effeminate men who act gay, but aren't
or the complete opposite- burly mountain men types who are shy and odd.

Or a guy who happens to share an obscure interest of mine

[poetic intj]

^So your ideal would be a shy, burly mountain type who acts like an effeminate gay bear ?

That rules me out then :laugh:

[Commissar]

Was sitting behind a girl I recognized from high school yesterday in my psych class. She was on a laptop, looking at her classes; all of which were quite advanced and, needless to say, an impressive sight to behold.

:lovestruck:

[Pragmatist]

I'll tell you what impresses me, is a girl who's not afraid to compete and get her hands dirty. I train here and there at my local MMA gym, mostly BJJ, and let me tell you... EVERY SINGLE time you see girls come in there they do nothing but giggle and look around to see if anyone is paying attention to them. They never take anything seriously.

Taking life seriously is hot. Especially when you are beating other people at it... <3

[joannesdogs]

This sounds a bit boring compared to some of your turn ons but I like the shape of a mans shoulders, someone whose character interests me, who actually values my opinion and isnt scared of me, they have to have something interesting to say, boredom is a real turn off.
I also like those times when you have those slight glancing touches deliberately on accident if you know what I mean

[Artio]

I think that, let's say, not everybody took my C'thulhu-fantasy seriously. But still I dare to say that Hellboy turns me on, too. Two-dimensional, black and white, from hell, bad attitude but eager to love... I'd so do him.

[Paragon Vixen]

Identical twins.

[bunny]

Cheeseburgers turn me on. I like to eat them before foreplay, but in a diner.lol
A man's natural scent (without cologne)
When a guy figures out my "spots" without me telling him.
Long black hair
a slightly dirty guy. Like a day without showering, but not more than two days without showering.
Watching him play Call of Duty
oh and ANY artistically inclined fellow. I love poems about me

[ModernLit]

the sexy/ugly thing some guys have going on.
people 5 years younger than i am.

[grr]

verbal commands

[oodlesofnoodles]

Would it be extremely disturbing to find somone's brain so attractive, that you would like to have it written into their will that you will be left their brain in a jar after they're done with it?

[JohnDoe]

Would it be extremely disturbing to find somone's brain so attractive, that you would like to have it written into their will that you will be left their brain in a jar after they're done with it?

I'd find that pretty disturbing. But its not like I need it.

[runoverazebra]

A nice set of neck muscles.

[animeia]

force and public areas :)

[TDore]

Anything that's weird, doesn't make sense, or is just out of the blue. Oh also necks, like when a lady is sitting forward and leans her head back a little, fun stuff.

[vertex]

Legal matters turn me on. My girlfriend fighting out a legal battle and outwitting the other party or making the other party settle is HOT. Love it even more when she totally destroys them too. In fact, we share the same joys lol...

furthermore: soft sm, public sex, allowing me to determine her clothes etc

:devilish:

[alphawolf]

A woman who understands me; and believe me, that is highly unusual.

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Legal matters turn me on. My girlfriend fighting out a legal battle and outwitting the other party or making the other party settle is HOT. Love it even more when she totally destroys them too. In fact, we share the same joys lol...

furthermore: soft sm, public sex, allowing me to determine her clothes etc

:devilish:


LOL, let me guess, she's an ENTJ.

[Pragmatist]

A woman who understands me; and believe me, that is highly unusual.

Hear hear. I'd go nuts for a woman who was on the same wavelength. It's easy to find women who have common interests, or who have a similar through process and communication style, or who are supportive. It's not easy to find even two of those at once, let alone all three.......

I think I'd need a girl who not only wanted to compete in martial arts herself but would train with me, come to my tournaments and cheer me on, and also sit back and analyze it on an intellectual level during off time. And that's just one hobby... :\ we're all doomed to die alone.

[poetic intj]

Hear hear. I'd go nuts for a woman who was on the same wavelength. It's easy to find women who have common interests, or who have a similar through process and communication style, or who are supportive. It's not easy to find even two of those at once, let alone all three.......

I think I'd need a girl who not only wanted to compete in martial arts herself but would train with me, come to my tournaments and cheer me on, and also sit back and analyze it on an intellectual level during off time. And that's just one hobby... :\ we're all doomed to die alone.

I understand the sentiment about the rarity of finding a woman on the same wavelength on multiple levels. If it's any consolation to you, the woman of your dreams does exist viz. one of my college professors.

She got her degree from Harvard, had a very intellectual style in the classroom, and what was our surprise when one day she took us on a field trip to her judo gym. She lived in a dojo for a while, and during lecture, she told us some rather emotionally powerful stories about her connection with her sensei during intense training. You probably would have been interested in her, and I won't deny I had a minor crush of my own.

[katrin]

Hear hear. I'd go nuts for a woman who was on the same wavelength. It's easy to find women who have common interests, or who have a similar through process and communication style, or who are supportive. It's not easy to find even two of those at once, let alone all three.......we're all doomed to die alone.

