What body part do you find attractive/sexy?

[JustMel]

On the male it's the hands, chest and upper back.

I don't have a specific thing I find sexy on women. It's usually just overall silhouette/shape.

[phoenix]

Hair...on both men and women. Preferably long, but it has to be well groomed.

[cereza]

Chest, hands, lips, eyes.. the whole package works for me.

[wotsamattaU]

Men's legs and thighs (think Sean Connery in his day - huge plus if you have his stride running across the street), the hands & wrist area I find intriguing and also the nape of the neck.

[phoenix]

<snip>...and also the nape of the neck.

Ohhhh yes, the curve of the neck as it moves into the shoulder. A very yummy area, and my favorite place on a man for tender kisses and not-so-tender nibbling.

[Jonathan Brewer]

I'm attracted by quite a few female parts I'm afraid. The biggest turn on for me is a nice round butt. After that it varies from eyes, lips, hair, small of the back, thighs, and even the belly. I'm all guy I guess. ;)

[dalidaisy]

The eyes...

It's always the first place I look. If I am able to look away, I guess next would be the lips.

[WaeV]

Eyes, especially when they have that sort of unfocused look. The face in general.

[JustMel]

I'm amazed at all the responses that say eyes and impressed that not a single guy has said boobs.

[JohnDoe]

Eyes

[Sinequanon]

I'm amazed at all the responses that say eyes and impressed that not a single guy has said boobs.
I'm just honestly having trouble trying to figure out how anyone can limit their lists to anything more than "everything". ;)

There's just really nothing about the (healthy/hygenic) female body that's not overwhelmingly attractive if it's pondered upon. :)

[JohnDoe]

I'm just honestly having trouble trying to figure out how anyone can limit their lists to anything more than "everything". ;)

There's just really nothing about the (healthy/hygenic) female body that's not overwhelmingly attractive if it's pondered upon. :)

Well, I read this as what do you look at *first*. Maybe that wasn't actually in the OP.

[Mozzes]

I'm amazed at all the responses that say eyes and impressed that not a single guy has said boobs.

I'm particularly fond of the naughty bits.

[lilaznme423]

Hmm...I would have to say the eyes and the nose!! if they are in proportion that all hell will break loose for me!! LOL^_^_^ big eyes and "nice" nose lol

[Menosthenes]

For me it's probably a tie between the face and legs. In all honesty I don't think I care too much for anything else so long as they aren't actually disfigured.

[SpaceCadet]

I have a near fetish for large (especially hooked) noses. A really dominant aquiline profile almost hypnotizes me.

[une fille]

I've disclosed my obsession elsewhere on this forum, but guys with prominent forearm veins are so attractive it's ridiculous. It's probably the one physical factor that I consistently pay attention to.

[Jonathan Brewer]

I'm just honestly having trouble trying to figure out how anyone can limit their lists to anything more than "everything". ;)

There's just really nothing about the (healthy/hygenic) female body that's not overwhelmingly attractive if it's pondered upon. :)

+1 Absolutely! :thumbsup:


Well that about sums it up. What else do you did? ;D

[ToC]

warts on the perineum are pretty sexy

[Deliberator]

For men: Shoulders, arms and hands (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.)
For women: Boobs and tummy (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.). And boobs. (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.)
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For men: Butt (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.)
For men and women: those adorable dimples (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.) that form sometimes between the lower back mucles and the top of the butt-cheeks
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In sum, practically everything... except maybe ears. Ears are cool, but not really sexy.

[Zombicide]

I guess this particular laws of attraction thread (that's what I'm calling them for now for lack of a better term) is safe to post on without contributing to that negative body image shit women get as long as I'm vague and I don't specify, so uh I'll say legs 1st, then hips and ass (if that even counts separate from legs) and then her waist, then crotch, then shoulders and arms, bust and head. Mostly legs. I guess hands are kind of important but they seem to go hand in hand (not a pun) with arms, so it's probably redundant to mention hands but whatever. . .Yuh know what, maybe head is more important than her waist. Anyway, legs. . .which in my case or i.e. the case I'm vaguely referring to seems to strongly correlate with waists and arms etcetera anyway (or do they?) so I might as well have just said her legs and head unit. . .but then I'd have to specify what kind of legs/ass. O.K.. . .legs first, then crotch (wait that's not separate from legs), then a girl's head and by head I mean e.g. cranial capacity in an almost physiognomy. . .although I should really stop because their forehead isn't correlating very much but I can't much help it. . .ok this was awkward. Yuh know what, everything I like about them follows from their legs and ass i.e. they're almost guaranteed to have everything else I like if they have the leg/ass. . ./crotch. . .and waistline

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[towith]

Regardless of the cliché the eyes would always have to be first. Then prominent hips, full thighs, high cheek-bones, bitable lips and similar to SpaceCadet, a hooked nose. Now to go from zero to ostracized; the molars, especially if the person is wearing braces.

[JustMel]

You won't be ostracized on my account. I think that everyone has something they find attractive in other people and I'm not going to judge anyone else's turn on. Raise an eyebrow and ponder perhaps but not judge....

I have male friends that love everything about a woman and they love all women and don't stress about whether she's skinny or fat or just chunky. If it's female they appreciate it. I also have male friends who have a specific type and if the female doesn't fit that type they don't even get a number. Shallow but true.

I'm a firm believer that it takes all kinds to make the world go around.

I do think that my biggest turnoff/least favorite attribute on a man is manicured fingernails. ughhhh

[Nomadofthehills]

Breasts. Particularly large natural breasts on a petite frame.

That and freckles, and natural red hair. That said, I find redheaded women are either insanely attractive, or hideous. I rarely notice those between both extremes.

[NonChris]

Ha, the guy with One Eye says "eyes". Am i the only person crackin up?

[JTG1984]

long tapered legs!

[Meyer]

When a woman with nice legs and butt has on tight jeans and you have that diamond shape gap where her upper/ inner thighs meet her you know what....that gets me every time.

[alphawolf]

The eyes are without a doubt the most important feature.

[Extas]

eyes

[jcb]

eyes and hands. man, i love hands on a woman.

my ex has the most amazing eyes i have seen located in a female skull. they kill me, still.

my previous doctor, apart from being pretty cute, had the most amazing hands i've come across. proportionate, well-looked after nails and strong looking without being masculine.

love 'em!

having said that, i find the overall grace of movement of certain women mesmerising.

[Trenchant1]

eyes and hands. man, i love hands on a woman.

Yes, I'm not too keen on handless women. No offence intended to handless women.

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[MaleVolentworld]

eyes
eye brows
nose
lips
cheeks/cheek bones
chin
hair
neck
breasts
stomach
back
hips
bee hind
reproductive organ
legs
feet
hands

I think the only thing that I am indifferent to is arms and ears, everything else can be beautiful.

[Chain]

In order of importance, not necessarily the order I notice:

Chest- Equipment doesn't work with smaller and fake women
Hip/waist ratio- higher the better
Curves/shape/fluff
Hair- longer the better, preferably longer than mine. Above the shoulders is a no go. I also prefer non-straight hair.
Eyes and face- as long as she's kissable, I'm good
Height- prefer taller women.
How well they age- I age slowly. I would prefer someone the same way.

[ranwayslo]

Eyes first. Once I have confirmed signs of intelligent life. I am an ass man.
Seriously though Pretty eyes are so sexy and women can use them to devastate me. I can just get lost looking into a woman's beautiful eyes. Works even better than liquor for bringing me out of my shell.
A slow sensual wink! I will jump out of my comfort zone sans parachute. Not many things will grab and hold my attention like that!

[Valielen]

The smile... Not just the mouth but how the entire face lights up in a smile.
Also, I have a really odd attraction to the belly, more specifically that line of hair that is like a path enticing you to go further.

