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alrightgame
10-18-2009, 12:56 AM
This came up with a conversation today at the gas station that I worked at.
Does a woman or gay man find the penis a sexually attractive part of the body, like other physical attributes?
Also, my apologies if this sounds inappropriate, I am just curious.
Pandemonium
10-18-2009, 01:09 AM
Strangely enough I have over heard a conversation once which the topic you have brought was being discussed. The group that were discussing concluded with the consensus of it is the not the "organ" they are attracted to but the person. However, they did discuss their preferred shapes and sizes.
Sigh, the sites and sounds of public transport.
stiletto
10-18-2009, 02:53 AM
Well, yes, of course.
Though like all physical features it is a variable thing, some are nicer than others.
And speaking from this particular queer dude's perspective, of course.
Causa Mortis
10-18-2009, 02:56 AM
This came up with a conversation today at the gas station that I worked at.
Does a woman or gay man find the penis a sexually attractive part of the body, like other physical attributes?
Also, my apologies if this sounds inappropriate, I am just curious.
I would suspect it mirrors my own views of seeing labia lips: Very erotic if I'm aroused and the woman is attractive, less so when she's getting out of the shower, and not something I want to see while I'm eating my cereal or if she's not attractive generally.
liquidzilla
10-18-2009, 03:05 AM
I personally don't, but then again I find kissing nasty (too slimy), so I'm probably not the best one to answer this.
rickster
10-18-2009, 03:21 AM
Does a woman or gay man find the penis a sexually attractive part of the body, like other physical attributes?
Also, my apologies if this sounds inappropriate, I am just curious.
Well I'm a homo who doesn't identify as gay - and God knows there's nothing ladylike about me - but yeah amongst gay men penis fetish is outta hand. The bigger the better - it's major cock worship all the way if you're a bottom.
Personally I don't give a damn about them one way or the other, but I'm not into stereotypically masculine body stuff anyhow.
Inappropriate??? Doesn't everybody love a down and dirty dick discussion? :popcorn:
zudusu
10-18-2009, 03:44 AM
If I'm looking at a photo of a man with a great body, defined muscles, etc, I'd rather not see his penis. I do not find them attractive. Maybe a novelty if one is extremely large or small, but definitely not something I seek out to look at. If I'm rushing around getting ready for work, I am certainly not turned on by my husband changing clothes or stepping out of the shower. During sex, it's not the penis itself that turns me on. But it does get me off.
SilverFloe
10-18-2009, 04:04 AM
Well at some point I think I felt like a pretty straight female and the answer is no.
Of all parts, it was not rather arousing. It was an "in spite of" rather than "because of." Not visually pleasing either.
stiletto
10-18-2009, 04:14 AM
Well at some point I think I felt like a pretty straight female and the answer is no.
Of all parts, it was not rather arousing. It was an "in spite of" rather than "because of." Not visually pleasing either.
I think it's more from a functional perspective. If it just sat there and no one ever did anything with it, I don't think it would be the same.
The Fox
10-18-2009, 04:57 AM
Well, I like men, and the face and the body are much more interesting than the penis. Actually, it may be an interesting data (some people have an ugly one), but it's not a major one. And you know... medium sizes are the best :)
How come. I fall on someone because of his personality / what we do together. Even if his penis is absent this will change nothing. (oh yea sex drive tends to zero type)
Coralaisly
10-18-2009, 06:29 AM
I don't find this question inappropriate at all. Actually, I find it interesting, myself, and had never really thought about it before. That being said, now that I have thought about it:
I can only speak for myself, and for me, the answer is no. I, like the others I've read so far, like to look at other parts of him, anything from his hands and eyes, shape and color, to the curviture of his back or the line from the bottom of the chin to the collar bone. I've never looked at a man's penis and thought "wow, that's gorgeous" most everything else, though, I have, even if in some wierd, obscure way.
loosefanbelt
10-18-2009, 06:33 AM
I think it really is attractive - especially when the swagger is just right! :blush:
Prunesquallor
10-18-2009, 07:38 AM
Not really, no. It looks like a warped root vegetable. Or a funny-looking cat toy - boing boing...