LOL. It's quite possible to find someone with common interests, similar communication style and thought process, and who is supportive and still not feel chemistry with him or her!

But not everyone dies alone. Some folks get lucky.

[Pragmatist]

I understand the sentiment about the rarity of finding a woman on the same wavelength on multiple levels. If it's any consolation to you, the woman of your dreams does exist viz. one of my college professors.

She got her degree from Harvard, had a very intellectual style in the classroom, and what was our surprise when one day she took us on a field trip to her judo gym. She lived in a dojo for a while, and during lecture, she told us some rather emotionally powerful stories about her connection with her sensei during intense training. You probably would have been interested in her, and I won't deny I had a minor crush of my own.

That's the thing though, you can't just assume someone is on the same wavelength because they like martial arts or because they are intellectual. It's so much more complex than that. Trust me, I've met people, males and females, who were both intellectuals and martial arts, but we just didn't get along. They were more interested in the spiritual aspect of martial arts and I was more interested in the combat aspect. They were more loyal to a single style while I wanted to take the best from every style. They were all about tradition and I was all about eclecticism.

To say two intellectuals or two martial artists are on the same wavelength is kind of like saying two people who are into politics should get along. Tell that to the Democrats and Republicans. ;)

It is sweet that you went out of your way to say that though. Thank you.

[poetic intj]

That's the thing though, you can't just assume someone is on the same wavelength because they like martial arts or because they are intellectual. It's so much more complex than that. Trust me, I've met people, males and females, who were both intellectuals and martial arts, but we just didn't get along. They were more interested in the spiritual aspect of martial arts and I was more interested in the combat aspect. They were more loyal to a single style while I wanted to take the best from every style. They were all about tradition and I was all about eclecticism.

To say two intellectuals or two martial artists are on the same wavelength is kind of like saying two people who are into politics should get along. Tell that to the Democrats and Republicans. ;)
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I certainly understand the point that both you and katrin mentioned. Even as I wrote my post, I was thinking this exact thing in the back of my head, but simply chose not to write it out. (You have no idea how many things are left unsaid in a post).

It was more of a "don't be so hopeless" cheer-er upper post, not a "here is definitely the perfect woman for you, now go get her" post.

[Zyska]

Hear hear. I'd go nuts for a woman who was on the same wavelength. It's easy to find women who have common interests, or who have a similar through process and communication style, or who are supportive. It's not easy to find even two of those at once, let alone all three.......

I think I'd need a girl who not only wanted to compete in martial arts herself but would train with me, come to my tournaments and cheer me on, and also sit back and analyze it on an intellectual level during off time. And that's just one hobby... :\ we're all doomed to die alone.

I was with a girl in my self defense class and our relationship started out like this but unfortunately she was an INTJ also and things real weird and awkward real quick and we decided it was best to just stay friends. Although there is nothing like a girl that can kick your ass at something you think your good at or just literally.

[Pragmatist]

I certainly understand the point that both you and katrin mentioned. Even as I wrote my post, I was thinking this exact thing in the back of my head, but simply chose not to write it out. (You have no idea how many things are left unsaid in a post).

It was more of a "don't be so hopeless" cheer-er upper post, not a "here is definitely the perfect woman for you, now go get her" post.

People should not be hopeless just because they can not find lasting love. I was really joking. I do appreciate your thoughtfulness, truly. We all need to learn to be happy without anyone or anything.

[Judoka]

When there's a hot girl. And I usually don't pay much attention to her and all. And then suddenly I find out that she's also super smart.
Also it's kinda turning on when the girl is a little clumsy it's cute to some degree. Of course sometimes clumsy girls can really piss me off.

[Pragmatist]

When there's a hot girl. And I usually don't pay much attention to her and all. And then suddenly I find out that she's also super smart.
Also it's kinda turning on when the girl is a little clumsy it's cute to some degree. Of course sometimes clumsy girls can really piss me off.

That's really the crazy part about preferences. They only work if they happen just exactly as you intended. Take, for example, my interest in being sexually dominated by a woman. Sure, in my fantasies everything goes perfectly, but that's because the girl in my dreams is like a sexy cyborg powered by my brain. I know me better than anyone, so I know exactly what to make her do and when. Yet, in real life, there's almost no way that any girl would be able to figure it out or perform up to my standards. So, generally speaking, girls who SAY they like the idea of dominating someone turn out to be more annoying and bitchy than sexy or enticing. Damn irony.

[Zombicide]

The prospect of cloning (myself)

[Reanne]

Guys who smell nice usually turns me on

[Lenavis]

men in collared shirts and ties. and black-rimmed glasses.

and cigarettes.

[Anju]

I have a thing for kimonos. And yellow eyes like i mean really yellow.

[Antares]

Somehow doing idiotic things and then enduring the consequences together is such an experience. I can't even put a finger on it. I've never had orgasms because I'm almost asexual, but if I was more sexual, it would probably happen then.

[dope]

A teacher sat down and crossed his legs, his one trouser-leg went a little up, so you were able to see some of the skin. Awhhh, this made me fantasize so bad...