[universalis]

a nice hard cock is always sexy

sometimes
boobs
vaginas
asses

as well.

[Henry]

On the male it's the hands, chest and upper back.

I don't have a specific thing I find sexy on women. It's usually just overall silhouette/shape.

For women its hair, facial symmetry, a firm but round ass.

For men...attractive isn't the right word. I would like to look like Arnold did in his late 20s/early 30s though, and find this pleasing to look at.

[SelfInflected]

Usually the headlights. They look like eyes beaming meaning into deers screaming.





SelfInflected added to this post, 2 minutes and 35 seconds later...

Serioulsly, I find the spinal cord to be extremely sexy.

Oh, and the plural of deer, is: deer... I know

[Shinqui]

Definitely eyes, but this includes eyebrows, which I find tremendously sexy when shaped a certain way. Lips, my god, I could stare at my girls lips for days. How about that little hollow at the bottom of the throat? Mmmmm tasty! Legs, legs and more legs, and lets not forget legs, I also like legs and how they are attached at one end to feet and at the other end to an exceptionally tasty posterior. (Well, yours is baby)

Mmmm, legs covered in nylons or tights, feet imprisoned in spikes, the delicate line of a thong emphasizing the contours of the ass, lips with dark lipstick and eyes framed by arched eyebrows.

Tasty!

[Prunesquallor]

I'm just honestly having trouble trying to figure out how anyone can limit their lists to anything more than "everything". ;)

There's just really nothing about the (healthy/hygenic) female body that's not overwhelmingly attractive if it's pondered upon. :)

Unbent elbows. There is nothing, nothing at all, sexy about an unbent elbow.

[Sinequanon]

Unbent elbows. There is nothing, nothing at all, sexy about an unbent elbow.
I spent a good minute thinking about her (and of course there's a specific her) unbent elbow and I had to stop because I do have work to do today. I Also took as good a look as possible at my own unbent elbow and I have to disagree with you. I'm dead sexy, sorry to say.

Maybe you're hanging around people with horrible elbows... :)

[dalidaisy]

Definitely eyes, but this includes eyebrows, which I find tremendously sexy when shaped a certain way. Lips, my god, I could stare at my girls lips for days. How about that little hollow at the bottom of the throat? Mmmmm tasty! Legs, legs and more legs, and lets not forget legs, I also like legs and how they are attached at one end to feet and at the other end to an exceptionally tasty posterior. (Well, yours is baby)

Mmmm, legs covered in nylons or tights, feet imprisoned in spikes, the delicate line of a thong emphasizing the contours of the ass, lips with dark lipstick and eyes framed by arched eyebrows.

Tasty!

Hehe, I'm your girl...

Did I mention how I feel about bald heads?

[Rho1334]

for me its definately eyes, then hair...dont know why. Then the complete package...not too big, not to small...but its always the eyes that get me

[Shinqui]

Hehe, I'm your girl...

Did I mention how I feel about bald heads?

Oh, you did far more than mention darling. :lovestruck:

[cereza]

For men: That line (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.) going from the hipbone to the crotch


Drives me wild.. that`s why I have a penchant for men going commando in sweatpants.

[4sakentears]

Hmmm... I think I'd be the hair, it's the first thing I look on people.

[Jonathan Brewer]

For men and women: those adorable dimples (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.) that form sometimes between the lower back mucles and the top of the butt-cheeks

This picture made certain things happen when I saw it. :wideeyed:

For men: That line (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.) going from the hipbone to the crotch

My wife is always staring at me here and wanting to run her fingers across it. I thought she was a bit weird but apparently she isn't the only one. ;)


I notice all these people saying "eyes" are the most important feature. I guess my question is does that mean you couldn't have a meaningful relationship with someone who is blind? :uneasy:

Don't get me wrong. I love to look in a woman's eyes but as far as I'm concerned if you look long enough in anyone's eyes you will find them beautiful in some way or another. *shrug*

[dalidaisy]

I notice all these people saying "eyes" are the most important feature. I guess my question is does that mean you couldn't have a meaningful relationship with someone who is blind? :uneasy:

Don't get me wrong. I love to look in a woman's eyes but as far as I'm concerned if you look long enough in anyone's eyes you will find them beautiful in some way or another. *shrug*

It's not necessarily the look they give back that's key. Not knowing any blind people makes me conclude that you are saying that there is something lacking there. I would have to answer that I have no idea.

In my experience, I can read a lot about a person through eye contact. So, it's not the shape or color of the eye that draws me, it's the intensity in the gaze & what's behind the eyes that matters.

I think a lot of what's contained in that look in the eye is what it has seen & the knowledge gained. So, I guess a blind person would have more of a blank stare.

But, in the case of a blind person, I think I would have to delve deeper. It would be a completely different kind of perception of attraction with them. I do not think anything physical would be particulary enticing, so much as what comes out of their mouth when they spoke.

[amyleanne]

Women - tiny waist.

Men - broad shoulders.

(alright--boobs and penis)

[theDoc]

It's the calf and ankles for me. I don't know why but it sends a tingle down my back for me.

[JTG1984]

It's the calf and ankles for me. I don't know why but it sends a tingle down my back for me.

I hear you man.
I thought I was picky jesus... after reading some of these posts I dont even know what to say other than good luck?

[JustMel]

I hear you man.
I thought I was picky jesus... after reading some of these posts I dont even know what to say other than good luck?

I started the thread and had the same thought. :laugh:

I know a lot of people in real day to day life that are extremely picky and most are single.

If you ask my husband his ideal woman was a red head, with boobs no bigger than a 36 C, not short and soft spoken.......

He fell totally in love with a brunette with red highlights with 44DDs who is 4'10 and who raises hell regularly....

[Sinequanon]

He fell totally in love with a brunette with red highlights with 44DDs who is 4'10 and who raises hell regularly....
So did I, as it happens...! :lovestruck: ;)

[llBradll]

I'd have to say I'm attracted to almost every part of the female body. Preferentially brunettes, with a below average sized frame, but a decent sized ass and rack, long legs.

[prefect]

Jawline, shoulders, necks, bone structure. Nice skin is wonderful.

[JustMel]

So did I, as it happens...! :lovestruck: ;)

We're an interesting group of women aren't we??

[ntwady]

I tend to like athletic girls, so...athletic body type. Yeah...

[void]

I like big butts and I cannot lie,
You other brothers can't deny,
That when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist,
And a round thing in your face,
You get SPRUNG

[Jonathan Brewer]

I like big butts and I cannot lie,
You other brothers can't deny,
That when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist,
And a round thing in your face,
You get SPRUNG

+1... 'nough said. ;D


In all honesty, I couldn't agree more. You can keep all the skinny, flat, shapeless females that match so perfectly the stereotypical "beauty". I'll take the thick, curvy, shapely women that society tries to dub "fat". Screw the status quo. ;)

[Prunesquallor]

You can keep all the skinny, flat, shapeless females that match so perfectly the stereotypical "beauty".

No bust, no bum, body of a twelve-year old boy: why not like guys?

[Maayan]

Not the penis. Penises make me want to prod and giggle. (You think I'm joking...)

[Jonathan Brewer]

Not the penis. Penises make me want to prod and giggle. (You think I'm joking...)

Be careful. Giggling at a man's penis can make him self-conscious. ;D

[geGamedev]

Eyes are definitely first, with the rest of the face being a close second. Basically if I can't stand looking at a person directly, it will be a little difficult to maintain any worthwhile conversation. Also, like someone else in this thread mentioned already, eyes can tell a lot about a person.

From a more perverted perspective I'd have to say the crotch and chest would come right after the eyes. As long as her chest is neither huge nor flat, I'll probably be interested :D.

[Feral]

A nice wide chest, and broad shoulders on guys.