Seriously
10-18-2009, 07:59 AM
Yes. I find them sexually attractive. And interesting..the way they work fascinates me.
green eyes
10-18-2009, 08:34 AM
A cat toy. haha
I think there is a difference in attraction and sexual attraction. On that note, I used to think that penises weren't all that attractive...such funny-looking organs on naked men...that they didn't look like they belonged there.... But I've recently discovered that they can be quite gorgeous (is there such a thing as a penis model? ...'cause damn! :p).
For me, as far as sexual attraction goes, it's exclusive to the penis in my relationship, and even then usually only when it's erect or "bulging" from under clothes.
Vagrant
10-18-2009, 09:17 AM
Not really, no. It looks like a warped root vegetable. Or a funny-looking cat toy - boing boing...
Oh god. That reminds me. I used to get one of my exes to laugh hysterically every time I contracted my Kegel's. :p
Beryl
10-18-2009, 09:35 AM
Well being a straight male, I cant personally comment but I can say that my friend really appreciates different types of penises. She would tell me how she found the form and the size attractive. I have to agree though, that it does look like a root or something of that nature. I can't understand why anyone finds it attractive.
admittedheretic
10-18-2009, 09:36 AM
Just a personal observation, but when I've seen men reply about attraction to the vagina they tend to answer along the lines that it varies by each particular one. I'm a hetero male who will admit to watching pornography and I don't understand why women wouldn't feel the same way as men. Some of both gender's genitalia look different enough to me to be to justify a continuum of attractiveness without bias to personal relationship.
rara avis
10-18-2009, 10:07 AM
With men's bodies overall, it's more about the verbs to me than about the nouns.
alrightgame
10-18-2009, 11:19 AM
It's funny because there have been psych experiments trying to find out what a woman looks at first as she walks into a bar and starts checking out all the guys. Let's just say they didn't look at his face the first time. This also correlated when they would show brief porn shots to participants. The males would look at the woman's face to see if she was aroused, while the women would look at the penis to see if the man was aroused.
I personally was curious because as a straight man, I find my penis rather ugly.
paperclip
10-18-2009, 11:24 AM
For me its the man that makes the penis..not uh..the other way around..
Visualizing a hot bod with even a large member isn't a turn on for me, they always seem out of proportion to the rest of the body. The only time that I find a penis attractive is when the guy is turned on and ready for action :D otherwise I'd take a man with his shirt off over butt naked any day.
karenann33
10-18-2009, 11:32 AM
If I'm looking at a photo of a man with a great body, defined muscles, etc, I'd rather not see his penis. I do not find them attractive. Maybe a novelty if one is extremely large or small, but definitely not something I seek out to look at. If I'm rushing around getting ready for work, I am certainly not turned on by my husband changing clothes or stepping out of the shower. During sex, it's not the penis itself that turns me on. But it does get me off.
This is me too. Even looking at my husband's naked body does nothing for me. Now if he lost 20 pounds maybe. LOL!!
Stratego
10-18-2009, 11:40 AM
An erect penis is sexually arousing to look at, because I know that it means that a guy is ready to go. But in itself, as a body part, no. I don't find it attractive. A man's eyes, face and ass are far more attractive to me.
Storm
10-18-2009, 12:39 PM
You might as well ask if one finds the hands sexually attractive.
You might as well ask if one finds the hands sexually attractive.
Not to be completely off topic, but hands are damned sexy.
SelfMadeBum
10-18-2009, 12:44 PM
Erect, yes.
Very much so.
Storm
10-18-2009, 12:45 PM
Not to be completely off topic, but hands are damned sexy.
But could you be shown a picture of hand and determine whether or not the woman with them was attractive or not?
That was my point. Sure, any body part can be attractive, but it's not what makes a person attractive.
The Psyentist
10-18-2009, 12:47 PM
Not attractive. Neither is a vag.
