What is "sexy" to you?

[Dover]

What is "sexy" to you?

[pax]

Female muscles, it's über sexy :)

[Tough Love]

A man crying from happiness.

[Philanthropist]

Blse (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.) is the epitome of sexiness :lovestruck:

[PRBori]

A man crying, honesty, and an intellectual mentality

[Samoan Corleone]

Odd behaviour and mannerisms.

[Mind Marauder]

Sexy is anything that stimulates the regions of my brain associated with reproduction and its various and multiple sub-categories: Romance, love, what type of woman I prefer, sex, etc.

[Elfrun]

Depends on the person, naturally, but geekiness :loveeyes:

[Fenrir]

Intelligence.

[zibber]

What is "sexy" to you?

Sincerity and authenticity. (Ie it's different from person to person.)

[OneHertz]

quirky behaviour, vulnerability

[katrin]

People are sexy in different ways and I appreciate a lot of traits. The only qualities that I never find sexy:

*stupid
*loud
*jolly

[Elwood92]

A man crying, honesty, and an intellectual mentality

I have heard women say that before but I can't understand why that's appealing. A crying woman is a turn off to me. I seek self-confidence in a woman; I think it's exciting when girls just don't give a shit about what I'm thinking of them.

[Antares]

Poise, confidence, humor, reserve, Scottish accent, Irish accent, German accent. Occasionally, a sweet, F guy.

[Causa Mortis]

Fitness, a sense of humor, the ability to hold a conversation and say reasonably interesting things, large hips, laughing at my jokes and pretending like I'm interesting, classy, red or brown hair...lots of things.

[dontmesswithme]

Intelligence; confidence sometimes/vulnerability and shyness other times; being able to speak a foreign language; thoughtfulness; with-it-and-together-but-a-dork-at-heart-like-me; nice but also sometimes a smartass (I'm a sucker for smartass humour); a decent level of fitness is always pleasant; passionate about what they do; sweetness; kinda quiet more often than not; extreme eye colour (either very dark or very bright like Paul Newman); dignity; integrity.

There are others, but I'll stop there...

[lioness]

Confidence, non-worrying practicalness, introverts that like to cuddle, at least occasional cold rationality, loyalty, quirks, open and accepting.

[seaweed]

natural awkwardness, reserved, flexible intelligence, kindness, enjoys cooking, has an interest in a hobby/field outside of his line of work, and a goofy streak.

[alphawolf]

What is "sexy" to you?

Tall, thin, feminine, wide eyes, high cheekbones, good teeth, a nice ass.

[Blse]

Why tell you when I can show you:

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:lovestruck:

[Stratego]

Cunning. Cleverness. Someone who is subtle in their methods, quiet, mysterious, something of a loner. Undercutting--not sure how to explain that, but I am deeply attracted to anyone who can sucessfully buck The Rules or The System without calling too much attention to themselves or being too obvious about it.

Machiavellian, I suppose.

And while I'm intially attracted to the usual physical attributes considered "sexy" in men and women, intelligence will trump them every time.

[Nikita]

Authenticity, Intelligence, Self-Awareness, Confidence, Having a Social Conscience, Strength (in all forms)

[Akzis]

Authenticity and confidence; though the two tend to be hand in hand.

[Danisty]

Quirkiness, dark sense of humor, people who talk with their hands, honesty, integrity, intelligence, slightly extroverted, and a dominant sexual personality (sometimes bordering on sadism). Such a person shouldn't expect me to be submissive though. I just like a good struggle for power in the bedroom. It also helps if you share my interest in anime, video games, comics, roleplaying and history (particularly military history). You get extra bonus points if you speak Russian since I think it's a very sexy language and I'm trying to learn it myself.

[masterpeach]

tall, slender, geeky guys

[JEP]

Independence
The ability to bring me out of my shell
athletic
the ability to think of things that I haven't

[TheBlindSage]

Intellect + Willpower in certain areas + Adventurousness + Lack of cockiness/arrogance, a sense of being genuine

[Deliberator]

A man crying is sexy how?? I mean, not that it's a bad thing but how is it in any way sexual?? I'd be creeped out if a man got turned on because I started bawling.