[storm eyes]

Thigh muscles. Can't beat a well shaped thigh on a guy.

[RedHead8808]

Visible hip bones... I have a thing for skinny lanky guys...

[Jgss77]

Screams, cries and blood.

No, but seriously, for some reason I go crazy when I'm getting kissed/
bitten on the side of my neck. It shocks me everytime just how turned
on I get, because I'm really not that easily turned on in general.

I guess it's my Achilles' heel :'(

[hopeworthhoping]

Women w/candy colored hair and dreads. A LOT of tattoos on women is beyond sexy. And women that still suck their thumb... dont ask....

[skynet]

Video game and computer skills, ambition, introversion, ability to fake personalities, intelligence. In high school I once fell for this girl because she was obviously playing Pokemon in the middle of class. Until that point I thought I was the only one who would play videogames so blatantly in school, and it was very attractive to see someone else doing it.

[poetic intj]

Women with warm, innocent-sounding voices who trip over their words when they read and have a subtle lisp.

I've been listening to a lot of audiobooks on librivox.org when I discovered this.

Like the woman's voice who read "Carnacki the Ghost Finder" or this woman's voice:

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I've always been more readily turned on by things like this than visual things like short skirts, or bikinis, or what have you.

[Lenavis]

When he catches me in the middle of a lie. Or when he puts his arm around me in public (both of us are big discriminators against PDA, so this is actually pretty significant.)

also - when he goes on into the middle of the night, talking about academia.

[ModernLit]

the part of the arm where there's a muscle that women dont have. having someone lick my back. an awesome ass (on a guy). guys kissing.

[blatant]

dancing around in leather-wear made from another person's skin.

[jerkface]

i like it to be caught in a mistake. the more certain i am that i was right before im caught in it, the better. even if the person gloats over it.

[Fubudis]

dancing around in leather-wear made from another person's skin.

Put the lotion in the baaasket...

Also, extreme arrogance turns me on, but they have to be able to back it up.

[SelfMadeBum]

The tenderness of fathers with their daughters.

Very attractive.

[Vogue]

When a guy builds a computer in front of me. That's the way to my heart, or at least into my pants. :P

[1 Sky Pilot]

If he owns a dog - preferably a medium/large sporting dog, like a labrador :).

[Cyborg]

The thing that most alures me to a woman is her vulnerability. I am attracted to women who are intelligent and elloquent with speech. Any hint of vulgarity is an immediate turn off. If I am fortunate enough to befriend this type of woman and suddenly when she is entrusting me with her fears, I begin to envisage erotic desire towards her.

[fleebailey33]

When a guy builds a computer in front of me. That's the way to my heart, or at least into my pants. :P

I need to find someone like you, :P I think i've built more computers then people i've had sex with, :P

[lunarloon]

Hands. Big, warm, dry, even rough hands. I don't know why, maybe it's because they make my own hands feel petite in comparison, and I like to feel petite and delicate and feminine once in a while. And they're very comforting and reassuring to hold.

I find it adorable when guys go off on rants about topics that only ever mean something to them, even to the point where other people might find it alienating. Like when one of my guy friends complains about shoddy grammar, or when I went to a photography exhibition with my current bf (a former shutterbug) and he couldn't stop carping about how the film was nicked. I wanted to hug him so badly and he was so wrapped up in his rant that he probably didn't even know. Which made me want to hug him all the more.

I also have a soft spot for computer/physics/math geeks. Too bad I have no skill or knowledge of any those fields (I can try, but trying won't help a penguin fly.)

[HAL 9000]

When I was 18 I thought polka dots looked hot on a girl for whatever reason.

[Quiet Riot]

vulnerability is pretty attractive sometimes. but i dont think thats unusual

[KennyIs2Grif]

Totally weird thing here, but when a girl I like hints at something (anything) or starts to say something and refuses to divulge any more, the ensuing "arguement" trying to pry that information out somehow turns me on to a certain degree.

[poetic intj]

Totally weird thing here, but when a girl I like hints at something (anything) or starts to say something and refuses to divulge any more, the ensuing "arguement" trying to pry that information out somehow turns me on to a certain degree.

Why does it turn you on?

Well, the act of prying that information out of her is akin to giving her a metaphorical fucking. You have to probe and dig, and probe and dig, and probe and dig while she's being coy and keeps moving the nugget of information away from you. So you have to dig a little bit deeper, and a little bit deeper, and a little bit deeper, until she finally ejaculates that sweet, sweet nugget of information all over your ears.

Lord have mercy...:stunned: :embarrassed: :tiny:

[pyramidheadrock]

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[escapist11]

1. [good looking] bass players....unfortunately
2. Certain songs by Tool, A Perfect Circle, and Deftones
3. the night

[GettingBetter]

A guy cooking ...

[Anreader]

I like to wash dishes in lingerie and heels. Of course only when I'm alone. Shh! Don't tell anyone.

[Nonsuch]

Women with shaved skulls. Maybe it's the novelty . . .