Seriously
10-18-2009, 12:48 PM
But could you be shown a picture of hand and determine whether or not the woman with them was attractive or not?
That was my point. Sure, any body part can be attractive, but it's not what makes a person attractive.
I thought that was what the OP was asking. Can a penis be an attractive body part not does a penis make a person attractive.
SelfMadeBum
10-18-2009, 12:50 PM
But could you be shown a picture of hand and determine whether or not the woman with them was attractive or not?
That was my point. Sure, any body part can be attractive, but it's not what makes a person attractive.I thought alrightgame meant whether the penis in and of itself was considered an attractive, er, organ.
To me it is.
Some are downright beautiful.
uneingenue
10-18-2009, 03:00 PM
it depends on who it belongs to.
childofprodigy
10-18-2009, 03:12 PM
I'd hypothesize that women's attraction to a penis is equal in magnitude to a man's attraction to a vagina...
And personally, I don't really find the vagina that attractive...I mean I'd love to screw it, but not to touch it or kiss it or something...touching or kissing the vagina is kind of eww...on the other hand, I'd love to touch or kiss the boobs....but not so much the vagina...so the boobs is much more attractive than the vagina...the vagina's just there to be screwed, not to attract...
Coralaisly
10-18-2009, 03:21 PM
Well being a straight male, I cant personally comment but I can say that my friend really appreciates different types of penises. She would tell me how she found the form and the size attractive. I have to agree though, that it does look like a root or something of that nature. I can't understand why anyone finds it attractive.
I think some women feel the same way about breasts and other parts of the female anatomy. Because you have it/them, they're nothing really special.
As for gay men, I can't speak for them, since I'm not one. I enjoy hanging out with my gay friends and hearing their opinions, and it's interesting to me since we seem to have similar taste in men, and I can't really understand where their attraction comes from because it's foreign to me, and they seem open to attempting to quench my insatiable thirst for knowlege and understanding. I know I'm attracted to what's different from me. I like accents and people who look/dress outside of social norms. Being attracted to stuff you've already got, I don't understand, but would like to.
I also end up thinking too much. I end up thinking about all the processes and circumstances leading up to a situation or occurance, and I sometimes end up stuck in my own head instead of living in the moment, but I think that's a pretty common thing for INTJ's in varying degrees.
stiletto
10-18-2009, 05:08 PM
Come on, how come so many of y'all have never seen a rather attractive dick? Some are just so well sculpted and nice to look at, part of me feels like it's almost a crime to not recognize the merits of a nice dick...
And suddenly, I feel like a perv, and here I thought I was pretty vanilla (by supposed 'male standards', at least).
Though, yeah, other physical features are higher on the list; it still doesn't depreciate the value of a nice dick, IMO.
And to Coralaisly, I don't really see it as 'parts I already have', because I only have my own anatomy, which doesn't do anything for me sexually. The whole self/other division makes a significant difference. We all have different features, and most of the fun of anything social (or sexual) is discovering those things in others.
Causa Mortis
10-18-2009, 05:14 PM
And personally, I don't really find the vagina that attractive...I mean I'd love to screw it, but not to touch it or kiss it or something...touching or kissing the vagina is kind of eww...on the other hand, I'd love to touch or kiss the boobs....but not so much the vagina...so the boobs is much more attractive than the vagina...the vagina's just there to be screwed, not to attract...
I'd have to disagree, under the right circumstance the texture is...divine.
alrightgame
10-18-2009, 05:21 PM
Would you all say that the penis attracts you because it shows you that the guy is turned on by you? Is attraction 100 percent roleplaying? Would humans be attracted to anything if we were not roleplaying the attraction?
stiletto
10-18-2009, 05:22 PM
Would you all say that the penis attracts you because it shows you that the guy is turned on by you? Is attraction 100 percent roleplaying? Would humans be attracted to anything if we were not roleplaying the attraction?