Sexy is uncontrollable desire from someone I adore.

[HAL 9000]

What do I find sexy? Intelligence. A sense of humor (a REALLY good sense of humor). An honest but shockingly unique view of the world. A strong belief in God without sanctimoniousness or self-righteousness. Purity. An uncontrollable, natural, connection with her.

I prefer a more classical sort of beauty to what we often see today. I will, however, be honest and say that having a nice face, pair of legs, and behind are three things I hold in high regard :) Hey, I'm a Christian, not an asceticist. :P

[nowt]

Either pancake make-up and perpetual dumbfoundedness--

Or equanimity while being bright, right and wise.

[Amphorian]

I'm probably an oddball introverted thinker because of this but, kindness, open-mindness and a love for life/adventure with a bit of geek thown in. I've always been won over by gentle actions and those that put me first.

[Distance]

Appearance: Tall, fit with a strong jawline. Neatly dressed in the classic sense but not a slave to fashion. Pretty is not attractive to me.

Personality: Strong, who leads by example rather than domineering nattering. Independent. Intelligent with a good sense of humour, steeped in wit instead of crudeness or malice.

This type gets me ALL the time. A serious weakness on my part.

[LaoTzu]

Unbridled sexual competence.

[Napoleptic]

A man with a really big, strong, bulging :sneaky: ...cerebrum. ;D A man whose intelligence far outstrips mine, who encourages growth of my mental capacity, provides me with new things to think about and pushes me to learn on my own, who both teaches me and learns with me, who taunts me with things barely within my grasp, probes the boundaries of my mind, pushes my mental muscle to its very limits and leaves me gasping, unable to take in any more knowledge because I must have time to absorb what I've learned lest I forget any of it. Someone who stimulates my intellect with a fierce and passionate intensity.

A man who has a very good sense of humor, who can make me laugh until it hurts or until I have tears in my eyes, a man who is playful almost to the point of childishness.

A man who shares many of my interests, can appreciate the ones we don't have in common, and has interests of his own. A man who is his own person, maybe somewhat nonconformist; a confident, competent man, and who can occasionally be just a bit awkward when trying to tell me how he feels about me, because he gets butterflies in his stomach when he's around me. Okay, so that last bit is sappy, but it's true. :blush:

[Pensive]

A guy smoking weed with a pipe. Has to be a pipe.
Whenever I smoke with him, he looks a lot, lot, lot sexier. Wahhh
Also beards, namely black and red, are amazing.

[Napoleptic]

Also, it's easy to be passionate for a cause, but to see a man get that look in his eye about an intellectual topic, some idea, theory, or concept (whether it be something he's put a lot of thought into in the past and has a strong opinion on or something he's discussing only for the first time but knows immediately what the most logical stance is), or to see a man use logic, reason, rationality to get what he wants...very sexy.

[Mogura]

A complete absence of guilt, fear and shame.

A healthy mind, soul and body...

[katrin]

A man whose intelligence far outstrips mine, who encourages growth of my mental capacity, provides me with new things to think about and pushes me to learn on my own, who both teaches me and learns with me, who taunts me with things barely within my grasp, probes the boundaries of my mind, pushes my mental muscle to its very limits and leaves me gasping, unable to take in any more knowledge because I must have time to absorb what I've learned lest I forget any of it. Someone who stimulates my intellect with a fierce and passionate intensity.

A man who has a very good sense of humor, who can make me laugh until it hurts or until I have tears in my eyes, a man who is playful almost to the point of childishness.

For some reason this, esp. the bolded part, reminded me of a darkly funny Ani DiFranco song about Ani's criteria for a sexy guy. I agree with Napoleptic and Ani about these types of guys being sexy, although there are other kinds of sexy that work for me as well as I said above.

