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futureperfect5
03-27-2008, 10:16 PM
Okay, I am reaching my 100 posts mark ...
I better make this on good.

Whether you are involved with the person or not ... what's the turn-on factor? :wideeyed:

Kfbr
03-27-2008, 10:19 PM
I like when a girlfriend sneaks up on me, drives me wild!

futureperfect5
03-27-2008, 10:22 PM
An element of surprise, I like it ...

I like when a girlfriend sneaks up on me, drives me wild!

DeadSpace
03-27-2008, 10:22 PM
Eyes, and/or voice. Eyes are primary though. Even when i'm just doodling i always draw eyes. Others would be, lips, neck, shoulders...pretty much anything after the eyes. A deep look...all it takes.

ceg6
03-27-2008, 10:23 PM
Having my hair played with or pulled.

amXDuser
03-28-2008, 12:19 AM
Eyes,talk about eye contact being made.

PRBori
03-28-2008, 05:20 AM
Outside of being intelligent, The Face, specially the eyes, follow by sensual touch. Kisses on my neck and back drives me crazy.

rwyatt365
03-28-2008, 06:35 AM
Actually, what really turns me on is a woman with shapely, well-proportioned legs. To me, there is nothing sexier or attractive - and anything that a woman does to accentuate that is good by me. Nudity is good, lingere (teddys, shorts, even long gowns as long as there is a split somewhere) is good too, but legs are at the heart of the matter.

The other selctions are all nice, but a woman with stick-legs, or chunky legs won't get a "rise" out of me.

Homini Lupus
03-28-2008, 07:21 AM
Apart from the most obvious things (fit body, right proportions etc.), I like those women whose stare denotes a bright person; not necessairly intelligent in terms of analytical thinking, but intense and able to understand what I say.

PortInStorm
03-28-2008, 07:41 AM
- physical proximity without touch (at first) is really, really intense, and that's what turns me on. You can feel them there, but just can't quite touch.
- mind-reading: doing something together and being in sync because you just know what the other's going to do, or needs you to do. Followed by...
- the look, full of sexual energy and spark
- a beautiful, spontaneous, manly laugh
- remembering small things about me

Intensity is key.

- Oh, and a little bit of sting. Verbal sparring with pokes at my weaknesses gets me every time. Not too harsh though.

Moriarty
03-28-2008, 09:59 AM
Verbal sparring with pokes at my weaknesses gets me every time. Not too harsh though.

That sounds like fun!


What gets me going most of all is physical proximity accompanied by scent. It always brings out my predatory side, and the sense of knowing the exact moment she's surrendered to her carnal instincts.....ohhh yeah.

PortInStorm
03-28-2008, 10:25 AM
*starts breathing fast*

slippery slope....

Moriarty
03-28-2008, 10:40 AM
I do love the tension between two people when they're close enough to accidentally explore, but not yet close enough to admit they've already decided what's going to happen. The time of feeling out the opposition is the most exciting time of any encounter.

We all like to be conquered a little now and again.

HappyMondays
03-28-2008, 02:23 PM
The kids locked outside or in their rooms.

paradanmellow
03-28-2008, 05:31 PM
must be the eyes, I can't look in the eyes of someone for more than a couple of seconds without going "wow, there's contact" that's how "without boyfriend" I am hahah
what's going on people? is it spring time? I see only sex everywhere I look :cry: right now it's penis time on #intj!

PortInStorm
03-29-2008, 06:38 AM
I do love the tension between two people when they're close enough to accidentally explore, but not yet close enough to admit they've already decided what's going to happen. The time of feeling out the opposition is the most exciting time of any encounter.

We all like to be conquered a little now and again.
OK, I've cooled down now.

Agree with above...

Moriarty
03-29-2008, 08:59 AM
*Snicker*

ginandsour
03-31-2008, 02:54 AM
It's somewhat random for me, but I've pinned down that I'll follow an articulate brunette with a nice speaking voice to the ends of the earth.

notoppings
03-31-2008, 03:10 AM
As odd as it may sound for me it is ears, I've come to realize that there are guys out there who have large ears or strange ears and have spent a life time being mocked, I look upon them as kicked puppies and find that if approached gently that they return kindness and love for me nothing sexier then a large set of ears.

lei
03-31-2008, 03:52 AM
Honestly, big bottom and long legs turn me on most.

errrzarrr
03-31-2008, 12:29 PM
the gaze of the girl, looking me like she wants to eat me or something like that. How she moves the lips and makes moves with it like wishing something mine. Touch, explains by itself. Voice, whispering in the ears some stuff and her breath too, uhm!

Zilal
03-31-2008, 06:07 PM
Nothing triggers my libido so much as time of the month. With the hormones doing their thing I seem to find just about everything a turn-on. The rest of the time, well. It's more my ideas about a person than any particular aspect of them.