I suppose that that's part of it, but certainly not all. There's also virility/the ability to perform, and aesthetics in general. And then also the whole thing of genitalia being a symbolic representation of the expression of sexuality on the whole.
Edit: I usually take more of a selfless perspective in gratifying others. I don't really care so much about how my ability to get them off reflects on me. There's always a bit of that, but it takes the backseat to just being 'of service' to others when you want to be. There's just something inherently hot about making others feel good (assuming you want to provide for them in that faculty).
Plane Stress
10-18-2009, 06:18 PM
You might as well ask if one finds the hands sexually attractive.
I agree. I think this thread seems to suggest that it completely depends on what the woman/gay man finds attractive. I'm a guy and straight and I don't find vaginas to be particularly attractive.... they're not something I particularly pay attention to.
Synamon
10-18-2009, 06:53 PM
There is a What body part do you find attractive (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.) thread, this isn't it. Please try and stay on topic in this thread. Thank you.
Lucid
10-18-2009, 07:33 PM
Yes, an erect penis can be very sexy! There are, of course, different kinds and some are nicer than others. Flaccid, not so much. But they're still kind of fascinating even then... they're strange and unusual little organs when flaccid.
Conversely, I do not find the vagina to be attractive in any way. They look strange and they're... well... slimy. :yuck:
spacecase
10-18-2009, 09:15 PM
some are nice-looking, and some are not-so-nice-looking. i would say in my humble experience (lol), there is no correlation whatsoever to how good looking the actual guy is. and it doesn't count for much, having a good looking cock. i mean, if someone is getting a good look at it, you're pretty much in. but anyway, i think of it as like appreciating abstract art. sometimes it looks good in a way that is not obvious.
and i resent the comments that vaginas are "slimy" and "gross". seriously. vaginas are fabulous, and some of them are beautiful.
Cincinnatus
10-18-2009, 09:22 PM
Does a woman or gay man find the penis a sexually attractive part of the body, like other physical attributes?
Oddly enough, this has come up in conversations before, and the women I've asked have said yes.
Causa Mortis
10-18-2009, 09:53 PM
and i resent the comments that vaginas are "slimy" and "gross". seriously. vaginas are fabulous, and some of them are beautiful.
Quoted for truthiness. Yeah it would be gross while I'm having a fish taco, but generally they range from neutral to very appealing.
Lucid
10-18-2009, 09:59 PM
and i resent the comments that vaginas are "slimy" and "gross". seriously. vaginas are fabulous, and some of them are beautiful.
:rolleyes: I'm making a subjective value judgment. The use of the term "gross" would be a huge clue that I'm speaking of a personal preference, not an objective fact. Furthermore, vaginas are objectively slimy. It's just that a good portion of the population finds that appealing. This is something that I'm glad of, possessing a vagina of my very own, but not an opinion that I share. I am not eight. Are you offended by people disagreeing with your personal sense of sexual aesthetics? The thought of burying my face in someone's vagina just isn't very appealing to me.
Quoted for truthiness. Yeah it would be gross while I'm having a fish taco, but generally they range from neutral to very appealing.
Right, because you're a heterosexual male. I imagine that heterosexual females or homosexual males do not share this preference with you.
Assuming one enjoys sex, then a psychological link will develop between the image and the act. Thus whenever a guy sees the pink he knows it is likely to proceed sex, likewise an erect penis means the same to a woman. This would be much like the smell of cooking food proceeding eating. Since one enjoys the food, one likes the smell of the cooking.
My researches lead me to believe that many women find the penis to be funny, in a ridiculous sort of way, as if it was just stuck on to the body and seems out of place.
Vagrant
10-19-2009, 07:53 AM
I agree. I think this thread seems to suggest that it completely depends on what the woman/gay man finds attractive. I'm a guy and straight and I don't find vaginas to be particularly attractive.... they're not something I particularly pay attention to.
I think the way the labia compliments their curves when walking is attractive. But yeah, completely by itself, there's nothing special about it.
MagicLoro
10-19-2009, 08:11 AM
The penis is a great size for holding, that's all I'm worried about. It's the sum of the parts that makes the whole.