"I want somebody who sees the pointlessness
and still keeps their purpose in mind
I want somebody who has a tortured soul
some of the time
I want somebody who will either put out for me
or put me out of my misery
or maybe just put it all to words
and make me go, you know
I never heard it put that way
make me go, what did you just say?
I want somebody who can hold my interest
hold it and never let it fall
someone who can flatten me with a kiss
that hits like a fist
or a sentence, that stops me like a brick wall
because if you hear me talking
listen to what I'm not saying
if you hear me playing guitar
listen to what I'm not playing
and don't ask me the words
to all the silences I know
and don't ask me to put words
to all the spaces between notes
in fact if you have to ask, forget it
you'll regret it
I am tired of being the interesting one
I am tired of having the fun for two
just lay yourself on the line
and I might lay myself down by you
but don't sit behind your eyes
and wait for me to surprise you
I want somebody who can make me
scream until it's funny
give me a run for my money
I want someone who can
twist me up in knots
tell me, for the woman who has everything
what have you got?
I want someone who's not afraid of me
or anyone else
in other words I want someone
who's not afraid of himself

do you think I'm asking too much?"

[TigerL]

I'm probably an oddball introverted thinker because of this but, kindness, open-mindness and a love for life/adventure with a bit of geek thown in. I've always been won over by gentle actions and those that put me first.

I agree with you, expecially kindness towards others in a disadvantaged position, with no obvious motive, is quite sexy to me. I've been attracted to people with this quality when I might not have been attracted to them initially based on just physical appearance.

Also, integrity, honesty, humility balanced with confidence, intelligence.

[Breadpazoid]

Also, it's easy to be passionate for a cause, but to see a man get that look in his eye about an intellectual topic, some idea, theory, or concept (whether it be something he's put a lot of thought into in the past and has a strong opinion on or something he's discussing only for the first time but knows immediately what the most logical stance is), or to see a man use logic, reason, rationality to get what he wants...very sexy.

This!

I found one of these once...too bad he was taken. :laugh:

I love a man who is enthusiastic about his topic of choice. I don't care what it is (I'd almost prefer it be something I know nothing about - broaden my horizons!). I want to see that passion. At the same time, I want maturity (emotional and the kind that you get from life experience), but a good sense of humor.

[SeaCzar]

A beautiful mind. Smart, open, expansive. And trust. There is nothing sexier than trust.

[roninpro]

I'm really wondering if this isn't the case for many posters:

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[Onigumo13]

Geekness and Nerdiness + Hard to get + When a female is angry sometimes it even makes her more sexier then she really is , and lets not forget domination over a male :)

[Fox]

I could go on the describing the finer physical and mental qualities of "sexy." A more simple answer would be a naked and willing person. Don't forget to try various amounts of alcohol if you're unsure about them being sexy.

[Onigumo13]

I could go on the describing the finer physical and mental qualities of "sexy." A more simple answer would be a naked and willing person. Don't forget to try various amounts of alcohol if you're unsure about them being sexy.

Epic in order to bring more sexiness :)

[dungeonguy88]

Intelligence, directness, confidence, a sense of humor, and quirks for people.

Loss of control, in intercourse.

[zeroz]

??? The word doesn't exist in my dictionary.

[Polymath]

In no particular order: an inherent aura of relaxing calm, high intelligence, maturity, good health, a complete lack of the herd instinct, a good work ethic, high self-esteem, the attitude that life is much more than a game, nerdiness, kindness, long-range thinking, rationality, independence, introversion, musicianship, class, doesn't take herself too seriously (how do you make that into a noun?)

[Operator]

Intelligence, green eyes, coke bottle shape and curly dark hair. I also like a woman that has a darkside and is comfortable with it and applying it. The most important of all is trust!

[mindstate]

A flat abdomen
nice hip to bust ratio
Steamy engorged geeky brains

[JulietCapulet]

Good posture, emotional stability, nice face, empathy, confidence, good work ethic, kind heart, honesty, tactfulness, integrity, faithfulness.

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A complete absence of guilt, fear and shame.



I think this is part of the definition of a sociopath.

[Commissar]

Intelligence, confidence, rationality, and someone who just accepts me for who I am

Is that asking for too much? Heh

[Mogura]

I think this is part of the definition of a sociopath.
I was alluding to the sexual act in my response...

[runoverazebra]

There is nothing sexier than an intelligent man who can make me laugh.