[AliTree]

what i find most attractive on males is hair and face structure. if they have pronounced cheek bones, soft lips, strong eyes, etc.

the only thing good about the female body is if they have pretty faces, also.


imo.

[JustMel]

Be careful. Giggling at a man's penis can make him self-conscious. ;D


According to my husband what I did to my first was worse than giggling. We were both virgins and he fancied himself in love with me and when we were done and he was spouting love lines I looked at him and said "what? that's it? that's what it's all about?" My husband says I scarred the poor boy for life. I dumped him 3 weeks later. Found out I was pregnant from the interlude several weeks after that.

[Henry]

There are "LOL it looks like a forearm" giggles and then there are "that's it?" giggles.

What's more important are the noises that come when the organ in question is inserted in a given orifice; if she's still giggling, you have a problem. Gagging, moaning, and screams of pain/pleasure are signs that the giggle wasn't something to be insecure about.

According to my husband what I did to my first was worse than giggling. We were both virgins and he fancied himself in love with me and when we were done and he was spouting love lines I looked at him and said "what? that's it? that's what it's all about?" My husband says I scarred the poor boy for life. I dumped him 3 weeks later. Found out I was pregnant from the interlude several weeks after that.

He had to learn the truth about women at some point, better he learns it at 16 or whatever than at his first divorce.

[Maayan]

Be careful. Giggling at a man's penis can make him self-conscious. ;D

I don't let the man keep me down.

[caveman]

I'll take this as an exercise, so let's try to define what I like most about a girl.. like 10 years ago I might have said eyes, but since then I've become more and more.. interested in other parts.. I think it's boobs that turn me on the most but it's the ass and face that most of the times are a turn off so maybe this are more important..

[darynthe]

Manly strong wiry arms. with manly beautiful hands. *shudders*

[JTG1984]

Manly strong wiry arms. with manly beautiful hands. *shudders*

Im not even sure if "wiry" and "strong" belong in the same sentence.

[Zhen]

intense eyes

[Henry]

Im not even sure if "wiry" and "strong" belong in the same sentence.

I think by wiry but strong she would mean very lean, muscular-but-not-bulky arms.

[LaoTzu]

well I guess I'm off her radar ;)

I look at the eyes, but the hair is a turn-on for me as well. I have a thing for the tight curly locks, or thick full hair that goes past the shoulders.
One girl I dated had thick full curly locks that were so long.....I just wanted to nest in it all day...

(her 38EE's didn't hurt either :P)

[The Flying Elvi]

Sadly..but brunette foremost and the EVERYTHING in proportion.. Preferably a girl with curves in all the right places.

[darynthe]

Im not even sure if "wiry" and "strong" belong in the same sentence.

You made me doubt so I checked out the wiktionary. Wiry is defined as "lean muscular and flexible." Which is what I had in mind. :) Men's arms are fascinating. Ｉlove also when they have fuzzy light hair on them. Tanned are great.

[Nemesis]

On women... the butt......round, tiny, wide, or toned....as long as it makes me grin. More importantly I LOVE nice eyes and well defined high cheekbones...oh my the cheekbones... just lights up the whole face mmmmmmmmmm. If anyone is wondering what the hell I'm talking about (this happens often) look up Lisa Marie Presley and gaze in awe.

[JustMel]

On women... the butt......round, tiny, wide, or toned....as long as it makes me grin. More importantly I LOVE nice eyes and well defined high cheekbones...oh my the cheekbones... just lights up the whole face mmmmmmmmmm. If anyone is wondering what the hell I'm talking about (this happens often) look up Lisa Marie Presley and gaze in awe.

As someone who was born and raised about a mile from Graceland and still lives less than 15 miles from there Lisa Marie Presley is just annoying but she is pretty. I believe she's prettier when she's NOT talking.

[Plane Stress]

I like faces. Other than that it's more about how someone carries themself than how they look.

[Solaris]

*ponders*

Eyes. I am crazy for eyes. After that, it's really what's behind the eyes. I've known all body types, and I prefer a more "masculine" look, so either size enough to have presence, or muscles enough to be manly looking. Once attraction is established, I start noticing the neck and ears. I also pay attention to the man in proportion to me, as I enjoy a good snuggle.

[universalis]

Once attraction is established, I start noticing the neck and ears. I also pay attention to the man in proportion to me, as I enjoy a good snuggle.

Hmm yeah that got me thinking.. I look at the physiological package first as a whole if its attractive, I start asking why and then move on to the psychological and intellectual

Attractiveness (in order of strength of preference)
- hips hips hips. must be narrow. I can't date a girl with wide hips. impossible.
- Short(ish) (I'm quite tall - so balances out)
- Medium sized firm breasts, on a thin frame
- Cute/pretty face. not a strong hard jawline
- Necklines
- Leglines
- medium to long blond hair

Overall package, thin, shortish, very cute. I can't stand the gangly tall alien looking models on Fashion TV. ugh.

[Dreamshaper]

The first place I look is the eyes. Then I apply my evil mastermind gaze and mentally dissect them from the inside out...

But seriously, its the eyes that does it for me. A guy rarely impresses me with his good looks, but if he's got nice eyes...I just might consider blessing him with my presence a second time. ;)

[phantasma]

Men: eyes/eyebrows, strong jawline, muscular legs, arms, and for the chest/abs, the perfect balance between toned and ripped, and hands. Everything's important, though it's all a close second to his mind.

[JustMel]

Hmm yeah that got me thinking.. I look at the physiological package first as a whole if its attractive, I start asking why and then move on to the psychological and intellectual

Attractiveness (in order of strength of preference)
- hips hips hips. must be narrow. I can't date a girl with wide hips. impossible.
- Short(ish) (I'm quite tall - so balances out)
- Medium sized firm breasts, on a thin frame
- Cute/pretty face. not a strong hard jawline
- Necklines
- Leglines
- medium to long blond hair

Overall package, thin, shortish, very cute. I can't stand the gangly tall alien looking models on Fashion TV. ugh.

Still single??? What a lot to live up to in order to please you. WOW. You do know that wide hips is not something she can control and that they'll usually spread after childbirth just as the boobs generally lose the firmness after childbirth.

[TheLastMohican]

Still single??? What a lot to live up to in order to please you. WOW. You do know that wide hips is not something she can control and that they'll usually spread after childbirth just as the boobs generally lose the firmness after childbirth.
Well, to be fair, that's the only feature on which he says he is unwilling to compromise. Many of us are the same way regarding certain personality traits.

[JustMel]

Well, to be fair, that's the only feature on which he says he is unwilling to compromise. Many of us are the same way regarding certain personality traits.

I suppose it's just weird for me because I've dated all types. I never had a "type". I went for the person. usually the first thing I noticed was if they could make me laugh.

[TheLastMohican]

I suppose it's just weird for me because I've dated all types. I never had a "type". I went for the person. usually the first thing I noticed was if they could make me laugh.
Thankfully I have been recently enlightened of the higher truth of the Ladder Theory, and know that such traits fall in the category of "things women say they care about but really don't." :p

[universalis]

Still single??? What a lot to live up to in order to please you. WOW. You do know that wide hips is not something she can control and that they'll usually spread after childbirth just as the boobs generally lose the firmness after childbirth.

Indeed. Her control of the wideness of her hips is of no concern. I am talking about genetics (not childbirth). I can't control having long arms and being tall.

Some perspective: I have had proper girlfriends in the past and now recently decided to just do fuck buddies (although that is getting boring) are easier but until I meet someone who meets the standards I set, no more relationships. Similarly I'm sure they will have high standards too and would expect that. I am making sure I meet those standards and be as attractive as possible. (physically, socially, financially, intellectually, etc). It's a two way thing.

I purposefully made myself not fussy in my early twenties, to sample what is out there so I can know exactly what I want and do not want. That makes it all the more likely we will stay together if I *do* find what I'm looking for.