Autoptic
10-19-2009, 08:23 AM
Assuming one enjoys sex, then a psychological link will develop between the image and the act. Thus whenever a guy sees the pink he knows it is likely to proceed sex, likewise an erect penis means the same to a woman. This would be much like the smell of cooking food proceeding eating. Since one enjoys the food, one likes the smell of the cooking.
Again, virgin. I reacted the first time I recall seeing a skin-mag. It certainly wasn't learned.
SShack
10-19-2009, 10:39 AM
I'm more of a butt guy myself. I'm also primarily a top, which may influence my lack of concern about the attractiveness of a penis.
paleoeco
10-19-2009, 12:25 PM
A penis can be beautiful regardless of whom it's attached to, just like a well proportioned chest, or muscular and nicely defined arm. Though, generally speaking, I find flacid or semi-flacid ones more attractive than a fully ererct one.
For me to find a dick to be a nice looking dick, it needs to a "shower" and not a "grower". In other words, I need to have a sense of it in it's full glory, not some tiny 2-incher that grows to 8 when hard. Nicely proportioned, its length compared to its girth, and a head that doesn't overwhelm this proportion. Oh..and not look like it's coming out of the Amazon is a good thing...think more a majestic oak growing out of a well manicured lawn.
inscrutable
10-19-2009, 01:43 PM
I find them to be rather grotesque looking. Of course, sexual attraction isn't based solely on appearance, and there is a certain psychological aspect associated with the function and use of the penis. However, as has been said before, the actual sight of a penis is not something that I find to be sexually arousing or appealing. It depends on a lot of factors, especially who it's attached to, and is fairly independent of the actual organ itself. So I'd have to say no, the actual penis is not something particularly sexually attractive to me.
RdtheLiterature
10-19-2009, 08:14 PM
It grows on you I suppose. It's not like Vaginas aren't wierd looking either...Allll the sex organs are oblong and wierd. ( the one eyed snake- the gash) they didn't invent those names for nothing...
Do I like them? It depends on wether they're erect or limp...I find an erection highly arousing and usually find myself wanting it in me. It mirrors the desire of a guy wanting to put his in a girl. I believe this is the fundamental (most primitive) part of sexual arousal.
Also I think if a girl comes to trust her partner (in mind and especially body!) well enough, she'll fall in love with his penis eventually...
MirrorMirror
10-20-2009, 07:44 PM
This is the flip side to a thread I saw concerning men.
Not to sound perverse, but I'm curious: Do men generally find women's vaginas attractive?
Nikonman
10-20-2009, 08:19 PM
I sure find the vagina to be very attractive. Some are more attractive than others, but I've yet to personally see one that was not a turn on. The variations are fascinating to me. I particularly enjoy it when my lover is fine with leaving the lights on. Otherwise, I find myself wishing I was wearing one of those miner's hats with a light on top so I could see everything in detail. I had one friend who thought a scar from giving birth was ugly, so she did not want to ever leave lights on. Ladies, most of us could not care less about a little scar in that area. If you want some action, leave on the lights and show it off. I've had several girlfriends who did not like leaving the lights on at first, but I think they eventually figured out that I was likely to camp out 'downtown' a whole lot longer if I could appreciate the view in addition to the taste and feel, and then they'd often leave the lights on. I've only dated one woman I felt was truly an exhibitionist. I really, really enjoyed dating her when it came to our sex life.
Mogura
10-20-2009, 08:20 PM
Considering the fact that the U.S. porn industry makes more money in a year than some countries' GDP, I think the answer would be a resounding yes...
Vagrant
10-20-2009, 08:21 PM
As I said in the other thread -- the way the vagina compliments the curves of a woman's body makes it attractive (compared to my clunky junky). But by itself, there's nothing particularly attractive about it.
If I'm feeling particularly horny, the vagina by itself may be attractive to me though.
hubcap
10-20-2009, 08:51 PM
Attractive? I would say it depends on who the vagina is attached to.