[hubcap]

Curves, cleavage, clothing that reveals just enough........and intelligence

[Luckiest]

Whats sexy is a woman thats smarter, sharper and more clever than me. She must be able: to out drink me when pestered on to, be able to cook better than me, out analyze the simplest crap, dress better than me, drive faster than me, have better taste in music and film than my awesome tastes in music and cinema, be funnier than me and shoot better photos than me.

Basically, I just want a girl that wows the hell out of me by doing anything I can do, better.

I find it so sexy when women are impressive.

[JakeN]

Besides the obvious stuff and my physical preferences, I'd say intelligence is key, and not just IQ. I really like a girl who is interested in mental things, thinking, debating and anything that could correlate to, games like chess, deep movies, books, musicals etc..

That's the usual, but I've found myself attracted to fun-loving, spur of the moment E's as well. This attraction usually never turns into anything though, and I think is mostly a fascination/admiration of something different from myself. My guess is I will end up with a ENTx, but who knows.

[Ilara]

A knowing smile that reaches his eyes + prolonged eye contact.

Big hands doing delicate work.

[katrin]

A knowing smile that reaches his eyes + prolonged eye contact.

Big hands doing delicate work.

+1 to both of these.

"Big hands doing delicate work" reminds me of how I often find it sexy to see attractive men holding babies, playing with babies, etc. I don't know why except maybe it shows that the man is confident enough in his masculinity to not be worried about seeming un-macho by holding a baby.

What's odd about it is that I'm not a big fan of babies!

Generally speaking, men who don't worry about seeming hyper-masculine all the time are sexier to me than those who make a big production about how tough they are.

Showing a capability for vulnerability can be sexy, maybe that's why some women find it sexy when men cry?

[Napoleptic]

Generally speaking, men who don't worry about seeming hyper-masculine all the time are sexier to me than those who make a big production about how tough they are.

Showing a capability for vulnerability can be sexy, maybe that's why some women find it sexy when men cry?

I'm ambivalent toward both hypermasculinity and hypersensitivity. What is really sexy, though, is a man who is being exactly who he is without giving a damn as to what anyone else thinks about it.

[JulietCapulet]

I was alluding to the sexual act in my response...

Ok! You scared me for a moment there. I was like, that doesn't sound quite human to me.

[katrin]

I'm ambivalent toward both hypermasculinity and hypersensitivity. What is really sexy, though, is a man who is being exactly who he is without giving a damn as to what anyone else thinks about it.

Yeah, unless he's a total asshole or a moron. :laugh:

[Napoleptic]

Yeah, unless he's a total asshole or a moron. :laugh:

Too true!

Then again, doesn't being an asshole or a moron pretty much kill the mood regardless of how much sexiness is going on? :p

[Chshrkat09]

Intellect, green eyes, a gorgeous smile.

[MortalWombat]

Sexy is anything that stimulates the regions of my brain associated with reproduction and its various and multiple sub-categories: Romance, love, what type of woman I prefer, sex, etc.

:laugh:
I think it depends on the person, really.

[fadelio]

confidence - the real kind

[shytiger]

Aggressive flirtatousness, long looks, and smiles.

[HereticForLife]

Curves, cleavage, intelligence, reserve, occasional smiling, a pretty face, long hair, an expression of at least mild interest, a good taste in popular culture, knowledge of history/literature, blue or green eyes.

[Musician]

Green eyes, mental stability, easy emotions, intelligence, rational thinking, good taste in music and movies.

[Felix90]

Personality:
Intellectuality, Intelligence, Empathy, Independence, Integrity, Non-Conformity, Creativity

Appearance:
Dark, shiny, long hair
big, bright eyes
evenly light skin
a trained body
a good fashion sense
not too much make-up
I like the typical Italian look like Monica Bellucci too.

[BingeArtist]

I find most healthy human females of breeding age attractive.


And those who don't call the cops on me are a definite plus.

[Ice Wolf]

Blueberry pancakes, woman has to know how to make a blueberry pancakes. Firm, but not greasy... :lovestruck:

[bleitao]

By physically, i mean things like facial appearence, dress sense, body type, hair and so forth.

[Ultraviolentgra]

Brains are physical things, right? :p

I'm a real sucker for dark hair...

