DeepPurple
01-05-2008, 06:45 PM
I recently skimmed through Understanding the Enneagram by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson and they mention that you cannot change your Enneagram type. They also break up each type into 9 levels. You can be healthy, average or unhealthy.
My question has to do with changing your type.
There have been people on the board who mentioned that their MBTI type has changed. So I am assuming that it is possible. However, where do you distinguish between having a well developed x and actually changing your type. I realize that If I reach some of my goals that involve improving my communcation skills, I imagine the following scenario:
INTJ in teen years to early twenties.
eNTj in mid to late twenties.
eNtJ in my 30s.
Possibly an INfJ in my 40s.
Back to an INTJ later on.
The way this would come about is if, I develop my social skills. If I were to master the skill of assertiveness and more self-awareness, my communication with people would be a lot better. If I can communicate better with people, social gatherings, awkwardness and anxiety would not be an issue. If it is not an issue than I wouldn't mind being around people for long amounts of time. Now if I were to take the test again after all this I would come out either an ENTJ or an XNTJ or borderline. The idea to shift between all these types confuse me. Have I really changed or have I just developed a useful skill. Have I truly become an E or do I just have a well developed E. If an internet test were to type me as an ENTJ or an ENTP. Would that be as a result of my obtaining new skills and using them and having them affect the way I behave in my every day life or has the cognitive process really changed? Would an INTJ who is a comedian and deals with people on a daily basis, come out as an ENTP on the online test and really be an INTJ. Questions on some online tests talk about preferences and scenarios. For instance, I get tripped up on dreamer/realist type questions. I consider myself both. When being made to choose one or the other or neutral it becomes confusing.
The thing with the Enneagram is I would still be a Type 5. I would just be a five who has gone from being an unhealthy version, to a healthy version. My thought process would still be the same and I would still have some of the same defaults, but I would know how to deal with them better.
I hope I have explained this clearly enough. If not, I'll clarify in a later post.
My question has to do with changing your type.
There have been people on the board who mentioned that their MBTI type has changed. So I am assuming that it is possible. However, where do you distinguish between having a well developed x and actually changing your type. I realize that If I reach some of my goals that involve improving my communcation skills, I imagine the following scenario:
INTJ in teen years to early twenties.
eNTj in mid to late twenties.
eNtJ in my 30s.
Possibly an INfJ in my 40s.
Back to an INTJ later on.
The way this would come about is if, I develop my social skills. If I were to master the skill of assertiveness and more self-awareness, my communication with people would be a lot better. If I can communicate better with people, social gatherings, awkwardness and anxiety would not be an issue. If it is not an issue than I wouldn't mind being around people for long amounts of time. Now if I were to take the test again after all this I would come out either an ENTJ or an XNTJ or borderline. The idea to shift between all these types confuse me. Have I really changed or have I just developed a useful skill. Have I truly become an E or do I just have a well developed E. If an internet test were to type me as an ENTJ or an ENTP. Would that be as a result of my obtaining new skills and using them and having them affect the way I behave in my every day life or has the cognitive process really changed? Would an INTJ who is a comedian and deals with people on a daily basis, come out as an ENTP on the online test and really be an INTJ. Questions on some online tests talk about preferences and scenarios. For instance, I get tripped up on dreamer/realist type questions. I consider myself both. When being made to choose one or the other or neutral it becomes confusing.
The thing with the Enneagram is I would still be a Type 5. I would just be a five who has gone from being an unhealthy version, to a healthy version. My thought process would still be the same and I would still have some of the same defaults, but I would know how to deal with them better.
I hope I have explained this clearly enough. If not, I'll clarify in a later post.