I put effort into being brutally honest upfront. I don't believe in destiny and crap like that, so I put effort into long term sustainability and risk management of a relationship. Why must I go to all the trouble of getting involved in a serious relationship if the person does not meet the level of quality I would deem to be acceptable upfront?

Could I compromise? Absolutely. Is there a risk the pool is so small I may not find what I'm after. Sure. I don't spend too much time thinking about it and let people know what it is I want. If that matches the needs and expectations of a suitable partner great. If not that's fine too.

However total overall value must be matched with matched with similar levels on both sides. It is not enough that a girl is simply hot, or she has a beautiful and intelligent mind.

[green eyes]

I have a weakness for broad shoulders/a nice upper back (shoulder blades are so beautiful!). No other body part of a man compares to a nice set of shoulders. I think it helps me feel safe and protected for some reason, too, and I really like that kind of thing.

[Doki]

I find women attractive if they look after themselves physically, the right diets and exercise and keeping clean. Either that or a young Marilyn vos Savant.

[Nemesis]

As someone who was born and raised about a mile from Graceland and still lives less than 15 miles from there Lisa Marie Presley is just annoying but she is pretty. I believe she's prettier when she's NOT talking.

That's the way things usually go.

[Linwenilid]

I fall for a cute face regardless of the rest. It's the idealistic teen in me.

Also, a muscled chest and a six-pack in a lean frame are good, but only secondary to face.

[Gaby]

I love men with beautiful arms, with well-defined muscles, but not too big. I also pay attention to their lips and eyes...

[JustMel]

Thankfully I have been recently enlightened of the higher truth of the Ladder Theory, and know that such traits fall in the category of "things women say they care about but really don't." :p

Not for me. I don't care about a lot of things that other women say they do but don't or vice versa. I don't set out to meet a particular type. I just tend to be more attracted if they make me laugh first.

[goulas]

Damn, I just wanted to give a short answer. My answer: It depends. If I'm evaluating a female, I would have to say the first thing I notice is hair which I favor long and black and after that comes the derriere and of course breasts. This is signifigant because my relation, sexually speaking, to another female is very superficial. For males? Prior to marriage would have to be eyes, jawline and a cross between forearms and biceps. Now that I'm married it reverts back to a sexually superficial nature. I "notice" tall, large framed men with signifigant muscle on the arms and legs because I prefer to take a submissive role behind "closed doors". .....wow, I just learned a lot about myself.

[Solaris]

I would like to add that I find something incredibly attractive about men who have just had a nice haircut as well. I can hardly contain myself when a partner has had his hair cut.

[Shorgenfunkel]

The biggest turn on for me is a nice round butt.

Yea verily, said the LORD from the heavens; I like big butts, and I shalt not lie. Mix-a-Lot, 25:17

Too big isn't good though, that's just, well... icky. Face and hair come next. General shape of the silhouette is up there as well. After that, it switches around.

[Silence181]

I would have to say the thing I find most attractive would be the ass. The first thing, however, that I notice when a girl enters a room would be if she has long shiny hair. Its a secondary sex characteristic and means that the girl is healthy. And that would be my random bit of knowledge for the day...okay, for this hour at least.

[sunlover]

Eyes.....definitely the eyes.

[alphawolf]

On the male it's the hands, chest and upper back.

I don't have a specific thing I find sexy on women. It's usually just overall silhouette/shape.


Long, long, thin legs.

I love the type of female body that most women love to hate.

Yeah, they can wear knee-high, high-heeled leather boots.

[raharu]

It's the tummy for me. I dunno why, maybe because it's hard to maintain :P.

[faris8888]

definitely The Eyes first & then Their long Hair and then the curve

[charolastra]

Facial hair. When I dated my boyfriend the first time I around, he was clean shaven. He was a nice guy but physically wasn't incredibly attracted to him and when I left to go to Iceland, I decided to leave that part of my life behind. 6 months later, I was home unexpectedly for 2 months and decided to see him just as friends. When he got out of the car with a full beard, I almost jumped him right then and there.

[TheWanderer]

Face,Hair,eyes.
Roughly in that order.
Must be something about our type that really appreciates the faces, huh?

[Freedom Geek]

The brain...
Aside from that it's a whole package which can't really be split up.

[JustMel]

Face,Hair,eyes.
Roughly in that order.
Must be something about our type that really appreciates the faces, huh?

I thought the same thing.

[Harmony]

Aside from facial features (mainly teeth and eyes)... I notice the neck and collar bone for some reason...

[JustMel]

Aside from facial features (mainly teeth and eyes)... I notice the neck and collar bone for some reason...

That's my original area. The upper chest to the collar bone and the upper back. Yummmm.

[Phoenix rising]

BOOOOOBS! O.k, too obvious, in no particular order: Eyes (preferably green or blue), smile, kissable stomach, legs, as for hair- pig tails always look hot, can't really narrow it down to just one body part.

Not a body part I know, but dark rimmed glasses, grrrr!

[Jantei]

Eyes, eyes, eyes.

I also have a fetish for pale skin, especially when combined with a slender, healthy body (a rare combination).

[Latro]

The obvious handful: face (especially cheekbones), eyes, breasts (at least I'm honest about it). General body shape is also a big one, however (depending on your body type, there are different appealing shapes associated with it, though rail thin and >200 lbs are both pretty much ruinous to be blunt) and for some reason long brown hair is just too much for me to get past.

I'll say this as well: I have no attraction to black women. I don't quite know why. I don't find them ugly (I can point out a black woman that looks good, for example) but I can't get any kind of attraction to them. I can be attracted to white women, all types of Asian women, and Hispanic women (although less of this overall), but black? It just doesn't happen.

[inscrutable]

hands, forearms, shoulders, pointy noses

[Plastikcat]

Eyes.
Face.
Hair.

order of priority.

[ezri89]

I'm attracted to guys with very dark brown or black hair, bright, dominant eyes, and nice teeth. I also like pale skin if its kept in good condition, but I'm all for natural skin color. Tans are usually a turn off for me unless it's natural. I can find anyone attractive though if they're intelligent and have a compatible personality and good hygiene.

[SelfMadeBum]

Back, Arms, Calves... in that order.

[MikeC]

sharp features, and legs. Gotta love legs. I dont mind small breasts at all, but I live for toned legs.

[JTG1984]

sharp features, and legs. Gotta love legs. I dont mind small breasts at all, but I live for toned legs.

ditto MikeC! Thank god for toned legs!

[SShack]

I'm amazed I hadn't posted on this thread yet.

Butts and eyes. Strange combination. At least it always gives me something to look at no matter which direction he's facing.

I never really thought much about calves, but my INTJ guy has absolutely amazing calves, the biggest I've seen on any guy who isn't a bodybuilder. So now I tend to notice them more frequently.

[Tristan]

ditto MikeC! Thank god for toned legs!

Ditto here too! I first awakened to girls while running Track & Field.

[fatkattykat]

For me, I like men who have a nice face, nice eyes, and a nice tapered back/strong shoulders. And my boyfriend's pecs <3<3. ;). I have to second the comment about glasses, I just find men with glasses super sexy.

For women, I guess I find attractive everything I am not...tall, tan, and have full muscular thighs and small perky boobs.

[Stratego]

Well, well. I can't believe that I never posted in this thread...

For me, what I notice first is a man's eyes, then his mouth, then his hands, and then his legs and finally his ass. If I had to say which part I found the most attractive, I would say his ass--and if it's flat and seems to curve inward or cave in then my appreciation for him dimishes significantly...