[katrin]

Brains are physical things, right? :p

I'm a real sucker for dark hair...

+1 I prefer dark hair, too. And brains.

Other than that, I'm not a big fan of formal or hyper-groomed style on a guy. Or sloppy style. Clean and casual works well for me.

[sage33]

I prefer dark hair and brains as well.

He has to be physically fit (mostly because I am physically fit and I refuse to settle for less)
Has to be taller than me preferably 6 ft +
Has to be into hygiene..
I'm not really into facial hair but it's not an automatic dis-qualifier
I also don't like chest hair.. not my thing
um.. As far as sense of dress, casual is good for me but he should know how to dress according to the occasion etc and if he doesn't I'll teach him :P

I think that's all for me. Not too much to ask for right????

[DesertGinINTJ]

Intelligence + warmth + sincerity + sense of humour + confidence

[meeka]

Confidence, rationality, intelligence, humor, good conversationalists.

[intjistp]

-certain small movements
-prettiness
-relative figures
-no turnoffs
-connection (communication)

Someone bearable who bears me

[Anreader]

bantering, emotional stability, intelligence, self-possession, politesse

nice forearms, the "right" hair (No Bieber (sp?), long shaggy hair), being near my height: 1 inch shorter 3 inches taller, lots of eye contact

I also like it if the guy finds social situations easier than I do. I can perform socially if necessary, but I find it very stressful and sometimes I completely lose the ability to pretend to be a "normal person."

[Fubudis]

Confidence, arrogance, good cheek bones, but most importantly... Dat ass...

[TenochAcampicht]

#Intelligence
#Sense of humour
#Common Interests (particularly in terms of gaming, music and literature)
#Bubbliness
#Affectionate
#Thoughtfulness
#Lack of Arrogance

[Seriously]

A look in the eye, attention to detail, warmth in the voice, featherlight touch, dry sense of humor, flirty but respectful of my person....

[Kdquin]

Power ;)

[Elvenazn]

Authenticity/Integrity, intelligence, the ability to truthfully communicate, a good self-image...It seems like the list can go on and on. I hold these in high regard though!

[think]

Blueberry pancakes, woman has to know how to make a blueberry pancakes. Firm, but not greasy... :lovestruck:
Of all the things I read, I like this one the best. Aw, made me smile.


My addition: kindness and an inner-strength of mind and heart

[volt]

Intelligence, geekiness, integrity, honesty, no problem with silence

Physically: bald heads & tamed facial hair, short(5'5''-ish) & slender

[LonelyHero]

Intelligence, intellectuality, maturity and the ability to listen the the heart. I can't resist those :lovestruck:

[LadyInHeels]

Men who look like Jesus. (no joke)

Love the long hair, beard, bohemian man look

And a similar personality too lol confident, intelligent, kind, purposeful

[Toad]

I lack just about all of these qualities. It's good that I don't plan on entering any relationships soon.
Anyways:
-Physically fit.
-Dark hair.
-Intelligent.
-Eccentric.
-Mildly introverted.
-An acceptable taste in music would be nice, but certainly not a make or break..

[GettingBetter]

The way a man moves. That he takes care of himself. He knows how to make me feel special.

And I think I'm one of the few women anymore who likes chest hair. Not real important, but ...

And in the 'so obvious it should barely be mentioned' category, intelligence and good grooming.

[Metaphor]

Humor

[LifesEcstasy]

An unexpected hard-on, preferrably at a really inconvenient and inappropriate moment.

[CoolHand24]

Nice Eyes, Intelligence, Humor, Respect, Introverted, Down to Earth

[psykhe]

Humor and intelligence

[lunarloon]

Sometimes, random masculine attributes really strike my imagination and they get me raring for sex.

Examples:
stubble
the bobbing of a man's Adam's apple as he gulps water (bonus points if he's tilting his head back)
body odor (there's a fine line here between earthy and fetid here, boys... and please oh please no Axe)
body hair (only sometimes though... depends on who's sporting it and how)
large, especially sinewy hands
the line of the shoulders
random muscles (they don't have to be perfectly sculpted... it's enough that they look different from the muscles of women, however developed)

It's not that I find them aesthetically pleasing or even attractive... just that they remind me of the gap between myself as a woman and the Platonic ideal of maleness. If I'm receptive enough at the time, being reminded of that gap really just shoves me over the edge faster than anything else.