Erotic? Definitely.
Il Prodigio
10-20-2009, 08:52 PM
yeah i mean. i would say so. just like a person it can be aesthetically pleasing or not.......but i find them to be very cute.
Autoptic
10-20-2009, 09:00 PM
Some are cuter than others. Some are unattractive.
Lights off would be a dealbreaker. Actually, I was hoping that was just a myth.
Some look like weedwhacked roast beef sandwiches soaked in au jus. And some look really pretty.
Pretty vaginas are important, but the rest has to be good, too.
You might as well ask if one finds the hands sexually attractive.
Yes, actually. Hands and shoulders are sexy. But sex organs, no. That's my view. Since these views differ, I'm suggesting a poll.
Sunyata
10-20-2009, 11:19 PM
Can I still chime in on the sexy penis line of thought?
No one has mentioned the differences between the uncircumcised penis and the circumcised.
An uncut male penis is more attractive and certainly more mysterious!
clockwatcher
10-20-2009, 11:46 PM
oh man, i love dick. i still remember watching 'wild things' and getting so turned on by kevin's bacon when i was like, 12. i hate falling under particular stereotypes, but i am a bit of a size queen. actually, more than a bit. i don't know what it is, really, but the sight of a long, thick penis will never get old. even as i'm typing this... yea.
lamplighter
10-22-2009, 06:32 AM
This is the flip side to a thread I saw concerning men.
Not to sound perverse, but I'm curious: Do men generally find women's vaginas attractive?
Depends on which one. Like the individual they're attached to all of them are unique, and some are attractive with nice symmetry and healthy coloration. Then there are some that look like two pieces of over ripe ham flapping against eachother.
Causa Mortis
10-22-2009, 12:17 PM
Can I still chime in on the sexy penis line of thought?
No one has mentioned the differences between the uncircumcised penis and the circumcised.
An uncut male penis is more attractive and certainly more mysterious!
Yeah a lot of American women report this. A lot of European women report the opposite. I think whatever is most exotic is most sexually appealing in this area.
I think both the male and female sex organs are hideous.
HOWEVER- they sure are fun ;)
Vagrant
10-22-2009, 03:33 PM
Depends on which one. Like the individual they're attached to all of them are unique, and some are attractive with nice symmetry and healthy coloration. Then there are some that look like two pieces of over ripe ham flapping against eachother.
AGHHHH MENTAL IMAGE.
Actually, I've heard worse. >.>
It's like trying to open a grilled cheese sandwich. >.>
tp6626
10-22-2009, 03:40 PM
I think they pretty much are both attractive, in the sense that it's generally something you don't see up close every day. So naturally, you're going to be slightly interested / curious to see them.
Is a user submissions picture thread too taboo for forum rules here? I'd kindly point out the lazy eyes! ;)
green eyes
10-22-2009, 08:21 PM
Depends on which one. Like the individual they're attached to all of them are unique, and some are attractive with nice symmetry and healthy coloration. Then there are some that look like two pieces of over ripe ham flapping against eachother.
For clarification purposes, would you mind telling us what constitutes as "healthy" coloration and what constitutes as "unhealthy" coloration?
Nomadofthehills
10-22-2009, 10:20 PM
I really can't believe people engage in oral sex. Who sees a penis and actually considers putting it in their mouth? Its quite gross when you think about it, as is kissing and actual intercourse.
Sexual organs are nasty, secondary sexual characteristics ftw!
admittedheretic
10-22-2009, 11:04 PM
I would like to hear some female opinions on the testicles as it seems nobody really wants to comment on them. Does the size of them matter? Is there a proportion of the Beans to the Frank that is more attractive? Large breasted women often complain about the negative aspects of their endowment, but rarely do I see men complain about the pain large genitals can be at times.
elsdfr
10-23-2009, 02:10 AM
I don't think so, "bumping uglies".
People in porn are not the norm. Unless you watch that other stuff.