But it's also how the how the package works together. I love a deep, pleasant voice that isn't nasal or frog-like. I like long legs and a wide chest and back, I like dimples and a crooked smile, and I will melt for a truly perfect smirk on a man, accompanied by a sharp, dry wit and a little maliciousness. (I'm guess I'm describing a tall, hot INTJ ;) )

[Iconoclash]

I'm really curious to the reason behind the prevalence of "eye" responses. Is that the staple remark or something? I'm pretty sure in my day to day experience, most people would conclude I'm an elitist snob who does not look at anyone and just does his work. From a distance and without talking to me about anything that stimulates me, you probably consider me pretty damn cold or angry judging from my eyes, and 99% of the time I'm just simply indifferent. So all those "eye" responses bother me to a degree, because it's as if a person who prefers eyes suddenly have the honor of being readers of the soul or something.

But generally for me, I notice distinctly female anatomy like breasts and ass that noticeable in jeans. I live in a part of the country, though, that this type of woman is almost mythical and only as real as your HDTV resolution would allow.

[Storm]

You can tell someone's emotions just by looking at their eyes. If you want to tell if someone's smile is fake, you look at whether or not their eyes crease. That is probably why people find the eyes the most attractive, because it's where you see their emotion.

[wittykitty]

Men: the face- mainly the lips and smile, big eyes.
Women: the face- big eyes, wide smile and a nice ass.

[Hamsta]

Face first, has to be attractive as a whole, not a specific feature, but more about symmetry and good proportions.

Next comes the navel. I have a thing for narrow horizontal shapes. (Posing a problem in cooler climates :/ )

After that it's boobs. :P

[Cincinnatus]

I really enjoy taking the female form in as a whole. This seems to take the emphasis off of specific parts. So, for example, I like women with curves so that would include the boobs, hips, butt, thighs, and waist among other body parts. It's really the first thing I see anyway, because I can't make out the face in detail until they're in a certain distance from me. That's not saying there's some drop-dead gorgeous faces out there.

Side note: If a women can work those curves while she's walking, she can turn the thermostat up without even trying!

A guy's physical features stand out when he has a well-developed body. There again, it's more the human form taken in as a whole. The man doesn't have to be a body builder, but if I can place a V over the body, it's noticible.

[Blse]

Face above all; cute subtle features, small nose and big eyes.

[Winston]

The first thing I see in a girl is her eyes. The eyes are one of the most amazing parts of the body. They're beautiful.

[SeaCzar]

I can't believe I've missed this thread as well. Anywho.....

First off, its the mind. If that is not there, in sufficient capacity, then the deal is off.

That said, I am a sucker for the S curve of her back butt and legs......

[CJay]

Sparklie Blue eyes (or green) with dark brown hair.
Cute butt and tight thighs, nice broad shoulders and firm arms.
I always liked 6' plus, built like a line backer cause it made me feel safe to be around a guy who looked scary and grumpy when he was mad... Problem was no one told me that a 6'5" guy with a size 15 shoe and broad shoulders would also have other parts that were big too... guess that is what I get for being too innocent lol.

[JustMel]

Sparklie Blue eyes (or green) with dark brown hair.
Cute butt and tight thighs, nice broad shoulders and firm arms.
I always liked 6' plus, built like a line backer cause it made me feel safe to be around a guy who looked scary and grumpy when he was mad... Problem was no one told me that a 6'5" guy with a size 15 shoe and broad shoulders would also have other parts that were big too... guess that is what I get for being too innocent lol.

Not all of them are blessed with all the parts proportionate.

[Autoptic]

'eyes and face though it's still holistic.

[Julie]

I can't say that any one part is more attractive, because everything has to work together. I also don't have a 'type'. It's all about how a guy carries himself - confidence (not arrogance). However I seem to be drawn to good teeth, big hands, and a broad nose. The good teeth is a big one...

[The Maelstrom]

er... everything?

I definitely respond to a pretty face at first, eyes are very noticeable but the face has to work for me. A certain amount of curvaceous-ness in the body on a certain scale between skinny and plump. Shiny hair gets my attention too... though that may be the ADHD...

But if we're talking past preliminary assumptions... I just... like everything.

Smell, taste, scent, sound, sight... its the whole effect on the senses.

[Hinun]

In no particulary order...

1. tummy (flat, I hate anything else)
2. larged shaped eyebrows (male or female, I don't really care)
3. eyes
4. boobs (not size, just nicely shaped orbs, preferrable B's and I hate saggy boobs, so I normally don't like girls with large breasts)
5. nice nose and lips...

[Obsidean]

Eyes and nose for me

[callmemigs]

Girls: Breasts (yes, the loveliest to look at), Lips, Eyes, Nose, Shape of the Face, Hips
Guys: Chests (especially if its hairy), Lips, Eyes, Nose, Forehead, Height

[alphawolf]

ass

[Pcell]

Men: back, shoulders, and arms. I like it when they are toned and strong feeling, but not necessarily muscly. The triangle torso shape is also nice. I'm also attracted to dark hair and eyes. Being slender or average weight is also important.

Women: neck and shoulders, legs, hands, eyes. I find women with graceful bodies and features to be very attractive, but that might be because I grew up dancing ballet. :p

[reb]

my vote; what's tween the ears. if there is nada between the ears, the rest is just 'junk'. if there is something tween the ears, i still may not find it 'overwhelmingly sexy' but at least it's interesting and can compute.

[skycloud86]

On women, expressive eyes, dark hair and a curvy/average figure are all very attractive features.

[ProxyMe]

1.A man's five o'clock shadow on the chin, jawbone, neck.
2.Hairy chest
Oh, very sexy.

[Baccara]

my vote; what's tween the ears. if there is nada between the ears, the rest is just 'junk'. if there is something tween the ears, i still may not find it 'overwhelmingly sexy' but at least it's interesting and can compute.

Same here. Not really attracted to people for the physique so much as the person. And nice to hear it from someone else;I was beginning to despair that I was the only "mind over matter" person here, so to speak.

[mnmeq]

I don't think that it's that people don't value substance, but it seems the thread is asking about a physical attribute.

in my case, a flat belly with just a hint of definition, but not too much. hot.

[dragonsscout]

Eyes, hair, and overall silhouette/proportions.

As far as the mind goes, I don't think it counts in the context of this thread...

[paleoeco]

1.A man's five o'clock shadow on the chin, jawbone, neck...oh, very sexy.

And the part that's tattooed and/or pierced.

[Kris]

For pure sexual attraction definitely ass and hips

However, I am drawn to a woman mostly via eyes and then smile

[thod]

I am a sucker for a pretty face, provided the rest of her is not deformed. I spend most of my time looking at her face, I read her reactions and emotional state from it. Thus I want to see something pleasing. Women are all hyper sensitive about some body part though, I couldn't actually care if her toes are too large, although the chances are its all in her mind.

[rickster]

On a dude:

Lips - the thicker the better

Teeth

Neck

Armpits

Hair - long and/or outta control

I never look at eyes, and prefer a flat undeveloped chest - it's somewhere to rest the ashtray in the sack.

[themuzicman]

I'm a breast man, although the flow of the female form is the most beautiful thing any man can behold. Then I notice how a woman conveys herself in her actions: Intelligent, fun, reserved, outgoing, etc.

[ArtistTyrant]

Everything -_-
Mainly eyes/face and feet.

[Mjolnir]

for a woman:
toned (not bulky) shoulders/upper arms
collar bone
freckles

[DanteFalling]

I have a thing for the face, eyes, back of the neck, clavicle, and space just between the calf and ankle of a guy. I also like hands with long fingers.

[larkin]

On women, lips and the mouth. The shape of the mouth is a thing. The smile, the half-smile especially.

On men, I have a thing for when you can see the muscles around the hip bone, but not if it's because his jeans are low rise. That should be something only I can see.

[Brion]

The hip, stomach line... hour glass... egyptian belly dancing is amazing... I actually watch it on TV, they have a fitness channel that shows it all the time..

[Seriously]

I like backs. And mouths...