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An unexpected hard-on, preferrably at a really inconvenient and inappropriate moment.

Hah! This too. This has the additional benefit of catching the poor guy in a moment of great embarrassment and vulnerability. Which is also really sexy.

Cowards too, since they go hand in hand with vulnerability. I remember someone saying on a post (on another thread on this forum, I really can't remember who it was):
"Cowards need more love. They should make a movie where instead of the hero winning the fight and getting the girl, he hides in a damp hole in the ground and they make sweet sweet love to the squeaking of sewer rats and the rabble of an angry mob up above."

Whoever you are, that scenario really got me. Be proud of yourself.

[isaenator]

Confidence, non-worrying practicalness, introverts that like to cuddle, at least occasional cold rationality, loyalty, quirks, open and accepting.
YES! Introverts that like to cuddle are the best! I love sarcastic humor, personally, I think it's sexy. I also like the tall, awkward, really skinny guys who sit quiet in the corner. I'm the kind of person who wonders "Hm...I wonder what he's thinking about. Maybe he feels left out! Oh no! I should go make him my friend." ^_^ and I secretly hope that whoever it is doesn't find me too annoying for invading their quiet space.

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Men who look like Jesus. (no joke)

Love the long hair, beard, bohemian man look

And a similar personality too lol confident, intelligent, kind, purposeful
oooh....yes...men who look like jesus, DEFINITELY ;)

[lupinskitten]

I've always thought repressed men were sexy, and really smart ones. Tall, slender, opinionated... and I have a bit of a thing for men in suits....

[Dru]

the ability to carry on abstract thought and walk at the same time. also chest hair.

[iezzzwan]

intelligence is very attractive.. dont have to be nerdy type intelligence.. plotting together to take over the world is sexy. Naivety is sexy too.. Sex in the workplace is high on my wish list..

[themuzicman]

"Sexy" is whatever appeals to that part of my brain. And there are any number of items on the list:

Facial beauty
Body shape
Mental prowess
Passion
etc

[cp444]

physically, tall and long legs. intellectually, a challenger and smarts.

[JTG1984]

independent, confident, classy, nice undergarments ;D

[ZerroDefex]

Female muscles, it's über sexy :)

Tall, thin, feminine, wide eyes, high cheekbones, good teeth, a nice ass.

Stop reading my mind, both of you. ;)

Muscles to a point. I like a fit, athletic woman but not one who looks like she's trying to be masculine. Tall but not taller than myself. Needs bright eyes. Hourglass figure preferred but slim bodies are fine too. A nice ass and breasts that aren't so large that she looks like she'll topple over from a strong breeze.

Personality wise she must be intelligent, charming, and confident. Always willing to challenge me in a debate but not confrontational just for the hell of it. Open-minded but with enough critical thinking ability to not believe everything she hears.

Must be able to cook! Also be somewhat organized and tidy, I don't like cleaning up after other people at all.

[SouloftheLaurel]

-wearing confidence like an old Tee
-Intense gaze
-Intelligence
-Tall
-having musical talent
-having scintillating arms

[OrangeAppled]

Maybe 2 different types:

-warm, passionate, engaging
OR
-dark, mysterious, intriguing

[oiseau]

Honestly, I like a healthy dose of dark facial/chest hair and the fitness level appropriate to hiking/running/vigorous sexual activity.
Above all though, intelligence without arrogance is sexy as hell.

[Spectrum]

I like females who are intelligent, at least somewhat mysterious, and tall. However, I try to remain as open-minded as possible.

[miche001]

Humble intelligence
A sense of humor
Natural smell (not funky, but clean and natural)
Holding hands
Hugs that last a few seconds longer than expected
Extended eye contact
Large pupils (not caused by drugs)
Vulnerability
Anticipation
A little scruff
Freckles/beauty marks in different places (not necessarily sexual places)
Random, kind gesture of affection
Honesty
Saying what you want, especially during foreplay
Conversation

[irini]

Intelligence
Competence
Humour
Power
Passion
Warmth

[MsJoyStick]

Ms. Coyote likes a bushy tail, pointed nose, sharp teeth and dead prairie dogs brought as treats. Yum....