LordCorbin
10-23-2009, 04:46 AM
Not to sound perverse, but I'm curious: Do men generally find women's vaginas attractive?
Ive seen some so stunning I thought they should be put on display in an art gallery.
lamplighter
10-23-2009, 10:25 AM
AGHHHH MENTAL IMAGE.
Actually, I've heard worse. >.>
It's like trying to open a grilled cheese sandwich. >.>
MMMmmm yeast infections.... A little extra cheese on your taco?
For clarification purposes, would you mind telling us what constitutes as "healthy" coloration and what constitutes as "unhealthy" coloration?
Well it depends on one's ethnicity, but the labia majora should be roughly the same color as the rest of the skin, pink or a darker hue in coloration. The labia minora should be the same, but is more often pink along with the hood and clitoris. Finally the inside/center should be pink. Unhealthy coloration would be purple, yellow (like school bus yellow), red (due to inflammation) and green. It should also not be dripping any opaque fluids. As the fluids produced by the body in anticipation of intercourse should be translucent.
Nikonman
10-23-2009, 12:32 PM
The labia minora should be the same, but is more often pink along with the hood and clitoris. Finally the inside/center should be pink.
I dated an Asian woman who was very bothered by the fact that her nipples and labia minora were darker than those of the typical caucasian female. This woman had by far the best body of any woman I'd ever seen in my life, and at age 49! She was a long distance runner. The fact that she was at all bothered by her looks pointed out how almost anyone can have issues over their body. She thought those features were "ugly" and I thought all of her features we fabulous. It is a shame so many people have a hard time feeling positive about their bodies. I suspect her issues stemmed from growing up with Farrah as the ideal female.
For those of you too young to remember the original Charlie's Angels and Farrah's famous swimsuit poster, she was all the rage back in the mid 70's to the early 80's. I saw show a few years ago about Farrah's "superfans." These guys were just sad 50 y/o socially challenged men who live by themselves, never had a girlfriend, and have their walls covered with 30 y/o posters of Farrah, their dream woman. They dream big, unattainable dreams, and seemed to be similar to the "love shy" type that has been discussed in another thread.
Nomadofthehills
10-23-2009, 03:52 PM
I would like to hear some female opinions on the testicles as it seems nobody really wants to comment on them. Does the size of them matter? Is there a proportion of the Beans to the Frank that is more attractive? Large breasted women often complain about the negative aspects of their endowment, but rarely do I see men complain about the pain large genitals can be at times.
I'm not a female, but I'm pretty sure all balls are roughly the same size.
Lucid
10-23-2009, 05:06 PM
I'm not a female, but I'm pretty sure all balls are roughly the same size.
They are not. There's as much variation between the testicles of individuals as there is between the noses of individuals.
That said, it's not something I've ever really cared about one way or another. Some are more attractive than others, but size has almost nothing to do with it provided the specimen is within normal ranges.
Alright, I'm going to chime in as someone who's sexually attracted to both sexes.
A vagina, by itself, close up, I don't find visually attractive. However, if you zoom out, just a bit, so you see the vagina in it's surrounding environs, surrounding legs, buttocks, etc, it quickly becomes very attractive; captivating to a startling degree, in fact.
You need a certain zoom on a breast as well, I feel. Just an areola, for example, I don't think has much to visually recommend it, but the areola as the peak of a wider view is the pinnacle of perfection.
The penis can be quite lovely as well, but again its aesthetics increase when taken as the centerpiece of a larger view.
Testicles I'm more or less indifferent to.
So, I suppose I would say that the sexual organs are most attractive when they serve as the visual focus at the center of a larger view of the body, rather than when they are viewed in isolation.
niffer
10-24-2009, 04:04 AM
No way. Genitals look so sci-fi!
But I do think my boyfriend's is beautiful. Not aesthetically (especially not the pubes >_>), but because it's part of him. I feel drawn to it...like a certain affection towards it. I feel a certain responsibility for it.
realJim
10-24-2009, 02:39 PM
nope - male or female look other worldly
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