On both men and women.

[SelfMadeBum]

...And I go nuts for a sexy smirk.

Makes me wonder what naughtiness he's thinking.

[alphawolf]

Ass, tits, legs, eyes, lips, stomach, arms, ...

[wittykitty]

Women: Face/Ass/Slender figure.

Men: Face (bone structure!)/Slender figure/Tall

[catzmeow]

Chest - preferably hairy
Legs
Arms
Hands...I'm a sucker for big, masculine hands
Eyes
Lips.

Ah, hell, I like it all. ;)

[liquidzilla]

Overall neatness
Hair that isn't too long (although I have been with a long haired guy)
Strong arms

I'm not really into that much appearance wise, I've been with very different guys and liked them in different ways.

[Lovepuss]

Bedroom eyes ... the killer ones that gaze at u and make u fall and fall deep (I have a weakness for eyes of men who r like that)... the next thing I really like r their hands... also their gait when they walk... esp the confident types who walk purposefully (knowing what they want and where they r going). Recently this guy I am interested in is cool with the way he looks when he flexes his back and u can see the outline of his back across his shoulders... very sexy esp over a coat :D

[BryyM]

I have to say ties a large pair of thigh's. And i am a real sucker for light blue eyes, can't resist them. And love handles, a soft one to the tutch. I also like eyes/faces/asses like the rest of you.

[The Psyentist]

Here's an odd one: the area right below the eyebrow on females. The curve of the brow bone and the way it reflects light is beautiful.

[phej]

At first blush, the eyes, then symmetry, and then the contrasts of color (e.g. blue or hazel highs with raven colored hair, or brown eyes with blond hair.).

Long term, the most attractive body part is the CNS.

[MikeAZ]

Some stereo types are true ->> T&A, something about those curves is hard wired to my sex drive.

also like a high pitched voice

[NoStoneUnturned]

I don't like one body part over any other. I usually find what's best in everyone. Then I just focus there. I usually like women who are short and cute, though. Though still, I really like a little of everything.





Still single??? What a lot to live up to in order to please you. WOW. You do know that wide hips is not something she can control and that they'll usually spread after childbirth just as the boobs generally lose the firmness after childbirth.


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[Elfrun]

Eyes, particularly their shape, shoulders, arms, hands, waist (I like a lil something to hold onto), shoulder blades, curve in lower back, naughty bits.

[curiousgeorge01]

Hmm honestly for me, as long as a woman is proportional in measurements and has a pretty face I'd find her hot. By proportional I mean that her body is a good mix of traits, and it could be anything. One of my friends says he only likes large breasted women to which I countered "oh yea what about Shakira or Charlize Theron, I think they're mad hot" to which he replies "that's not fair because they're famous or one can dance." I don't see anything wrong with my logic though. What an idiot...

[Gahz]

For a woman:
1. Face.
2. Abdomen (thin, but certainly not anorexia/Ethiopia-style thin)
3. Ass (preferably smallish)
Chest doesn't really matter for me, as long as it isn't grotesquely large.

On a related note, I find Asian-looking women appealing..

[thod]

On occasion some women's breasts seem to protrude to the point that they seem to be poking them into my face. I get the inclination to 'honk' it. This means to cup it in the hand and squeeze a couple of times whilst making the 'meep meep' sound from the roadrunner cartoons. An odd thing to desire, I am not sure it is sexual either. Anyone else ever have this thought or am i just odd?

[BryyM]

On occasion some women's breasts seem to protrude to the point that they seem to be poking them into my face. I get the inclination to 'honk' it. This means to cup it in the hand and squeeze a couple of times whilst making the 'meep meep' sound from the roadrunner cartoons. An odd thing to desire, I am not sure it is sexual either. Anyone else ever have this thought or am i just odd?

You sure are not alone on this, i have had a greater lust to honk random womens breasts than to boink them....its so hard to resist the urge to honk!

[LadyInHeels]

I love a guy with a masculine silhouette,
slender hips & stomach, broad shoulders

I think women with an exceptional hip/waist ratio are ridiculously attractive

[Amberleigh]

Hmmmmmm. . . .for me I guess it would first be the guys arms and then maybe his waist

[DylanTS]

Her Gluteus maximus defiantly. Not large but shapely.

[Therion]

For women: Eyes, nose, hair.

2 out of 3 works for me.

Generally I tend to be more attracted towards smaller women. Not a big tits/ass kinda guy.

[jonnyb]

A pretty face, petite and awsome personality is a clencher for me.

[Wintersun]

Face, especially eyes.

I saw a particular girl on the street before and drowned in her eyes... and couldn't eat or sleep properly for the next 2 days.

No other body part has half that kind of effect on me. Thing is, I usually read people's characters, emotions and intentions through their eyes. To see someone so intense and so patently erudite is a life-changing experience. Most people have a more "I don't care as long as I get paid and I get laid" look from where I come from.

That said, the Afghan girl on the National Geographic cover scores #2 on my "intense eyes" list, though her eyes depicted more of suffering and a hatred of the world rather than of detailed understanding and passion which were in the eyes of that #1. Pity I probably will never see that again.

[sfawkes]

You know, for a group of people who have a reputation for being icy it's getting mighty hot in here.

Body parts that I find sexually attractive: wide hips, the waists on wide hipped women and full lips.

Features that I find more generally attractive: very dark eyes, dark curly hair, olive skin tone and freckles. Also I find short women attractive. I think it's because I assume she's a firecracker.

[mmgirl]

I love a man with a very nice @$$. And if I see him with his shirt off, he has to have nice nipples. And I hate alot of body hair.

[escapist11]

A guy's eyes will just about do it for me.

[Milady]

I quite enjoy broad shoulders on a man, and a lovely, handsome face.

[BostonIan]

Eyes. Clichés are boring, but eyes do seem to be the most important thing. Not eye-lashes or anything, more that there should be a brightness and intelligence in them, and, if not, its "the lights aren't on, nobody's home", or sometimes a noxiousness than you can almost smell; nobody wants to dive into a beehive.

Hips. Wide hips, especially "high hips (To view links or images in this forum your post count must be 2 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.)". Partly the movement while walking, but mainly it's the silhouette/shape they give the body. I never not notice a woman with that feature.

Skin. I still get surprised by the feel of it, and blushing is another thing. There was someone in high school, a little attractive, an amazing blusher. When she laughed hard or got embarrassed, she'd turn uncontrollably deep crimson red; cheeks, ears, neck, splotches down her chest. Maybe just a lot of curiosity, but the idea of sleeping with her was always amazingly appealing. Blushing = sex, basically.

[tokjd79]

I honestly don't have any one physical trait that does it for me any more then any other part of the woman I'm attracted to. I just like women in general, I can always find something I like.

But if I had to generalize I guess I would say I always notice eyes and hips first.

[eagleseven]

The first two things I notice? Face and ass, in that order.

Intelligence or lack thereof is a close third, but it takes longer.

[papkan]

Face especially the eyes and mouth. Naturally pretty, I don't like a lot of makeup. Ugly feet are a big turnoff too

[nuloki]

Hips, round breasts, or shapely legs most of the time

Ha, the guy with One Eye says "eyes". Am i the only person crackin up?
Haha "eyes are the window to the heart"

[SwordAcolyte]

The most powerful thing is a girl with 'piercing' eyes, I havent met many, but they leave quiet an impression. Generally, I like the 'bright eye' look, breasts are a big thing, combined with an overall athletic appearance. I will tell you what, thick legs and 'gross' knees from too-much soccer or hiking are REALLY attractive to me.

[Cash]

On a girl: Smile, smaller frame, and thicker rounder hips. Most girls who have these type of hips would probably consider themselves overweight, but I love it.

Can't stand: Fat ankles and calves. Immediate turnoff.