[maru]

For me, being foreign is a huge bonus. If they have an accent; if English is their second language; if they come from another culture, they will spark my interest.

You mods are awesome. I knew there would be a topic on this but I couldn't see it!

[Ice Wolf]

Pancakes. I love to observe women making pancakes.

Preferably with blueberry jam :lovestruck:

[Uriel]

T-shirt and Jeans
Bed hair
Swimmer's body

[mindstate]

-Calls it like she sees it,
-Knows the difference between objective reality and the way she sees it.
-Smells like soap
-She's a successful professional
-She has a 1, 5, and 10 year plan

[Zombicide]

Misanthropy.

[MrFlaneur]

grace, composure, humility, restraint, insight, wisdom, intellect, action. not necessarily in that order. Good "indie" looks count for a lot also.

[catzmeow]

Hairy chest, pretty eyes, full lips, wicked sense of humor. rawr.

[meteorite]

Humor and wit.

[icemann]

My Wife

[Vivek]

Spectacles, intellect, and a sense of humor.

[Lex93]

Intelligence, confidence & a pair of dark brown eyes.

[blackcoffee]

Symmetry, dark features, and above all, power and intelligence.

[Wilson]

Clever and witty, with the proverbial twinkle in the eye. Like you know the punch line to a joke you haven't told me yet.

Keeping your metaphorical cards close to your chest. I'd like to work for it, please.

A bookshelf full of books I'd like to read.

And I am a sucker for a good dancer.

(all of this assumes some level of physical appeal which frankly is hard to predict and harder to describe)

[Dover]

…a man's upper back, specifically the shoulder blades.
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/me swoons

[Crazyblue]

I think the sexiest thing is being able to defend what you think even when others disagree. Obviously other physical characteristics help, but someone who can provide justification for their actions and then adjust based off information is incredible.

[BlackOp]

The confidence to allow yourself to be vulnerable...

[nolabel]

Warm souls

[jasoncox]

In abstract terms: masculinity, intelligence, empathy, restraint, humor, charm, forethought, strength

Physically: broad shoulders, dark hair, short-trimmed beard, short hair, muscular biceps, legs & chest

[delilah]

quiet authority.

[ModernLit]

licking. warm hugs. enough hair to run my fingers through and play with. naked men playing guitar. candlelight.

[delilah]

I second naked guitar.

[Calica]

Maybe 2 different types:

-warm, passionate, engaging
OR
-dark, mysterious, intriguing

Indeed:mellow:
Adding: confidence.

[yisit]

For me, most of the descriptions listed here outline the "types" we prefer...

Sexy to me is something that transcends any particular characteristics.

A truly sexy person just has something about them - an energy that surrounds them, a magnetic force that pulls you in, seemingly against your will...

And anytime you see them, you wanna be bad....reeaallll bad.

Grrrrrrr...

[delilah]

sexy to me is finding someone you enjoy hearing talk.

[M1440r]

Intelligence, self-confidence, well-thought-out opinions, and legs that go forever...

[Huruma]

Empathy and kindness.

[EricJ]

• Simplicity (in dress, lifestyle, etc.)
• Ability to communicate about difficult issues (relationships, etc.) in a frank manner and without emotional upheaval
• Ability to effortlessly carry on a conversation with me
• Wit and a misanthropic sense of humor
• Jazzy hair (preferrably darker hair)
• Five o'clock shadow
• A muscular back and chest
• Atypical fascinations and intellectual interests
• Lack of pretension
• Strength that exceeds my own (not a difficult feat)
• Ability to speak more than one language
• An air of mystery—this appeals to my natural INTJ curiosity
• Ability to play an instrument (preferably violin, cello, piano, accordion, guitar, or clarinet)
• A distinctive smell
• Looks that penetrate
• Full, shapely lips
• A dominant sexual persona
• An attitude that makes me feel comfortable with saying whatever I want without fear of judgement

[eagleseven]

I find covert come-ons to be incredibly sexy...a wayward glance that only you would understand, an accidental brushing that is not an accident, whispering in my ear when nobody is looking. Done correctly, it can build so much tension that I become ravenous.

