jerr
01-21-2009, 09:40 AM
I recently broke up with a ENFJ. But she's still into me and I don't know what to do. I have very mixed emotions concerning loving relationships.
She totally respected:
- I don't talk much.
- I don't have much social interactions and don't care for them really.
- I need time for me, or else I go into my head and she loses me.
- Our life would probably suck according to other people's standards! (we watched movies and talked)
I simply don't know if I should get back with her. Seeing there's probably a small percentage of the people on earth that would even consider me as a boyfriend.
I originally left her (after only 2 weeks of dating) because I didn't know I was a INTJ... and I thought I was so deranged to be like this, I just couldn't see how she liked me. Then she came back to me and explained why she liked me... I didn't despise her either, I just thought I couldn't be a boyfriend... but the again, we talked about the origins of the universe, evolution, the greatest discoveries, things I really enjoy thinking about.
Aww, relationships are so irrationnally complex! I wish there were set rules to live by for that. I know it's supposed to be "the beauty of the thing", but I don't think I like that haha.
I guess I could give it another shot. Should I just tell her what to expect exactly from our relationship beforehand so she's sure she's making the right decision?
I'll probably make my own mind up... but I'm interested in what others think on that combination.
She totally respected:
- I don't talk much.
- I don't have much social interactions and don't care for them really.
- I need time for me, or else I go into my head and she loses me.
- Our life would probably suck according to other people's standards! (we watched movies and talked)
I simply don't know if I should get back with her. Seeing there's probably a small percentage of the people on earth that would even consider me as a boyfriend.
I originally left her (after only 2 weeks of dating) because I didn't know I was a INTJ... and I thought I was so deranged to be like this, I just couldn't see how she liked me. Then she came back to me and explained why she liked me... I didn't despise her either, I just thought I couldn't be a boyfriend... but the again, we talked about the origins of the universe, evolution, the greatest discoveries, things I really enjoy thinking about.
Aww, relationships are so irrationnally complex! I wish there were set rules to live by for that. I know it's supposed to be "the beauty of the thing", but I don't think I like that haha.
I guess I could give it another shot. Should I just tell her what to expect exactly from our relationship beforehand so she's sure she's making the right decision?
I'll probably make my own mind up... but I'm interested in what others think on that combination.