[Silverthorn]

Long, long legs

[JustMel]

I can't believe this thread is still going on. WOW. It also appears that the eyes have it. I should have included a poll.

[runoverazebra]

The shoulders and the neck.

[srkelley]

Face, breasts and size. Not necessarily in that order, the face must always be pleasant. A small woman with a nice face and breasts that match or are small definitely boil my blood the most. When I say small, not child small, but more of a petite build. Thin. I want someone who I can easily hold or wrap my arms around.

A woman with a strong personality or with power in her can also take me for a ride. She just can't be the type who I could imagine as an evil version of Alexander the Great.

[forzen]

Face and belly button.

I like cute faces.....But i can't explain why i like belly buttons.

[lostandfound]

Certainly the eyes. Soft, intelligent, caring eyes. Eyes you can get lost in...

[IrishGuy]

Looks: Lucy Liu embodies a lot of the physical characteristics that I would seek in a woman. Pretty eyes, smooth silky hair, soft skin, nice body....Athletic, but not Serena Williams athletic...slight bias for asian women...

Personality: Intelligent. Intelligent. Intelligent. I don't like pushovers; she has to be able to stand up to me; challenge me to do new things. Energetic. Must appreciate natural phenomena like sunsets; that tree with flowers when the light hits it just right; the beach (kayaking a bonus but not required); walks on the beach....etc. etc.

Hmm. I've read this. Realized that I am a Virgo and an INTJ with impossible standards. I'm SCREWED.

[jesster]

The torso is a make-or-break for me. I don't mind an average face if he has a rocking build.
and I don't mean a bodybuilder physique, just something that is slightly larger than average, solid, chunky.... I like that.

But it's really a killer smile that gets me, which is a combo of eyes and mouth, and the way he works it. I like a sly shy sweet mysterious secret cheeky smile.

[Paranoid]

Somewhat intangible, but the mind is the biggest attraction for me. I often fail to notice body parts but can get totally hooked on someone's mind and personality.

That said, I have a weakness for tattoos, so any body part with some nice ink going on will defintely get my attention.

[AceBrown]

I'm an Assman so I love a nice, round booty. Also, I'm always initially attracted to facial qualities like nice smile, sexy eyes, cute face.

[Ikoszzz]

First thing I notice on a woman is face/eyes. I love angular faces with very feminine features, and light skin.

One thing can not stand is the look from being skinny as a result of undereating. There has to be some kind of athlecism, enough so those extra calories go in the right places (although I doubt there can be too much athlecism).

The face attracts me, but it is the ass that really turns be on. Boobs are the same as the face; attractive, but not a huge turn on unless they are high quality.

For a long term relationship, intelligence is a must. Anything I do not think is going to last more than a month or two, and it's not such a priority.

[overseer]

I find a woman's shape and especially her round derriere attractive. However, the eyes are even more important to me, particularly if they have a complicated and absorbing pattern and/or color, but I find I cannot get a good, worthwhile look unless I'm extremely close. If I'm in close enough for that, and I see something unusual, I can become a basket case.





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That said, the Afghan girl on the National Geographic cover scores #2 on my "intense eyes" list...

This girl makes me a wreck, Wintersun!

[Brasse]

Face - A round face (especially the cheeks) with big eyes is probably the sexiest/cutest thing in existence in my humble opinion.

Ass, hips and thighs - Round and firm, but not too large.

Feet and hands - Not "bony", hairy or big (manly).

[NovemberRain]

THE CURVES!
I've seen many pretty women, but only a few with KILLER CURVES.
CURVES!

[Necrosis]

A pretty face is always attractive with nice sleek sexy hair and a pretty smile.

On a seductive level, must have great curves. A great body and curves are very sexy.

[thalia]

Upper back, for sure - I love nothing more than running my hands over a guy's bare back. Shoulders, arms...eyes. Hazel, preferably.

[spielzeug]

I like my men wiry, pale and otherwise nerdy.
I like my women to have hips and ass.

And as far as attractiveness goes...
...if you're not smart, I get bored and rquite mean really fast.

[hubcap]

Face, hair and eyes.

Then cleavage and curves

No skinny women for me.

[CWC]

Broad shoulder bone of a lady
Firm and tone,tan legs and tights
I generally find B+ cup,nothing more of less,preferrably.

[Silverity]

Chest and back are my majors but if I love a man's mind I will love his body regardless. If I could be picky though...definitely broad chest and back. I like gentle giants and wiry nerds. Long legs, only because mine are too. Faces I'm not too picky but I lean towards longer faces and squared or pointed chins. It's very much attitude as well, and, everything? A man might be beautiful but if his personality is horrid I'll consider him ugly.

[thatjailyn]

His eyes. I also LOVE long hair on guys - very sexy.

[Mullanaphy]

Face in general for me. Eyes, cute noses, and expressions included. A girl needs to be able to make playful\fun expressions (fake pouting, etc) to garner my interest.

Feature wise, love pale skin with dark eyes and dark hair, love the contrast. Although no qualms with other skin tones\hair\eyes. Just the one thing in particular, hate, hate, HATE fake colored contact lens and hair dyed to other natural colors. Love a girl that just stays to her natural complexion, although dyed crazy colors are passable.

Sexually it's all about the backside... unfortunately my girlfriend isn't and it's driving me nuts...

[Kin]

In a guy - anything that looks good and "different". In terms of looks, maybe I pay a little more attention to the eyebrows, shoulders, hands, the general body structure. If the guy has obviously worked on his body (think sports, not cosmeticians), I greatly appreciate it.

Wits beat all though.

[EarthBound]

I find brains sexy.
I don't care what they look like, as long as they aren't an eyesore.
(Of course, healthiness and hygiene come with intelligence and bring beauty with them.)

I can only really say what I DON'T like, not really what I do like.
Though I somewhat like that small, teardrop-shaped ridge above the top lip.

[Grotesque]

face, especially eyes and chest

[JohnI]

Eyes, face, neck, breasts, tush, everything between the legs. :-)

[Causa Mortis]

The only types that attract me anymore are reasonably attractive women with demonstrated brains and soul. And by "reasonably attractive" I mean free of morbid obesity, horrible disfigurement, or severe acne.

I used to be obsessed with various body parts on a woman, but really I've found relationships with these types unsatisfying. A tall woman with a fit endomorphic frame catches my eye (probably because I'm a tall, fit endomorph), but, again, I just don't feel attraction to anyone anymore unless she's demonstrated intelligence and soul.

[Guybrush]

The boobies.

[Kin]

I can only really say what I DON'T like, not really what I do like.

Haha, that's so well said!
If someone is fake, no wits/hands/eyes/whatever will save him.

[MiasmaResonance]

Big, rough hands.
Heh.

[mrStevens]

Another vote for curves and smile.

[Obsidean]

attractive - eyes

sexy - ass

[NoOne]

All things about a woman are nice, but I learned what I found attractive the most one time, when my future wife was working with me at a brazing shop. She found that I was the only one there that she could not outwork. Working together, that was very sexy.

However, things come to pass, and before it was too late, our marriage was claimed by her hypothyroid condition--it really messes up personality. It had gone undetected too long. It also claimed our youngest son. Now I am a single parent, wonderful boy.

[True]

For me it is a woman's lower leg, something about that area when it is athletic and nicely toned just makes me happy. Which is probably why I hate when women wear boots of any kind, especially the shapeless Ugg types. It's just not fair, you can't tell if a woman has beautiful legs, or cankles.

[Nikita]

on men? hands and arms...but that's mainly given their purpose

[TheBlackKnight]

I really like a woman's hips, and then the overall shape of the face, preferably round.

[Antares]

On a man? Everything. I don't discriminate. Although I find that cheeks are becoming my favorite.

[SilverFloe]

Let's see. . . hips, waist, ass, jawline and ribs. In that order.