I am attracted to power. Both personal and institutional power. This took me a while to realize.

Last, but certainly not least, I am attracted to geeks/nerds. Even if I don't particularly like it, the fact that you are obsessed with *insert fandom here* is a big turn-on, and I'll probably learn to like it too. And if you want to role-play that fandom in the bedroom? Bonus points!

[lancelot]

What is Sexy:

An introverted, intuitive girl with dark brown, red or blonde hair, glasses, plaid skirt and a book of pushkin poems.

[Haumea]

It's really difficult to say. I don't have conscious preferences.

It's basically "you feel the attraction or not." Various types.

[lancelot]

Being attradtive is a slight deviation from the norm, but not too much.

[Suspicious]

No wusses, wishy-washies, or timid people in my bed. On that note, no over-inflated bravado or disrespect in my bed. Natural and sexy confidence- more people need it.
Maturity.
Emotionally balanced.
Must share my morals. Period.
Spontaneity.
Nice teeth (I am insanely picky about teeth).
Physically fit.
A voice I can happily listen to go on and on.

...and it's also stupidly hot when a lady wears a suit. Don't judge me.

[SagaLore]

For me... curves, warm heart, nice smile, beautiful hair, flirtatious.

[unconventional]

level-headed women, soft monotone voice, integrity, curves, kindness, intuition, physical features from head to toe, perseverance, occasional outbursts of personality, uniqueness,

[dontmesswithme]

Ballet.

I think ballet is verrrry sexy.

[antistu]

Being able to turn yourself on…

[zibber]

Nice teeth (I am insanely picky about teeth).

I'm like that with hands. I don't know why. It's really unfair sometimes :laugh:

[katrin]

What is Sexy:

An introverted, intuitive girl with dark brown, red or blonde hair, glasses, plaid skirt and a book of pushkin poems.

^ This is me but I'm not a "girl". There've got to be some in your age range.


Sexy to me is eye contact that lets you know to be intimate with the person would feel like a homecoming.

[ikush]

intelligence and humor

[therrirl]

physically, tall and long legs. intellectually, a challenger and smarts.
It's all about the brain for you? Interesting . . . you find no real physical qualities appealing . . . asside from long legs? LOL

[Zsych]

Difficult to explain, but its a sort of energy to the person. The expectation of complex and unusual interaction.

[dontmesswithme]

Actually, what he said. ^^^

[bookbug]

Intelligence, self-confidence (that is actually warranted), a sense of humor, being well-adjusted, rational and logical, positive outlook, a sense of joy and curiosity.

[deacon]

i never got the lacey/ vampy agent provocateur/ victoria secret thing. simple is sexy to me.

[BellaBianca]

Silence.

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[chuu23]

intelligent, confident, being focused/working on something
really sexy

[TheSeer]

likes doing puzzles for fun, which shows curiosity, which is a sign of a humble yet confident person

long curvy legs, seductive demeanor

[Marcus Septim]

Wit
Challenge
Curves

[DeepThought]

Intelligence, a sense of humor, quiet confidence, a sense of playfulness, and knowing how to accentuate your physical assets.

[xavier3961]

A Geeky Woman w/ a passion for Discovering the the Unknown.

[ppu6502]

Women describe me when they say what they're looking for, yet I remain single. I call bullshit.

[Zodd]

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[Jalex]

An intelligent girl which knows that being girly and worried about her looks doesn't drop her IQ average at all.

[Kisai]

Submission is sexy. Aggression is sexy.

[Nemesis]

Humor (above all else)
Humility
Integrity

The first one is fairly common (which is nice), the second one is trickier, and the third one rarely seems to stand the test of time, unfortunately.

[dahlia]

Confidence.
Intelligence.
Strength.
Someone I can respect.

[Vanitas]

Bone structure, glasses, strength of personality.

[Reddkatz]

I think MW and I are in agreement about beards ;D