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Phyconaut
01-10-2009, 01:35 AM
just seeing how many are out their on this forum.

Also do you stick to top or bottom or do you switch?

Zombicide
01-10-2009, 11:39 AM
They say that everyone's at least a little gay but I'm not nearly gay enough to be anything but purely heterosexual. The only males I could find sexually appealing are incredibly convincing transvestites or a very feminine male to the point where I cannot tell that the person even is a male, having a distinctly feminine structure / physiology (not necessarily referring to breast or an hour glass figure). Otherwise I find males to be rather grotesque and I'd prefer to be with even a female of another animal species over a male human. I don't know if the feeling was love or not but I was infatuated with a female peer in jr high whom as it turned out wasn't a girl, she was just so distinctly feminine that I couldn't tell, I was still mildly interested after realizing.

If I were in a gay relationship the other male would have to be on top (as it's called) as he would be the only one aroused.

Kisai
01-10-2009, 11:42 AM
Eh. I like guys. But I LOVE girls. Like in The Spirit, how the protagonist just loves every beautiful woman that he meets, that's how I am. Guys are okay on the side.

Phyconaut
01-10-2009, 02:55 PM
If I were in a gay relationship the other male would have to be on top (as it's called) as he would be the only one aroused.

I know for myself I love to be on the bottom.
the feeling of something inside of me of some one I trust stirs up my feminine side and different emotions. I find it so much fun.

I think its all just the different ways we all get aroused.

I know where I live this is a touchy subject so its nice to just be plain about it.

Vagrant
01-10-2009, 05:02 PM
I like the minds of a lot of men I know.

I just don't like their bodies.

Women, woo!

(I know it seems shallow, but all research on sexual orientation with guys indicates that it's more about the kinds of bodies men are attracted to -- IE straight men get turned on by images of naked women, and gay men get turned on by images of naked men. Exclusively.)

Diamond8INTJ
01-11-2009, 02:36 AM
I'am bisexual, and i never understood exclusivity of being only top or bottom ( its valid, but really i can't just be one thing, because then i feel restricted and limited ), and i am versatile with either sexes ( it depends on my moods and hormones, and how open minded & versatile the partner is :p )...

F6M13
01-11-2009, 06:55 AM
I know for myself I love to be on the bottom.
the feeling of something inside of me of some one I trust stirs up my feminine side and different emotions. I find it so much fun.

I think its all just the different ways we all get aroused.

I know where I live this is a touchy subject so its nice to just be plain about it.


Sounds like dominated/submissive is what you like to be. If that's what you like, go for it.

Phyconaut
01-11-2009, 11:49 AM
Sounds like dominated/submissive is what you like to be. If that's what you like, go for it.

I do enjoy that i also enjoy the Dominating others aspect at times .I'm not 100% any direction i always float around.

I'm bisexual, and i never understood exclusivity of being only top or bottom ( its valid, but really i can't just be one thing, because then i feel restricted and limited ), and i am versatile with either sexes ( it depends on my moods and hormones, and how open minded & versatile the partner is :p )...

Exploration to me is always fun i enjoy finding limits and then crossing them. I know what you mean about the exclusivity thing never really got it but i just do what i prefer at that moment.

its nice to just get people thoughts on subjects that after going to a Lutheran school though high school on subjects that when i was their would have been killed on sight.

Im finally starting to grasp the fact every one is different and that not a bad thing.

so much crap to sort out in my head

Tabemashoo
01-15-2009, 05:30 PM
Sorta gay, sorta bi... More gay than bi.

Well, I'm a virgin, so this is all theoretical, but:
Bottom, but dominant/submissive is a gimme.