[JRant]

on a man - broad shoulders and large hands with long fingers

[Zodd]

Everything really. I appreciate nice knees, feet, hands, shoulders, ankles, wrists just as much as boobs n' butts (only eyes might be something special). It's all about the whole package, the big picture and the personality that fits her body.

Most woman also only do cardio in the gym, why not hit the weights more! Most men don't give about a LITTLE fat, but its the FORM which is attractive. Its what gives your body character, by hitting weights you make those come forward.
Everybody has nice charecteristics in his/her body. Some people have wide chest area, the other have big arms, the other has treetrunk legs, the other has a strong core, the other has a wide shoulders etc. Also muscles aren't just bigger or smaller but have very different shapes.
Everybody thats more underweight looks the same, but if you train more you can see more characteristics.

When you have a better shape and you have a little more fat you also won't look fat but you will look more like an acoustic guitar. Of course you shouldn't overdo it. Men like good shaped woman as much as girls like muscular men, but you don't want a bodybuilder (or maybe you do).



See her leg and armmuscles.
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This girl can be of same weight and height as the first.
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These woman definately hit more weights then the average woman no doubt.
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On the side note; If you hit the weights you turn fat into muscle and muscle is easier to maintain because you need to feed your muscles. So you can eat more.

[daydreamer]

what part of the body do i find the most attractive... i'm gonna go with the outside

[JustMel]

Everything really. I appreciate nice knees, feet, hands, shoulders, ankles, wrists just as much as boobs n' butts (only eyes might be something special). It's all about the whole package, the big picture and the personality that fits her body.

Most woman also only do cardio in the gym, why not hit the weights more! Most men don't give about a LITTLE fat, but its the FORM which is attractive. Its what gives your body character, by hitting weights you make those come forward.
Everybody has nice charecteristics in his/her body. Some people have wide chest area, the other have big arms, the other has treetrunk legs, the other has a strong core, the other has a wide shoulders etc. Also muscles aren't just bigger or smaller but have very different shapes.
Everybody thats more underweight looks the same, but if you train more you can see more characteristics.

When you have a better shape and you have a little more fat you also won't look fat but you will look more like an acoustic guitar. Of course you shouldn't overdo it. Men like good shaped woman as much as girls like muscular men, but you don't want a bodybuilder (or maybe you do).



See her leg and armmuscles.
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This girl can be of same weight and height as the first.
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These woman definately hit more weights then the average woman no doubt.
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On the side note; If you hit the weights you turn fat into muscle and muscle is easier to maintain because you need to feed your muscles. So you can eat more.

The threads intent was to ask about what individual body part you find attractive or sexy, not for you to give a lecture on how women should hit the weight to turn fat into muscle to then be more attractive to you.

[Johan]

If I had to chose only two parts:
Women: thighs and butts. ;)


It's boring to write "the whole package" thats why I didn't chose that. But in real life, I'd stick to "the whole package".

[Blse]

Shoulders.

[Cooper]

Smile and flash in the eyes...after that...the neck. All that put together will stop me in my tracks every time! Also, a woman's skin...texture? If her skin looks like the way melted carmel feels, I'm a goner...

[Zodd]

The threads intent was to ask about what individual body part you find attractive or sexy, not for you to give a lecture on how women should hit the weight to turn fat into muscle to then be more attractive to you.

I don't have a specific bodypart that I find more interesting then the other so I explained that.
The "lecture" hasn't to do directly with the question from what bodypart you find most attractive, sorry about that. But I do think people that open this thread might also be interested in this and have ideas about this. After 10 pages of this you get the idea:
"butts
boobs
boobs and butts
legs
butts
butts and eyes
eyes and face
boobs
legs
shoulders
boobs"

I just wanted to share with what I found attractive about woman and why I think many woman these days don't look that attractive. Too many woman just buy into the whole skinny model thing which 90% of the men don't find attractive. But still woman are dieting and spending a lot of time doing cardio to look like that.
Why not look good for 90% of the men and eat what you want and only spend 2 hours a week hitting weights? It's all win exept for that 10% of the guys.
Are people offended by what I'm saying?

[JustMel]

I just wanted to share with what I found attractive about woman and why I think many woman these days don't look that attractive. Too many woman just buy into the whole skinny model thing which 90% of the men don't find attractive. But still woman are dieting and spending a lot of time doing cardio to look like that.
Why not look good for 90% of the men and eat what you want and only spend 2 hours a week hitting weights? It's all win exept for that 10% of the guys.
Are people offended by what I'm saying?


As the average size of women in the US is 12-14 and not a 6 I don't think that women are buying into the whole skinny model thing at least not after they get past college.

Furthermore, while you haven't offended anyone to my knowledge (not that I would care if you had) you are projecting your likes and dislikes of attractiveness to 90% of the male population. Why should women who don't care to attract that particular subset of men spend the time, energy and money working out to please them? Most women have no trouble finding a man if they really want one, provided they're not a nut job.

Gross generalizations in general annoy me.

[Zodd]

I'm from Holland where we don't have as much of an overweight problem as in America. And still in America the woman who do wan't to look good their average size is most likely lower then the average of all woman.

I was not talking about woman who don't care what they look like. I was only talking about woman who do care about how men look at them.

[Sora Yukizaku]

Nothing at all really, not even sure what being attracted is like.

[Barbelle]

I like a strong nose. I hate dweeby little Brad Pitt noses on men.
Long hair on men is a turn on, but only if clean and well groomed.
Nice teeth, a strong jaw, broad shoulders and narrow hips, long legs and a neat butt. (I'm describing my husband)

[shytiger]

Those two little dimples at the base of the spine. Love those.

[Swanee]

Athletic legs, tight bottom.

[JCrow]

Nothin' gets my motor runnin' like a nice pancreas. OR kidneys; all juicy and plump.... sorry I need to take a moment...

[S3raphymn]

For some reason, I like the lower back and shoulders.

Gorgeous eyes just arrest me, however. Completely.

[realbeaux]

Hips, face.

And yes, I know it isn't a body part but it is so important -- common sense/intelligence.

[plotthickens]

...
Why not look good for 90% of the men and eat what you want and only spend 2 hours a week hitting weights? It's all win exept for that 10% of the guys?

Artfully manufactured guilt.

[froggifunki]

The first thing I find attractive in a guy is generally not a natural endowment, but is in the way he puts himself together - I mean his personal style. (Sorry if this is too far from the original question but it is so much more important to me that it should be part of the question.) :)

'Cuz the way I see it, you can't much change what God gave you but you can work it to its best advantage and let the outer you reflect the inner you (which is what I'm actually interested in anyway).

Depending on what his natural features lend themselves to, I find the "chic nerd" look (black-rimmed glasses, tailored, retro clothes, newsboy caps etc) incredibly sexy, or the hippie/rasta kind of style (long/dreadlocked hair, linen and hemp, etc) Or a sort of old school rocker look (dean martin, early elvis...hotness!)
of course it's the authenticity that speaks to me - he must be comfortable with himself, inside and out, not trying to be someone he's not.

I guess I do notice eyes, and hair alot. Long, curly, pomp'd, red, blond, Afro... And the pects/shoulders area, under a tight shirt...And I looooove when a guy grows facial hair in a style that really works with his face shape...bonus points for it being red when his hair isn't...

Oh yes, one more thing. The Beatles, in their early days, are probably the singularly (quadrupularly?) best specimens of male hotness I can think of. Just that whole aura of unselfconcious, anti-macho charm and inviting friendliness...*swoons*

[t3hrubikscube]

I seriously love hands and arms.

[Nerdie]

Chest.. wide back.. eyes.. strong neck.. nice veiny arms..

[froggifunki]

what is it with veiny arms? That's just....creepy.

btw t3hrubikscube I likw your av's glasses :)

[SagaLore]

Labia.